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Is it wrong to want to have sex with your first cousin?

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Question - (23 November 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Is it Wrong to want to have sex with your first cousin?

I have liked him since i was very young, around 14 or so, first it was wishing i could kiss him(which ive never done) but since i turned 17 its been to actually have sex with him...(ive had many sexual fantasies with him)

I have even told him that i like him that way, but hes way too proud, and did not say anything. The only reason why i feel this way, its because since i was 14 i felt and i think he actually feels the same way sorta because of the way we interact but, sometimes i guess were both waiting on one of us' signal to 'attack' haha. But i have noticed were both extremely proud.

Or maybe he just likes to tease me, now that he knows the way i feel.

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A female reader, jamiegirl United States +, writes (13 March 2010):

Cousins fall in love and marry quite frequently. My first cousin and I were a couple for many years and very happy. Tell him how you feel before it's too late. Be happy. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009):

i dont think there is anything wrong with it, the only reason there is still a stigma attatched is because of ill informed people ranting about deformed babies and bringing up images of trailer parks. Do you live in GA.?

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2009):

Miamine agony auntIn many countries marrying your first cousin is perfectly normal. The kings and Queens of Europe have always married within the family. It depends on the laws where you live. You can love whoever you like, nobody can stop you from loving. However,in the USA it is illegal to marry your first cousin, therefore, it is wrong to date or have a sexual relationship. Sorry, please find yourself another partner to date and love.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009):

Illegal in the U.S.

So if you two ever happen to be in the U.K. anytime, bonk away cause its legal there. You ccould even marry.

I feel its a bit icky. Then again none of my female cousins are even remotely attractive so... I've probably dodged a bullet here.

Look if you do end up doing the horizontal tango, then for god sakes get on the pill, get him to wear at least TWO condoms and never, I repeat NEVER ever tell anyone about it. I cannot stress this enough.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, imogen1068 United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2009):

imogen1068 agony aunti think you should leave it alone, i guess its okay to have a fantasy about him but dont let it come to reality. hes your blood and in my opinion it wouldnt be right. find someone who you are not related to.

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