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I am in love with my sister's boyfriend's son!

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Question - (23 November 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Aunts. Please Help.

A Few Months ago I Got together with my sisters partners son.

Hes 16 im 20.

it took a while for us to admit how we felt and 1 thing led to another.

my sister then split from her partner and he and his son left.

i was devastated.

now they are back and the son is staying put

the thing is i had put my feelings to the side but now hes back so are the feelings and i really want to be with him but fear rejection.

Also im not sure if he still feels the same.

i cant come right out and ask him so is there signs i can look out for or small subtle things i can do to let him know i like him and get him to like me?

Please help

xoxox

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009):

whether its legal or not, love is love, feelings no no gender. and the ppl saying that nooo its illegal crap, do not listen to them, like i said love is love, no matter what anybody or governmen says, if you have feeling fo the guy, i say go for it, with all your hearts content. good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009):

Ok here is what you do. Stay away far far away from the kid. you are 20 years old and that's illegal. I know its hard but there are plenty of 20, 21, 22 year old guys to love. If you still can't stop loving him after he turns 18 then tell him how you feel.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

its not illegal. in the UK the age of consent is 16.

plus i want even initiating sex

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A male reader, Trip United States +, writes (24 November 2009):

There are tons of signs. For instance the one that says "That's Illegal" and wait two years like a good girl.

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