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Archived questions from: 7 November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Can't stop thinking about my neighbor!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - i have known this boy for about 3 years, he was my neighbour and i loved him so much and still do, i cannot get over him its impossible for me. we never went out but we wernt mates either, it was weird . i just love him so muchhhh. i dunno what to ...

How can I lose a lot of weight before Christmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - Okay i need help my boyfriend lives 2000 miles away and i am going to see him just after christmas the only problem is i haven't seen him in six months and since then i have put on alot of weight and i want to loose weight for seeing him because i ...

How do I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm 19 and my "boyfriend" is 21. I've been with him since August 2008. Last week I found out that he's been “playing around” with another girl since December 2008. I had my suspicions that something might be going on but I had no conclusive ...

Will we be able to last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our f...

Why can't I forgive my ex boyfriend?

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7 November 2009 (F) - My exboyfriend was my first love. I loved him a lot. We broke up 3 months ago. We decided to stay to stay friends but is really hard for me because I haven't forgiving him from hurting me the way he did. Be broke up becaue "it had to be done" ...

Should I carry on chasing him or stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - Ok the lad i like is gorgeous but i'm not sure about his personality. I havn't spoke to him very much in person, but we were textin and talkin on msn. He was flirtin with me so i was flirtin back, then he was jokin about goin to his house to see him ...

My ex wants phone sex but he has a new girlfriend! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - me and my ex boyfriend of 9 months had this great relationship we split up because of my family we had the worst brake up and said things we did not mean , anyway after a month of us being apart he got back in touch saying he still loved me so we ...

Should the break up stop me from being in contact with his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - hey everyone! So my boyfriend broke up with me just over 2 weeks ago and I am still pretty sad about it. Anyways, I was good friends with a lot of his close friends before I knew him and in the past week I've been talking to some of them. I feel ...

I'm very worried that my first time sex will be painful!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - I'm still a virgin, however when I have met the right guy I would like to take things slowly and enjoy myself when the time comes. However I have explored my body and have discovered that the likeliness is that my first time will be very painful, as ...

I like him so can I get him to understand this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - Okay so there is this guy that I really like. He is a senior at my school and I am a junior. He has been trying to get me over to his house for about 3 weeks, but I have been busy getting ready for a death anniversary on November 9. He gets mad ...

I want my ex bf back, please help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - 3 days a go my boyfriend of 2 1/2 months broke up with me because he is too busy and doesn't want to keep me holding on, he says he want's to be with me and that he does love me but doesn't know when he will have the time to spend time with me. ...

What is the fastest way to get over someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - what is the fastest way to get over someone? especially someone you loved and see all the time because you have to? (school) ...

We fight everyday and she annoys me. Should I break up with the girl I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

7 November 2009 (M) - ok i just want to say thanks all of you that have read my past questions and here is a question i have now.. i broke up with my 20 year old fiance and now i have an 18 year old girlfriend that goes to the u of a. i love her but shes starting to ...

What do you think he meant by the kiss on my forehead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - I finally hung out with a guy that i have been talking to for the last couple of months. i realized i have a crush on him:) when we were leaving he gave me a hug a kiss on the cheek and one on my forehead. i was just wondering what people think of a ...

I want to get back with my bf. Can you guys give me some advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - hey there, Recently my bf broke up with me which came as a shock because we seemed so happy together and weren't having problems or anything then after church one sunday he said that he really really liked me. I'm wondering if there's any way to g...

I think I might've been raped... or did I consent?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

7 November 2009 (?) - ok sooo im 16. my boyfriend, well ex, was 18 and we jus broke up. we got together 5 months ago. before i got with him, i never rly had the urge to drink alcohol or smoke anything. but in these last 5 months i have jus been wanting it more and more. ...

How do I approach the boy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - i hav a crush on this boy in my year, have for a while. we know eachova pretty well cos i've known him for aaggeess. my friends think i should ask him out, my mum thinks i should n she doesnt even no that i like him. but i am scared of loosing him ...

I feel called to love this girl... Should I wait or take the chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

7 November 2009 (M) - My general dilemma is if I should wait or take the chance with a close friend of mine who recently came out of a relationship. Though you need to know some background for the full story. The friend and I have been friends for about a year now...

Do you think he'll cheat when he travels?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are very much in love, but have encountered our fair share of problems with other females (singles sites, and an "online affair," but no physical cheating to my knowledge) in the past. He ...

Do you think I'll ever get a boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - Okay... So I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and I don't think I'm ever gonna get a bf! I have blond hair, blue eyes, but I'm 150lbs... Would you go out with me?! Do you think I'll ever get a bf?...

Is it a sin to love your first cousin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - it is sin to love my first cousin? dear cupid, i had a first cousin, love at first sight,,he courts me, jan.26,2009,when i told him that i love him so much.. and he love me also.. apr.26,2009,we decided to have sex. we love each othe...

How can I tell if a girl is as horny as me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

7 November 2009 (M) - hi, im 13 and i love masterbating. but see everyone at school knows i do it and i cant get a girlfriend and i want to have sex really bad. know one at my school is sexually interested as me can yall help me any tips on my subject matter just ...

What's the dating scene like in college?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - Okay so im seventeen years old and im a senior in high school. I have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never been asked out, nothing! when i see all my other friends really happy in relationships i get really self conscious about why i ...

Should I let on I know she fancies someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

7 November 2009 (M) - I had a thing with this girl about 2 weeks ago. My girlfriend found out and we broke up. We got back together soon after. Now, the girl I had a thing with and I are really good friends and she has just told me that while we were split up, my girlf...

Am I a normal girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - please dont be rude or get me wrong yeah but this is what i think. when some girls have a bf, they would always wanna be with him, text him and call him non stop.. always want to know, where he is who hes with and what hes doing. And they alw...

My self esteem is suffering because my girlfriend won't have sex with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

7 November 2009 (M) - Hi. I have a girlfreind, before she was my best friend for 4 years. She means the world to me, and i seriously mean, she has given me a reason to live. we were together for 9 months and broke up a week and back together for a month, so 10 months in ...

What to wear going around town with my brother and his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - This isn't really a question about relationships or anythin, but its the only place i seem to get quick good answers. So i don't have many friends because i fell out with my best 3 and they kinda turned everyone against me. But the few i am friends ...