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Archived questions from: 16 November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

He gave me a back hander across the face when I mouthed off as he was yelling at me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

16 November 2009 (?) - Hi aunts. I have a real problem here. I'm just not sure what to do any more. Me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately but last night it escalated and he backhanded me across the face because I mouthed off to him while he was yelling at me. ...

He goes "soft" and I don't know what to do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - How do you fix a guy's problem... I mean like me and the guy I like a lot!, where in the middle of doing it and he just went soft. I looked it up on webmd and it said that it cause be caused by too much drinking which he does drink a bit too much ...

I'm not happy in my relationship. How can I talk to him about my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME! I'm feeling really down at the minute and i think it may be because of my relationship. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and im only 19 so i know anything can happen and there are plenty of more fish in the...

I am in love with a girl, but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Hey I'm 16 years old and i'm Having Problems. I realy like this Girl i know and i Cant stop thinking about her. thing is she has a Boyfreind alrdy. I'm lost i'm not relay Used to being in love as i'm no ladies man shall we say I dont know wh...

I'm too shy around a guy I like

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5277 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - I'm too shy around a guy I like. I see him all the time, and usually when I do we're amongst a group of mutual friends... they'll talk with one another about general things. I do make contributions to the discussion but because i'm shy around h...

Help! He broke up with me and I'm pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - I am 7 months pregnant and 19 years old, my boyfriend who is 28 has just left me to go back with his ex wife, I am crushed, how do i win him back? how am i going to cope with a baby on my own i need him. please help me! x x...

I tend to think he likes me but then at times I'm not sure because he still claims to love his girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - I have feelings for my best friend and he knows but the problem is I can't figure out if he feels the same way about me or not. He's kind of confusing because he's hinted around saying that he does and jokes around about how everyone's going to be ...

My trust issues may destroy my relationship. How can I work beyond them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - hi. i use to go out with a boy on/off for two years, i loved him so much, he was my first love...he use to lie and cheat and make me feel small infront of people, i knew deep down he didnt love me, he only wanted me when he felt like it. a year on i ...

My boyfriend keeps going soft!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - hey guys, ok so me and my bf had sex a few weeks ago, it felt really good, but he really struggled to get it in me we tried and tried but it just wouldn't and he kept getting soft again because it was taking so long. Then we decided to go and by s...

Do you think my ex will come back after 2 years of not hearing from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - i had a boyfriend whom i introduced to a friend of mine.they started getting close my friend didn't have anything to do with it she already had a fiancee but my boyfriend started pestering me about her i understood his intention and i left him ...

I don't think I'm having sex right! Please help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Okay my name is jake. im 14 years old and i had sex i think! i dont no if i did it right or not. i mean she didnt make a sound it felt good 4 me but she didnt even move... i kinda thought she was dead or asleep. what am i doing. i was wondering if ...

How long are you supposed to be casually dating before it becomes a proper relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - What's the longest amount of time you've 'seen' someone before you make it a proper relationship. I've been seeing this boy for about 4 months now but he doesn't want to take it further into a relationship yet. It's basically a relationship anyway ...

I don't love my girlfriend, how do I go about breaking up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I really want to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is she really loves me but I do not. She studies in my other class "B". And her friends study in my class "A". And I am really good friends with them. I am so terrified at breaking her heart ...

My b/f doesn't give me enough time, any help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are in a comited relationship..since 4.5months..we both really love each other..but the problem is that he is not giving me time..he stays 545km away from me..we generally sms each other..he used to give me a lot of time earlier ...

It's impossible falling out of love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Okay i Fell in love with this guy summer of 09 when i was visiting my couzin in L.a...! he always flirted with me and told me he loved me..long story short he really liked this Girl named Miranda But he Used me and this girl named Bethany but he ...

I prefer older guys! Should I hold off on dating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - this may sound bad but im 16 and i've noticed lately that im more atracted to guys in like there late late teens or like 22, so like 18-22... i just ind guys my age anoying and inmucher....i just want to find some one to cuddle with and feel safe ...

I cheated on my boyfriend. Should I confess?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - I cheated what should i do? I got back with my ex last tuesday and i cheated on him last night. We only dated a month the first time we went out then broke up. it was never anything serious but this time it was starting to seem like it might be...

Why can I only remember my bad dreams?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (?) - Why when I have a good dream I cant remember it but when I have a bad I can? I would like to remember the 'really good ones' but of coarse the bad dreams are more clear than possible?...

An unlucky guy looking to have sex, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Well, I'm 18 and I really want to have sex. "Saving it" for someone special stopped meaning something to me a bit ago, I just simply want to do it. I haven't had any luck with girls and the last girl I was seeing just flat out stopped speaking to ...

I'm afraid that I'm so hungry for comfort I'll jump into any relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Things have been very confusing for me lately, I just started University, one of my best friends abandoned our ten year friendship for a guy that she knew I liked (who I was also friends with) over the summer, my grandmother is very ill and despite ...

My mom said I can't go to a dance, but my girlfriend is going. I don't want her grinding with other guys. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - My mom wont let me go to a school dance this weekend because she found out i was grinding with my girlfriend at the last one. We are 15 and we have had sex so its not even that special, but she thinks its bad. My girlfriend still wants to go with ...

Are we a couple of does he just want a hook up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Does he only want to keep hooking up? I met this guy Matt*(fake name) at a party in late September, his friend told me he was interested in me and he found me on Facebook, he then gave me his number and we've been hanging out since but I feel lik...

How will my ex react if I wore another guy's jersey?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (?) - heyy guys :) i need fast answers for this one please! so this guy tht i flirt with all the time wants me to wear his football jersey to school 2moro. we both jus flirt, he has a gf tht goes to a different school, we will never be in a real ...

He said he wanted nothing to do with me. Did he just use me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - i really need help...i started talkin 2 diz amazing boy nd i started fallin in love wit him the only problems was dat we werent going together...we started having sex and everything was fine until i stayed at his house he started trying 2 make me ...

Will sex become more enjoyable for her with time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, Just a really quick query but....me and my girlfriend have reached the stage where we are starting to have sex. She has had it before so shes not a virgin but hasnt had it for a little while i.e. a few months. We have only done it...