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30-35,
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writes:Last night, me, my friend, and my boyfriend (or ex i should say) were watching movies at my brothers house(he was gone for the night) . Before they came over, me and my boyfriend had gotten into a fight and i told him things were going on in my life, and that i just needed a week to clear my mind and stuff.My friend was hitting on him and such, and he wouldnt even talk to me. So they were flirting and stuff. So i left for like 15 mins to clear my head...and cry...when i came back in everything looked normal. And i didnt think anything of it.They kept flirting and we had the music loud so i texted telling him to get out.But he didnt, so i went to the washroom and when i came out i saw them making out. When they saw me he automatically got up and left. My friend acted like he was even my boyfriend and she was all happy . Then my boyfriend (ex) was texting me and just now he told me that they made out while i was gone for 15 mins, and he touched her and stuff.They both left, and i started crying, and my brother called (he was out drinking).He kept asking me what was wrong and i just said nothing, and he made me tell him. He got sooooo mad and started saying 'nobody f***s with my baby sister' and stuff, and he told me if i wanted i could take a few shots of the vodka he had in the fridge. I did, and i actually felt better. I dont want this guy back. I still like him, alot. But i wanna get over him, and he keeps telling me he was just truying to make me jealous, but i know thats not true cuz he didnt do it in front of me. How can i get them both out of my life, for good ? Considering he keeps saying sorry and that he still loves me .
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reader, Fxck_This_Shizz  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 tell him to get lost
if he could do that
imagine what else he can do
and your so called friend
tell em to get lost
cause why would a friend do that to you and not even feel bad
just tell them both straight i dont want to know you anymore
and delete everything about them off of you msn//phone// LIFE :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): Even if he is just trying to trigger your jealousy, that makes no reason for you to get him back as a boyfriend! The most important thing for a couple is faith and he is not even faithful and also he even chose your friend as his fling. Why should you eat up your dignity and have him back when he knew clearly that flirting with your good friend will upset you?There are certainly better guys out there for you trust me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): Oh dear... Keep the distance - this relationship cannot bring anything good. And your "friend" should not be called that. Don't ever let her back into your life. What kind of friend would flirt with your boyfriend? Love, you are in a very unhealthy environment. Get yourself out of it.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 November 2009):
First of all don't turn to alcohol for your problems.
Secondly, well done for getting rid of them. He wasn't ready for a relationship, and your friend is clearly not a friend at all. Don't take him back, not matter what he says, and don't take her back as a friend. You can do better. Tell him in a text that he has hurt you, it can't be fixed and you never want to hear from him again. Then dont take calls, answer texts or speak to him. Make sure you're going out with other friends, don't just hide away, and make sure you keep busy. It will take some time to get over him, but you will.
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