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writes:[Moderator Note: Personal information removed]my Boyfriend is 17 and he is going 2 be 18 june 1st and i really love him and want 2 be with him but i am 15 and his parents don't want us together bc of age.. i don't know what 2 do bc we are going out without no1 knowing and i don't like don't like down low relationships... so what should i do about this? Reply to this Question
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reader, isaias15 +, writes (15 November 2009):
 wow!!! im in the exact same relationship im 16 and my girlfriend is 14, and neither of our parents want us together but were in love so we dont care. my girlfriend doesnt tell her mom about us but she does know of me. although i tell her to tell her mom she chooses not to. So from a guy i hope you can do this without a problem Tell your mom how you feel...dont hold back... the quicker you do that the more shes gonna have to except the fact that your getting to that age were you can do this..hopefully this helped and if not send me a message nd ill try some more!
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 I'd say his parents are concerned because of your age, not because the difference is too great, but because (legally) you are under the age of consent. They are looking out for his welfare, they know that passions run high in the young (thank you hormones!) and want to avoid possible pregnancy at the very least and jail time at the most. If you really love this guy, just stay friends until you reach 16 and his parents will see that you're serious and he won't get into trouble by being in a relationship with you.
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