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writes:I dont know What guys like i mean i really dont get it, do boys like it when you're tough? Do they like it when we're girly or wot cos I've tried everything, it would really help if someone wrote back and told me what the best way to get boys to like me, please help x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): coz im around 3-7 yrs differ 2 u, u shud listen 2 me the answer: i like them 2 b sweet/sexual depends on there type
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 November 2009):
The right guy will like you for YOU. Which means be yourself. Don't keep changing your appearance or attitude just to suit men. the right man will like you without you haing to change. Be patient.
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 I agree with some of the previous posters but please don't feel like you have to have sex to get guys to like you! Why should you waste your viginity on a guy who you don't know if you love?! I am going from the age of your posting (13-15) you are too young for consentual sex in most countries so just making new friends is better for now, it's hard enough being a teenager without feeling you're being forced into something you aren't ready for! I agree with the others that it's best to be yourself, and for another thing, no one girl is either all tomboy or all girly all the time! I used to be a tomboy when I was 13 or so, climbing trees etc and I was happy to have 'boy' friends. Hope the advice given helps you in some way, wishing you good luck for the future.
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reader, old lover  +, writes (15 November 2009):
Guys are as different as girls but the best thing for a girl to do if she likes a guy is to talk to him in private. Find out what he really likes when his mates are not around. He may think you are really hot but is to afraid to tell you because he is sexually inexperienced. It is best to have your first sex with a much older guy then you will be more relaxed around guys your own age.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Have sex with them, they won't actually really like you, but they will pretend. Well some of them.
The old "be yourself" might not be what you want to hear, but it is true.
Do you want boys to like you for what you are not?
Now, there is a thing called the dating game and in both sides play roles from time to time. The oldest probably the gf pretending she is so scared by the movie and needs to hug him so tight... a good excuse as any to get close and he pretend he isn't scared at all because that is all part of the game. Call it flirting if you like.
But to change your personality during the whole day just to attract men, that is a recipe for disaster.
Anyway, different men like different things. I tend to fall hard for tomboys while other guys can't get them girly enough.
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reader, HERBSMAN  +, writes (15 November 2009):
Yea like it was said before. Just be yourself n be confident with who you are. the fellas will come in time
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