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anonymous
writes:I have been best friends with my best friend for three years. Me and him get on so well, have so much in common and we are really close. We are also close physically. I don't mean that we've had sex or anything but we're always together and holding hands and hugging and stuff.We were going out for about 2 months back when we first met, but we broke up because I liked someone else. Over the last few moths I've started to realise I've still got feelings for him and apparently he's always had feelings for me.My close friend said that she thinks me and him should try it again. I would really like that but I don't know if it would work. Things could go really well and be perfect or they could all go completely wrong.I don't know whether to just be happy with the close friendship we have at the moment, or risk taking it further.Any advice?Thank you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 November 2009):
It could go either way. If you both really love each other and want to be together and you work at it, then it cna work. Of course, you need to be sure you want to be with him this time. If you're not committed then it will fall apart. I think if you like him enough, it would be a shame not to try it again. Otherwise you'll never know. Better to find out than to sit there for the rest of your life wondering what would have happened. Tel him how you feel. If it goes wrong, then he's not the guy for you and you'll have to move on. If he is the guy for you, all the best. So talk to him and try again. You have more to lose by not trying.
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