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writes:i'm 16. ok so heres my problem, i got lots of guy friends. i got more guy friends then girls. and well since i hang with mostly guys, my guy friends dont see me as someone there date. they treat me like one of the guys, and well now i dont really like that. i like one of my guy friends, but he only sees me as a friend. i dont know how i could make them think of me as a girl and not one of the guys. i dress like a emo/goth. i used to cut, but not anymore, but they still think i do, and we always mess with each other, and its fun, but i want to guy i like to like me. some one please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): I have never really been in a situation like that I mean I mostly hang out with guys and they treat me like a little sister and I'm okay with that but sometimes they treat me like a little girl around other guys and tell me who I can and can't talk to. Just try to show him you are not one of the guys like the way I try to show the boys I'm not a baby anymore, I know they love me so i doesn't matter much anymore.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Pull up your t-shirt?
If you hang out a lot. Sit close to him, special emphasis on you being soft and warm and close. No not overly sexual, but lean against him. Seek him out APART from the rest of the pack.
And of course, there is always the simplest solution. TELL HIM.
Because subtle clues are wasted on men. Don't believe me? I wondered if a girl like me around your age. Then one day I got my answer, she didn't. She sat with her back to me during a break outside. In fact, with her back against mine, so clearly, no interest.
remember, all the subtle advice and "he will figure it out" is given by women. Take it from a man, we don't get subtle.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Wear pink. Put on make up. Show a little clevage. They'll figure it out.
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reader, cheerwhore23 +, writes (15 November 2009):
I'm not telling you to change how u look but u can try to like dress cute and talk about other hot guys when he's around..it makes them know that u actually like guys..ask him to hang out just yall two and get to know what he likes and stuff :)
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