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writes:[Moderator note: There are 2 problems here}wow ok i need ALOT of advice, i have no clue what to do on so many things. first off my mom is an alcholic and she drinks like every other day and i cant stand it...she divorced my dad for being a drunk and now she is and i think my step dad is getting sick of it and might want a divorce soon, and she has tryed AA meetings and she dont like them, and she dont want to get sent away and are whole family has sat down to talk to her and she just dont listen, i think she wants to keep drinking and not get help, so what should i do on that? Second thing is i have no clue if i should go back with my ex, we didnt work out the first time cuz he lived 2 hours away and now he lives 5 min away, but the thing is his ex gf is still his number one on his top friends on myspace and i was number four but now number 2 so idk his staus is set to single, and we have hung out and kissed and fooled around but idk and i feel kinda bad cuz i use to be a whore and still a little bit, last night i had a really hot guy over and we madeout and cuddled and idk. i just need to figure these things out..please help thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): If you've sat down and spoken to her and about how you feel about her drinkin problems, and she hasn't listened, then your mum needs to help herself for her to get better. There is usually a reason why someone has turned to drink. Could your mum be stressed, depressed, or has something happened I.e an accident/incident for her to turn to drink? I don't think she purposely meant to be hypocritical. I think you and your mum need to find the cause of her drinking, before she can get better.
As for your ex boyfriend...If the reason you two broke up was purely because of the distance, then perhaps you could give it another go. But if you really want your ex back that much, then why are you fooling around with other guys? Also I wouldn't take TOO much notice of Myspace, unless he contacted her regularly in an overfriendly way whilst you were together. Maybe he wasn't completely over her when you 2 were going out, or for several other reasons. Don't get physical with him in any way again until you are together again, if that is what you both want. Ask him what he wants.
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reader, loseCONTROLx  +, writes (24 May 2009):
 About your mother - I would try calling a helpline, or try putting her into the meeting again. If those don't work, perhaps you could consoder rehab? I know it sounds terrible, but she needs help.About the boy - You have to make sure you feel serious about him, and wouldn't fool around with other guys if you were seeing him. When you were sure of that, then you could talk to him about your feelings and what not.Good luck, hope I helped at least a little.
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