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writes:Help! I don't know what to think right now. So I feel like I've gotten to know my soccer coach well this season. I think we've bonded well together. During and after games, he'd always congratulate me by patting me on the back, he'd joke around with me (more than with other girls I noticed) and when I pass him in the hall at school, he'll always say "Hello!" and I notice his face always lights up whenever I talk with him, which in return, makes me smile and laugh. Towards the end of the season though, I started to start and play in more games than usual and I noticed he started to pay more attention to me and the plays I did.But now that it's all over, I feel sad and I miss going to practices and games and seeing him everyday. Occasionally I'll stop by his room and say "Hi!", but it's just not like being with him at games, etc.I know, I probably sound like a little creeper, but it's what I'm feeling right now. He's a very caring guy and also hilarious! And that's what attracts me to him, you could say. I know he's too old for me, but I feel that I'm attracted to him. Any advice on what I should do would be appreciated. Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): Looks as though you are taking normal interaction and turning it into something that fits into your fantasies. I guess you could spend heaps of time thinking about it and figuring out what every little thing he says means but you'll get bored after a while when nothing comes of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): Honestly? Leave him alone. You'll only get him in trouble by pursuing this...
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