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I had sex with my ex...I think I might be pregnant. I need your 'compassionate' advice!

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Question - (24 May 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I'm 16 and think I may be pregnant, Me and my ex boyfriend had sex 2 weeks on Saturday but I started taking my birth control pill (I know BIG MISTAKE)but now I don't know if I may be pregant. We did not use protection but I went and got the morning after pill but the woman who supplied it told me I was at a very high risk of being pregnant. My breasts have been very tender and I have had some mild cramping and passes from time to time, My and my ex boyfriend are still really great friends and talk about getting back together. I really really do not know what to do so could anyone please help :( please be nice I know I am very very silly xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009):

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Thank you very much for your answers, they were very very helpful. The thing is I don't know if I have a skipped period because I started taking my birth control so it stops my period :(, I know that is very very silly.

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A female reader, pebble United Kingdom +, writes (25 May 2009):

pebble agony auntBecause you would only be around two weeks pregnant if indeed you are then you would probably not be getting any huge symptoms yet because it's a little too early. Like I said before, my first noticable symptoms were tender breasts and slight cramping and I think they started around 3 weeks gone.

At about 5 weeks onwards might be when the sickness, fatigue, cravings start. But that might be still a few weeks away yet.

Are you able to pick up a test today? If you are, get a pack of two, do one today and then do the other one in about a fornight or so. We can all guess at symptoms but doing a test is your only way of finding out for sure.

Good luck.

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A female reader, pebble United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2009):

pebble agony auntHave you missed a period yet? If not, then you'll probably have to wait until you do before you do a test. If you have then go get a test and find out for sure.

I'm pregnant and the first signs I noticed were extremely tender breasts and uterine cramping a few times a day.

Wait and see what your period does first and try to relax (easier said than done I know). It's probably best to stop taking your pill for now aswell until you know for sure.

You could do a test now if you're impatient but don't take a negative as certain until your period has arrived. If it's a little different to usual too, lighter than usual, lasting for less time than normal or different in any way then do a test then too.

Good luck, and I hope you get the answer you're looking for.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009):

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My ex would never leave me as a single parent he is 19 and would never do that too me, I know it will not confirm weither we get back together but the main reason we split up was due to age difference could someone help me with the sings of pregnancy please :(

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009):

Take a pregnancy test to confirm it before you tell him anything. If you are pregnant, be careful not to assume that he'll want to get back together or that he's even ready to be a father. It's good you have such a great friendship with him and hopefully he'll be supportive if you are pregnant. Make sure you use protection next time and be careful not to entertain fantasies that the two of you having a child will be happily ever after- a child for a couple your age will probably have the opposite result and you'll probably end up a single teen parent. I'm not trying to be negative but that's just reality for most in your position, if you are pregnant.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009):

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he was my boyfriend at the time !

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