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I'm scared, I don't want to have feelings for my ex, I love my b/f!

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Question - (2 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2009)
A age 30-35, * writes:

Hello all!

My two best friends are my whole world, but here's my problem. One is my bf, and the other is my exbf. Tonight, my bf (whom I love very much) was out of town, and I had tickets to a play. I invited my girl-friends first, but I ended up bringing my ex with me. I never actually had any feelings for him--I never had to "get over him". Well, tonight he took my phone jokingly, and I wanted it back. Wordlessly, I stared at him, annoyed. He stared right back.

This was the first time I ever felt anything with him, and it was just like the feeling when I'm with my bf. I've never felt like this toward my ex.

I'm scared, I don't want to have feelings for my ex, I love my bf!

Help me, please!!!!

-GG

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009):

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I told my ex. He's trying to see if there's anyway he can help, but I don't think there is. Is it guaranteed that my bf will end it when I try to be honest about it? Were in high school, so as much as I love him, our relationship is only as secure as they get in high school.

Thank you

-GG

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A female reader, tina222 United States +, writes (2 May 2009):

Haha the old dump your boyfriend for your ex...No im just kidding....What i could say is try talking to your ex about what happened like say remember when you stole my phone or something of that nature and see what his reponse is. If he laughs then he might just of been felling the same thing but brushing it off. Just remember guys are really hard to get along with sometimes...Hope this helped!

-Tina222

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