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writes:Ok this is weird. I know you guys may think this is another question about liking my teacher, but its def not. I used to have feelings for my teachers because i made them up to be these great people with amazing lives. But as i have gotten to know them i have lost that interest and just see them as teachers or friends. A math teacher that tutored me last year is my problem. He was never my teacher, but he tutored me and let me come to his class when i wanted where we sat and talked/joked about anything. Last year i read so much into his kindness that i thought that he had feelings for me. Getting ready to graduate this year i now see that those were silly fantasizes of mine not to be taken seriously. The problem is that this year i don't even talk to him. Its like a border or something has drawn between us and i cant figure out why. Last year i never felt awkward when i was around him but this year i do. When ever we are near each other there is always a dispute which makes me want to ignore him even more. In school if i see him i turn around and walk the opposite way, but somehow we keep seeing each other. Any way i had a dream last night and he was in it. He was asking me to tell him why i stopped talking to him and that he would do whatever it took for me to be honest with him. He was crying in my dream because he really wanted to know and i started to tell him about why i avoid and completely ignore him in school. IDk y but i felt a thing of relief when i got it off my chest. He hugged me and kissed me on my cheek and forehead(not in a creepy way, but in a way that bonded us). I know it seems stupid but a part of me wants to talk to him again and get that fun way between us but lately everything has been so stressful and out of control b4 graduating and the smallest thing he does just makes me dislike him more. So can anyone tell me why my dream was about him? thanks xoxoxo reign
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009): wow - what is it with Maths teachers sigh so many posts about them here.
Anyway - agree its playing through your mind that you should do more when someone is friendly to you. And thats a friendly nice not anything else.
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reader, Auntie Noodle  +, writes (2 May 2009):
 I think maybe you have let your guilt about having feelings for this man (and imagining his feelings for you). This is probably why you ignore him so much. Dreams are often what we ourselves our anxious about so your probably worried yourself about what this means that you have drawn a barrier. My Guess is that you feel embarassed sometimes? like he might've known that you felt the way you did (and assumed that he reciprocated). My advice would be to stop worrying. Even if he did know you had a slight crush on him (very unlikely), it was just a small thing. It's probably just a comfort thing. Don't worry about hurting his feelings or anything. He is a teacher, he probably wouldn't have even noticed. All the best :)
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