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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me randomly out of the blue 2 days ago. I came home from work and I was going to spend some quality time with him. He made me some tea and took it upstairs, i followed and once i was upstairs he told me he didn't love me like he used to. I asked him why and he wouldn't give me an answer, he said he didn't feel trusted but i assured him i did trust him but he didn't take it.In the days leading up to the break i had got back in touch with one of my old friends who had been a total b*tch to me before, she used to convince my boyfriend i wasn't good enough for him, call me fat and complain about our relationship. I stupidly forgave her when she begged for forgiveness. I know that she was crazy about my boyfriend but i tried to see the good in someone and just start again.Since she came around my house my boyfriend had been acting very out of character, he wouldn't hug me much or give me much lovwe and affection. He went around to the cashpoint with her (alone) and claimed the cashpoint wasn't working and giving excuses as to why the one next to it also didnt work. They had to go to another one that was further away and i said that was fine. It was all okay until i tried to ring him to see if he could pick up some drinks for my brother (seeing as they were at the supermarket) but I tried to get in touch over 30 times and he didn't respond, his excuse was that he'd left it on silent.2 days later my friend comes around agen and they went out together and claimed he went to collect a dvd from her house, this would have been okay but i sensed something might be wrong because it took 2 hours longer than usuall... there excuse was it was hiding...When we broke up all he said was he didn't love me like he used to and he didn't want to hurt me...I've tried talking to him but he refuses, i even went over to his and he wouldn't answer the door and told me to just go home.I've been with him 3 and a half years and everything seemed fine, he never said he was unhappy..I really want answers but he's not giving them me!Am i being paranoid or do you think he's been cheating on me? Please be honest x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks you two, it's made me feel a hell of alot better. Non of my mates understand whats going through his head either... one minute he loves you the next he leaves! You're right i'll give my heart to someone who deserves it (: xx thanks so much! xx
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (14 July 2009):
 sweety i think it's safe to say he's been cheating on you with that b*tch!
i am sorry but if a cash machine doesn't work the one next to it normally does! you wouldn't go trapesing looking for one!
you'd wait until the next day and go again or something like that you wouldn't spend a day looking for a cashmachine that worked!
that's a pathetic excuse! and for him not to be answering hmm maybe his mobile was on silent but you do obviously check your phone every now and again.
and two hours to find a DVD?
i don't think so!
she clearly got her way with him and he fell for it and now he's left you heart broken!
what a pathetic loser! he can't even be man enough to tell you what has happened!
you need to forget about him totally! it'll be hard obviously after 3 and a half years but he's done you a favor! he's gotten himself out of your life so you can move on now.
you don't deserve to be treated like that at all!
and this old "friend" well she isn't much of a friend back stabbing her "friend" going with her man?
that's not a friend at all!
Hope this helps hun :)
chin up yeah! message me you want to talk further.
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou xx you've made me feel so much better, wish there were more people out there like you xx
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