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anonymous
writes:I'm 13, I have a 12 year old girlfriend. She's wonderful. I love her very very much. The strange thing is she's a bit (not a lot), a bit overweight. I'm not a shallow boy that'll dump her because of this, but is there any way I could get her to lose some weight without looking like a total fool? I don't want her to be a skinny stick figure, but at least a few pounds lighter. By the way, this is an internet relationship. I can't take her to healthy places, etc. Please help any way you can. Thank you.
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Dont be so shallow....she hasnt asked you to change so you dont have the right to ask her to!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): you know that thing called puppy fat and she'll lose it when she hits puberety probs about 13/14 i did and if you love her you'll love her for who she is not what she looks liek
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reader, LC_2008  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 Firstly if this an Internet relationship why do u care what she weights and secondly this girl is probably going to hit puberty soon and grow into her body by mentioning this to her he could develop bad body attitude or worse an eating disorder. I also don't understand your last statement, I can't take her to healthy places. Have you personally met this girl at all??
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): Does it really matter if she is overweight? Its not like you'll see her in real life. Just have fun online, but don't let it distract you from your actual life.
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reader, BethBabes +, writes (14 July 2009):
 why does it bother you that he's a bit overweight. she might not eevn be overweight, her BMI could be average.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): If you love her that much then love her for who she is no matter what she looks like or how much she wieghs. just love her 4 who she is
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