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writes:Ok so i lied to my boyfriend that i was 15 and he is 15 turning 16 in May but i'm really 14 turning 15 next year so i told him my real age on AIM but he was offline and he hasn't txted me or anything....Is he mad at me, does he still love me....I just didn't want to lie to him anymore because i love him and i need him ]=....Do you think he will understand and do you think my age and his age is ok ? Reply to this Question
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reader, katp100  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 hey so ok im 16 and i lied to my boyfriend who is 22 about me being 17
what happened was i was round sleeping at his and my mum found out where i was and came to get me cause she was mad. and she told him how old i was and he looked so mad and upset with me
i was trying to tell him for ages but he told me that in the past his ex lied to him and he hated it and lying is the one thing he hates most so i was just so worried and let things get carried away. we had sex so im legal in england but hes american and works for the military but lives here so i really dont know how hes gona be about this
but the best thing you can do is tell him as soon as possible and hope it will be okay becasue he said he still loves me and we will be ok but im still worried
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): why would lie about your age if you are only one year younger?
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (19 April 2009):
 I had a girlfriend who lied about her age and I dumped her there and then. If you can lie about that what else can you lie about?
Relationships are about trusting each other and you have made him feel stupid, by being taken in by your deceit, so yes he will be angry and if he is a nicer more understanding guy than me, he may forgive you.
In future DON'T tell lies!
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (19 April 2009):
 yeh there's no reason too lie and you shouldn't have done dat..and one year difference doesnt mean anything...he shouldn't be bothered bye ur lil lie if he cared
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reader, EmmyBuhlair +, writes (19 April 2009):
Hey(:Well, you shouldn't have lied first off. One or two year age diffrence is nothing, and if he really cared for you it wouldn't have made i diffrence. Maybe he hasn't even seen it yet? But to tell him on AIM isn't the best way to do that, you probably should have at least called him, tho seeing him in person would be best. If he really does love you, your age shouldn't matter, but that fact that you did lie to him might stick with him. I say just give him space or act like nothing happened, whichever you prefer. If he wants to talk about it he'll bring it up. Dont't stress.Hope I Helped xx
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