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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I never got to say goodbye to him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - On the 13th of November my dad past away with MS and we moved away from him when he was in the nursing home 3 years ago we went over to visit him and the day we went home the day after he died and I never got to say goodbye when he left and it's so ...

I'm stuck in the "what if" kind of situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi, to be honest i'm not really sure why i am writing this. I dont know if i want help or if i just want to get things off my chest. The thing is i met a boy when i was on holiday when i was nine, we clicked straight away. After the holiday we kept ...

Condom split and now I'm worried about pregnancy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i started taking the pill, i wasnt fully on the all clear so i used a condom too, it split. i thort i was pregnant so i stopped taking it i then started to bleed, but not like a period. i got a few symptoms of pregnancy, tired feel sick etc, then a ...

I think I messed up my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I constantly had a fight with my boyfriend recently and I was so mad at him yesterday that I texted him that we should end the relationship if things don't go accordingly. I didn't mean to do so seriously; I was just mad at him at that time and bl...

Taking pill, maybe I'm becoming anemic now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi!I'm completely new to this website, but I was wondering if someone could help set my mind at ease. I've recently started taking the pill, and I have been sure to take it everyday at the same time, and as instructed started to take it on the first ...

Dry humping..now pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i were dry humpping please i need a reply.am i pregnant but my period is delayed by 4 days im scared please help some one...

I want to date my best friend but she has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I don't know if this is just a phase because of my raging hormones but I think I want to date my best friend (Who is a girl just like me) She has a boyfriend, and they have been dating for about a month basically. I've been fighting this fe...

In love with the geography teacher!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - okay, it's all common and stuff, but like. i think i am in love with my geography teacher. there's an age gap of 15 years, but i really don't care. he always looks at me in lessons, and everytime he says my name he smiles and says it in such an ...

Religion causing problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now. And so far everything's doing great - he's really sweet, nice and cares about me. And I really like him too, I may even be falling in love. I don't know. (We're both 18 by the way.) But th...

I'm hiding forbidden love from my mom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - im in a relation that im 15, and he is 18. its a forbidden love, and even though i am really pretty, and he isnt, i really like him(which no one really gets why i hang out with him)i really like him, he is himself, and when we USE to talk we talked ...

Is my boyfriend gay and just not admitting it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

30 December 2008 (?) - Is my Boyfriend Gay? Okay so my boyfriend and I have slept together (when I say slept togetehr I mean beside each other NOT sex). He's spent the night at my house about 3 times and we've been in the same bed. I dont wear a bra to sleep in. He'...

I have strong will power but around him, I just melt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Okay well, this is my first post on this site and I really need some advice as I have nowhere else to turn. I'm going to sound like a horrible person, and I guess I am on some level, but I can't stop. Here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for...

14 and worried about getting pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - hey im 14 and i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i want to have sex with him he says he is ready when i am as long as its not years and years he said , now im fine with that im just worried of getting pregnant its so scary on tv i dont want it im ...

Teen stuck at home, how to cope till college?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I think I feel stuck or something. I'm 17 years old and I'm a junior in high school. Everything seems to be getting so old... My friends, how my days go, school, being a junior... I'm just sick of it all. I stay home all the time because the kind...

Sould I continue a relationship that is illigal and my parents wouldn't like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Im 15 and a freshmen and my boyfriend is 18 and a sinor, and illegal for me. We arent going out really cuz we are school only has a student body of 600 students the which 30 no my parents, and im not allowed to go out with anyone cuz of church so ...

How can I tell him to leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm 14, there's this boy i used to like in my primary school,(started all in year 5) he was nice one year, next year i guess hormones kicked in didn't like me much he done one of them hate things, were he totally hated my guts, swore and said many ...

What to do to see my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have told my dad that my crush and i are going out. He was happy for me. I convinced him to let me go to his house, thought he cant take the decision alone. My parents are separated and have different point of views.Im afraid my mom wont let me ...

I'm a lesbian but I'm not like other lesbians

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - A lot of people seem to think I'm 'weird' for various reasons, but I always tell myself that I'm a perfectly normal teenage lesbian. But some of the things others, including other lesbians, are saying is starting to make me wonder... One thing...

Am I doing the right thing by giving her some space? Why do you think she freaked and backed off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I've met this 18 year old girl she's quiet, pretty, cute, and shy. She's never had a boyfriend before, so she's an innocent girl. I’m 18 and I like her, she's something different and special to me, but the problem is she is a challenge. I’ve ...

Does the pill actually allow you to have a period or does it have a fake period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I haven't had my period yet but I'm due in a couple of days and I was wondering. I'm on the pill and I was wondering does the pill actually allow you to have a period or does it have a fake period. I've heard rumours that it isn't your real period ...

Does he reallly love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i'm 16 years old and my friend is 17... we use to go out for about 6 years... but since we broke up our relationship has been on and off. we stopped talking for about 6 months. i decided to call him again and see what happened between us becuase i ...

Do guys like innocent girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So I am 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Everyone tells me that I'm gorgeous and guys tend to be really timid and nervous around me. I'm also pretty quiet, so I would never confess to anyone (tried that and it backfired on me) lol but I ...

How can I solve this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I am a 18 year old asian boy and I love a boy who is 13 . we are same sex and we love each other.But the other people don't accept it and want to forbid it.He is a dependent and live with his elder siblings.They are controlling him everythi...

B/f only affectionate when high

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Okay heres the deal.. ONCE again about my boyfriend. It seems the only time he will be affectionate wih me is when he is HIGH!! Its really retarded! Him and I have had sex before and afterwards he NEVER.. and I repeat.. NEEEVEEER wants to cuddle or ...

Don't want mom to catch me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - What do you think your mother would say if she found out you were masturbating? I don't want to tell her, and I know I won't, but in the chance that she catches me, how would I explain it to her. I am extremely embarrassed of it, and I do want to ...

I'm in love with my ex's26 year old brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Ok so I am 16 but I am absolutely in love with a 26 year old and don't try telling me I don't know what it is and I'm too young thats not why I am writing this, The thing is I was in a relationship with his younger brother when I met him I tried ...

G/f doesn't trust me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend never believes me. I haven’t done anything to make her not believe me, I’m always honest with her, but she doesn’t even believe me when I tell her I love her or that I miss her, but she tells me she loves me. What is going on? What do ...

Used protection..pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So I'm kinda in need of some help. well I think I might be pregnant. But idk. I'm really nervous about it. I'm 15 and I usually have my periods at the end of the month and my boobs hurt but thats normal for me before my period. My boyfriend and I ...

What should I say to the doctor about my depression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Tommorow I am going to the doctors to try and get medication for my depression. The reason I need these meds is because I'm losing all motivation to do anything, I mean, I've almost quit my job, and I've almost started smoking again! And I'm close ...

Confused over breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend just broke up with me today... we have been together for about, a year and half a month.. so im hurting quite a bit. thing is i dont exactly know why we broke up.. i mean hes not sure eather, he said he didnt want to break up with me...

What do I do? My boyfriend will leave to go into the military...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - where do i begin exactly!lol im 16 turning 17 and i have a rather amazing boyfriend who's 18 of whom i very much love with all of my heart :)we are verry close but however live a good few hours away from each other but have a stable and consistant ...

Weird after I love you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Hey all, just looking for a bit of advice and help to understand my girlfriend really, sorry if it's long. Anyways I met this girl at uni, start of September and we hit it off straight away she really is spot on and we have so much fun togethe...

Is it okay to have sexual desires towards your cousins?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - OK so from reading a lot of people's questions, i have one myself. My question is, is it ok to have any sexual desires towards your cousins? would that be called incest? or would incest only apply to relationships between father/daughter or ...

What do I have to do so he realizes that she is not meant for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So the first day of class this semester, i got my eye on this one really cute guy. I guess he noticed, because that weekend he started texting me. He got my number from one of his friends that i was good friends with. We texted that whole weekend, ...

Keeping it in the family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hey Cupids... Basically i'm with a my new boyfriend about 5 months or so. It's lovely. Initially it was a light hearted sort of affair, but now we're very into each other and it's great and as each day goes by i love him a little bit more, and i ...

Can someone give me an idea how to tell my parents I'm moving out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So im 17 and a senior in high school. im plannin on moving out when i turn 18 in the middle of the summer. im not sure if my parents are against this...i know they dont want me to but idk if theyll go to the extremes about it. Can someone give me an ...

My friend likes my girlfriend and she likes him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I'm with this girl there for the past 6 weeks and for the past 2 days things haven't been going that good!! she likes my friend and my friend likes her too! They were supposed to meet each other before we got with each other but it never hapened! ...

His parents don't like us dating...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I am in love with this boy that I been knowing since high school. it took me some time to finally notice him because I was in a relationship with someone else. now that I'm available I really feeling him and I know he loves me too. we've been in a ...

He seems keen one day then he doesn't seem to have any interest in me at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I need some help bad!!! ugh i hate it when you REALLY like someone that has NO interest in u at alllll!!! i really like this guy ****** and he is so cute, funny, nice, and sweet. I love to be around him and i could be on the phone with him all ...

I am unsure whether to date a girl due to how my friends would treat me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - This may seem shallow, but I am unsure whether to date a girl due to how my friends would treat me, when I'm with her they make comments for a joke, I'm not sure whether actually dating het would make them mock me even more.. Should I follow my ...

I'm sick of being alone in his house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi Right so my bf and i have been dating for six months at first everything was great, until I moved to a different town for him and in with him, first night he didn't come home, he made some story up and three months later I found out the ni...

Should I stay with my girlfriend or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a year now, at the start of the relationship everything was great, and about 6 months into the relationship, she cheated on me with her ex, he was her first love and she says shes needed ...

I'm terrified of gaining weight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Not really a relationship question here, but I do think I need some help. I'm 19, 5'5", 112-3 lbs, I have a pretty healthy diet... and I'm terrified of gaining weight. I had a mild case of anorexia when I was thirteen and I'm wondering if it's ...