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Archived questions from: 23 December, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My friend keeps getting erections around me. Is it something I'm doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Well, my best friend, who's male, is always getting erections around me and it makes me feel a little awkward. We're past that point where we're freshmen in high school, or in middle school, etc. and it would be happening all the time, but it still ...

Any advice on this guy that just broke up with his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - this guy i like just finished with his gf last night iv liked him for ages and hes always seemed to flirt with me last night he told my pal about his break up then how he liked me she told him to tell me cos i like him to but he said he di...

My friends are so mean to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - hiya i dont no if you can help me with this but i have a problem. Me and this girl had a fight and people started getting involved and it turned out that i have no friends any more. I didn't understand coz the friends I thought Ii had were alw...

Should I be sad he didn't invite me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - its a tough situation but guys and gals i really need ur help!! im desperate :(...ive been with my bf for 4months now.but we know eacher other 4over a year now and we both liked each other long beofre we officially got together. i mustsay that we ...

Anal sex: How do you make it pain-free?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have had sex once before but she doesn't want to risk getting pregnant since we know condoms don't always work. Do to circumstance we are unable to obtain any other kind of birth control. So she asked me if I'd be willing to have ...

Does acne make me too ugly to get a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - I got two questions. One,wot are da qualities that girls look for in a guy? I am 19 . Still single. So pls,help me out. Two,i had lots of acne.so i have some spots on my face,not that much visible .but is it way too much ugly to have spots on face?...

Boyfriend is becoming more sarcastic and causing problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyf for nearly 16 months, were both 16. Were always talking about our future, had all our "firsts" together and my family adore him. Lately, in front of my mum, hes becoming more sarcastic to everything i say, arguing over sil...

He's flirty with other girls but could it be me that he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I've been seeing a boy for some months now. I really like him. I think i he likes me too, but I don't know if it is more than friends. When we see each other in group with our friends, the other girls are flirting with him and he laughs much with ...

Rejection phobia? Is there a name for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hi guys (: I've got this psychology project to do over the holidays and was wondering if anyone knew what the name for a phobia of rejection was? Thanks in advance...

What do I do when my boyfriend's 21 and I'm only 13?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend online, and had no intention of ever getting together with him. But we talked, and found we had a lot in common... and eventually it got to the point where he told me he was attracted to me; I reciprocated the feelings. ...

What are these spots on my penis? I had to break up with my girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - i have spots on my penis and i broke up with my girlfreind because i have them and i didnt want her to find out and tell the whole school that i go to. what should i do now as i dont want to be a virgin for the rest of my life. ...

How can you explain that I have feelings for a female friend, being that I am a gay male?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - I am a gay male, but recently I have noticed that I kind of have feelings for one of my best friends who is a female. I'm not sure how true these feelings are, or if this is something that happens to some (gay) men who are very emotionally close ...

Should I tell my dad I'm dating? He won't let me out...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. i love him alot and i know he loves me too. the problem is that my dad doesnt know about us. i wasnt allowed to date until i turned 16 and i already did so im allowed to have one by his set of rules. ...

How can I know if he likes me?? How can I tell him I've already haad sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hiya. Im 15 yrs old and Ive got a good friend whos a year older than me. We've been talking a lot to each lately and hanging around with each other and I think Im starting to really like him but I dont know if he likes me and what I should do to ...

I want to break up because I'm afraid I'm too ugly for him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I've been seeing someone for two weeks now..im not sure whther we are officially in a relationship though. the problem that i have is that i feel extremely insecure. i have acne so im very self conscious about the way i look and i feel i'll never be ...

What should my friend do in case she wants revenge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (?) - heyx my best mate lost her virginity to a boy about half a year ago. She barely knew him but after they started goin out with eachother. A few days ago though he cheated on her, having sex with anouther girl. He didnt even tell er, she had to find ...

Turning on my partner...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hiya, hopefully this will be a fun question :) I remember reading an article in a magazine a while ago about turning on your partner. Under the 'dirty talk' bullet point, it suggested whispering something sexy/naughty to them unexpectedly, eg whilst ...

Going out with my step cousin...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - I am 14 and I am currently going out with my step cousin who is 15. We have known each other all my life. But about a week and a half ago I was at her house and we ended up holding hands. So on the 17th I asked her out, she said yes but the same ...

Squirting!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hi I need help!! I'm 18 and just started having sex. And recently while having sex with my boyfriend I have found in one particular position I always seem to squirt.. this is new to me and I thought I had urinated, I sort of felt embarrassed until I ...

Newly pregnant, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I have just found out I'm pregnant and it's pretty early on in the first trimester. What are the consequences of me not taking care of myself during pregnancy? I would love it if you could state the really bad and even the small bad things that ...

Need help with what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - Hi, my name Dan and I've made a big mess of everything, on Sat 12:00pm 20th December I went and saw my sister for the last time before she went to adoption, anyway I was expecting to be with my gf coz she knew I was going to be upset but later that ...

Is there another way of self pleasure without fingering myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I'm an 18 year old female and still a virgin but recently I've been masturbating. Is there another way of self pleasure without fingering myself?...

I want to make my family proud by marrying one of my kind, but my boyfriend is black!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - i've been going out with someone for the past 8 months and i have no complaints because i know he loves me and everyone says he adores me, however before me and him got together i was seeing another guy who is my own race but ended it because he was ...

How can I see if he wants to try again and should I give it time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - on sunday my bf dumped me saying that he doesnt love me but we only been together 6 months so love is not important at this stage in the relationship. he had a few problems before with his nan having a stroke and his brother breaking up with his ...

So I don't know am I being selfish of should I go crazy at him????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hey, as you know its nearly christmas. Christmas for me is about spending time with the family and friends, AS you all know I've been engaged for a year now. Anyway, my fiaence is dropping off my presents on the 23rd December for me and I won't be ...

How can I get over him without distancing myself from him, or changing our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend, but he just doesn't feel the same. I don't want to harm our relationship because of it. How can I get over him without distancing myself from him, or changing our friendship?...

I love my ex but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - hey, I'm crazy in love with my ex, but he has a girl friend. His new girl friend is his best friend's ex and his best friend is still crazy about his ex. I love my ex and I do still want to be friends with him but I want it to be more then that. ...

She thinks of our relationship as more of a friendship, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - i have been with my girlfiend for 18 months now and i love her so much. latly everything has changed and i dont know what to do. she said that she feels as though our relationship is more of a friendship. i dont know what happened. i buy her gifts ...

I've fallen hard for him but it's long distance...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Ok im in a long distance relationship, but I think I want a non available, not really that long distance guy. This is all based from a chat site by the way, anyway, I met this guy for the first time the other day. I've told him before that I really ...

Is he doing all this just to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - my ex boyfriend, I still like him. aloot. I'm only 13 and I don't use the word love. so I reeally like him still. and were close friends and talk a lot. but for some reason, we haven't talked in a while. and its been killing me inside but I'm ...

I found the perfect girl but will I be missing out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - Hello, i have met the perfect girl and i want to spend the rest of my life with her... but... im so shure that we will be together forever im afraid i will lose the chance of being with other women. Its not that i want to cheat or anything and trus...

How can I block her from calling me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - ok. my dads X-girlfriend is texting and phone calling me and giving me abuse. is there a way i can get her number completely blocked from phoning and texting me other than going to the police as this is to much hastle and i dont have time really...

Can someone help me with my family problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm 14 years old and I have a problem, although strictly speaking, it isn't about a relationship...like a boyfriend or anything. It's about my family. I have a brother that's two years older than me. Lets just say he's named Connor. Well my Mom ...

Why would my fiance say this to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Before we got engaged, my fiance told me he "is not obligated to do anything for me". What does he mean by this? Why would he even say this to me ?...

I like a guy that ignores me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Theres this guy i really like and when my sisters friend is around us (because his also his friend) he doesnt act the same he harldy says anything to me he ignores me. i have tried to speak him to it but then he just ignores me and asks me if i ...

Is it okay to try weed?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend wants me to smoke weed with him but I won't because I'm allergic to cigarette smoke. do they contain mutual elements? or would it be fine if I tried it?...

How do I deal with Crohn's disease?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - i have a rare disease called orofacial granulomatosis also known as crohn's disease. i have been bullied for over 4 years now because of this actually i think its longer and i havent had a proper real boyfriend because no body wants me some people ...