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writes:im in a relation that im 15, and he is 18. its a forbidden love, and even though i am really pretty, and he isnt, i really like him(which no one really gets why i hang out with him)i really like him, he is himself, and when we USE to talk we talked for 5 hours at night, or start at 3 talking till we had to get ready. but my mom started checking my phone bill, so i changed his name, so my mom thinks its my cousin im talking to him. and if she finds out, she will kill me cuz of church.we are not offical in anyway, people suspect things since we are always together, but we deny it because of me.me and him are so perfect for each other right now, cuz we both like the same things,the only bad thing now is the he is going to go to the marines after school.im not sure if i should make us official this, if in may we will be over, so i havent been really supporting him about itSo should we become offical, or should i end this? Should i tell my mom the truth about the phone? should i start supporting him about the marines.
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 Young woman, be aware that if you have sexual relationship with this marine, you are placing him in violation of the United States Criminal Law on Statutory Rape. He might wind up in a Federal Prison, if you do that.
A minor is defined as a person under the age of 18, which you are. Even though you gave your consent, that will not be a good defense for him.
My advice, keep the young man from any possible danger of being incarcerated. I believe it is best that you talk to your mother about your relationship with this fine gentleman.
Semper Fi!
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reader, Howsyou?  +, writes (31 December 2008):
 I have a 14 year old friend whose boyfriend just turned 18, she will be 15 in march. They are dating, have been for a few months now, when they first started dating they hid it, then her mum accidentally found it, she was mad, not as much the fact of his age, the fact that she had hid it. I think, hiding something can make it worse when someone finds out and hunn, they WILL find out. She went shopping and told her parents she was going with some of her friends. WHen she crossed the road in town, the car that the crossings stopped was her parents! What a way for them to find out yh? Well, after being grounded for lying about who she was with her parents support her fully and understand. I think, if you love him n he loves u, Officially date him! But dont have sex, u dont wnt him getting in legal problems! Let ur parents know, its ur life, surely u know who is best for u. U have every right 2 choose ur partners in life. ANd if they accidentilly find out, well, they will also be mad at you for lying.Mail me ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): Awwwww i really feel for you. Im from Ireland and boys dont usualy go of to the army or marines so i dont no how that must feel. I think if your boyfriend is not in any kind of trouble or doesnt misbehaive your mother shouldnt mind but I dont quite get your religion getting in the way so i could be wrong..... I do think you should tell your mother about the phone calls.I also think if you really really care about him you should support him and his choices... best of luck to you xoxox
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