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writes:I don't know if this is just a phase because of my raging hormones but I think I want to date my best friend (Who is a girl just like me) She has a boyfriend, and they have been dating for about a month basically. I've been fighting this feeling but I really think I like her... I mean she gives me butterflies, you know? I don't want to feel this way but I do and she told me she is bisexual too, but I think she's fighting it but sometimes we randomly hold hands like lock fingers and one day I was about to hold her hand not even thinking and I just grabbed her wrist. She keep going back in forth like she tell me she doesn't love her boyfriend and then she says she does and then she tell me she loves me and say stuff like we should live together when we graduate(we're juniors and we're 17) and I told her no and then she was like Andrew is going to be around our house and I don't I think I love her in a way and today she was suppose to come over but she bailed out and we stayed on the phone until 4 am talking and I don't know...What should I do or what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): go 4 it tell her everything she might just be scared to leave him and get turned down by you i say go on life is to short to wait around
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reader, Jmo +, writes (31 December 2008):
 SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND. Regardless of her going back and forth about loving him, she's obviously not ready to get rid of him. In the meanwhile, I think she's giving you mixed signals. If there is ever going to be a real relationship between the two of you, I think you should wait until her current one dissolves before even considering your future with her.
-Jmo
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