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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Help!!!! I don't know what to do... I don't want to lose him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and we are extremely close. he is honestly my best friend. Just recently he got his phone and computer taken away because he failed chem with a really low grade like in the 50s. His parents are ...

I'm too devastated and don't know what to do. I love him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend dumped me and treated me awfully, calling me names and basically blaming me for everything. What did I do? Well nothing, almost. He couldn't deal with my past. Once he asked, I told him what he wanted to know and it was chaotic. So next ...

I love you. You love religion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - Dear cupid... Well first let me say that you must be at least this tall to ride my emotional roller coaster. Age; I'm 16, she's 16... high school. Don't laugh. I swore to god that I would never fall in love. Now look at me. There wa...

Was I too hard on her after our argument?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

17 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend's mom didn't want her when she was 1 years old. She had foster parents after foster parents. She's a bit sensitive about it. Well one day we had this huge fight about me working too and not spending enough time with her. Then ...

How to be comfortable with my boyfriend touching me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and a virqin and I've never done a lot with a quy but kissinq. Me and my current boyfriend have been toqether for almost three months. I'm qetting really curious about sex and stuff and I'm slowly trying new thinqs. I just got into kissinq ...

What can I do to get his guard down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Okay, here's the deal. I'm basically with this boy.. but were not exactly official! he claims he wants to take this slow.. which is completely understandable being that we both just got out of something hurtful and we've been at it for 2 months now. ...

How long do you need to be in a relationship to consider sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - Ladies please answer. How long do you need to be in a relationship to consider sex? What things need to be considered? What things does the relationship need to have to consider sex? Ladies do you like to take things in stages (ie kissing, mak...

I hate rejection - I have a fear of being rejected solely on my looks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - There is a girl in my History class that I recently became attracted to. We haven't had any prolonged contact besides this year of school. She is sending me some mixed messages that I don't understand. She'll tell me about her personal life and all ...

My emotions are all over the place after losing my dad last month...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Last month my dad past away with MS and my emotions are all over the place, if someone starts to get me in a mood I just lose it and my boyfriend said he is there for me but he's not, he thinks evry thing is okay when it's not. I tell him I'm not ...

Doctor worries...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do. I've had so many stomach aches and period problems that my mom has offered several times to take me to get checked out. My problem is that: a)I have an issue with exposing certain parts of my body to ANYBODY and I do...

I wanna break up with him but don't know how

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - well i have this problem with my boyfriend! he is very shy and i kinda made him jealous! it was not that i wanted to it was just that my friend asked me out to the movies and i said no because my bf was there! i want to break up with him but i dont ...

What are the reasons that people have sex because to reproduce

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - Besides the reproductive reasons what are some other good reasons to have sex? People are not always having sex just to have a baby. Women I am interested in your reasons. ...

Even on meds I'm always stressed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - why can't i just be happy? i always have to worry about something. i hate it. i'm like a big stress ball. and it wont go away.. i take anxiety medicine from my doctors. but it clearly doesn't work.. my doctors don't know that and my mom doesn't. i ...

I don't know if I'm depressed because I'm sick or its my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - hi, so i have a boyfriend. i am 15. he is 16. i really feel like i'm in love with him.. we've been through so much together and we lost our virginity to each other in the summer. i have anxiety/stress issues that i take medicine for. and i'm kinda ...

Will he hook up with his ex tonight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - so there's this guy that i have been seeing, he has an ex girlfriend though and they just broke up 3 months ago, i know that seems like a while but they also went out for like 3 or 4 years maybe more maybe less i'm not really sure, long story short ...

I lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago and now my period is late!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago. We used protection and everything went well. The condom didn't split because we checked afterwards. However, my period is a few days late and I'm starting to worry I could be pregnant. I didn't think you could ...

How do I get my boyfriend to "play" during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hi. Havent recently started sleeping with my boyfriend and need some advice. When we started going out, I openly admitted I'd had a bit of a sexually experienced past. I went through a stage of sleeping with a lot of people - some good ...

Said he was getting back with ex but then starts dating someone new not me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I'm in the very common situation, where i have strong love-like feelings for a friend - who i've only known since September. But these feelings are real, I think about him non-stop. However, i'm a little confused right now and was hoping you c...

What excuse can I give my mom

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Im a 15 year old muslim girl. I wear a head scarf all the time, and only take it off on special occasions. Non-uniform day is coming up soon, and i dont want to wear my scarf. Previous times i have worn it, but for once i dont want to. Also this ...

What is the right age to have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - hiya people i have a problem what is the right age for sex? I am 18 and my girlfriend wants to have sex. should i do it or am i too young?...

What did the x in the text mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - hey right about a hour ago , i told this boy who i like, that i love him , but hes got a girl friend i texted him saying "im sorry but i have i bit of feeling for you xx" and he texted back saying "ok x " with a kiss did that mean any thin...

Can it be passed on if I've been treated for STD?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - If someone has had chlamidia and has been treated for it is there a chance they have still got it, or it can be passed on??...

I'm doing a senior project about advice... Any help would be appreciated.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hey I'm Hillary, I'm on here because I'm doing a senior project about advice and I heard of this site from a friend and thought that it would be a good idea to get me started. I'm trying to help people out and get their feedback to write my paper. ...

Allowed to stay for a couple of hours then home by myself on the train while fiance stays!!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Could you please help me! I am going to my fiance's works night out, but he's only allowing me to stay for a couple of hours! He said I have to get the train home myself while he stays at his friend's house. I think he has plasnned to meet up when ...

One moment he won't be able to keep his eyes off me, but then another he doesn't even pay the slightest attention to me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need help! I know this person that "might" be attracted to me, but I'm not for sure. I've debated whether he does, for over 7 months now. This is really hard to explain, but he's kind of off limits, ok I'll just say it, I think wh...

I want to change my shit life But how??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I wake up in the monings and never know what to do my room gets mess a lot but I don't see the need to tidy it up cos I have been wating for my room to be decorated for 6 years. I go to college to see my friends but when I come home I don't kno...

What do you think of my poem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Dear people, I'm in need of your very honest opinion. I wrote the following poem from the heart and before I give it to that someone, I just needed to know what other people think of it, any comment will be highly appreciated. Below is the poe...

Friends... or lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Ok, so I began to like this guy and all that... And we dated for a period of time... Like about a month. The reason we broke up is his 'best friend' tried and succeeded in breaking us up like the bitch she is. Anyways so after we broke up.. I still ...

I want a guy so bad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - soo basically it comes down to should i stick around or should i move on... well me and my best guy friend had sex in oct.[guy a] of this year and i slept with is best friend[guy b] in nov. of this year [i know that makes me seem like a slut] bu...

Will he leave me for his models?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I NEED HELP! I have a wonderful boyfriend who I have been dating for 4 wonderful years. He is very artistic and loves to do artwork on my body. Recently he got a job to work for Bubble Magazine. He can't use the same model over and over because ...

He's a vrigin I'm not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hey everybody, So there is a guy who I have been dating for about about a year. We had known each other for about 3 years but never really talked. He is so sweet, kind, and understanding. He is much older than I and more intelligent. Well he is a ...

We ignore each other since he found out that I like him, what to do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - There's this guy in my 8th period class, and the whole class found out that i like him-witch is true... we used to talk and stare at each other but now we ignore each other... He's kinda shy...wht should I do?...

He treated me very badly, we broke up, I still love him, he drove by my house four times, what does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated and he was starting to treat me bad. I didnt want to break up but it was hurting me so much. when i broke up with him he acted like he didnt care. i was crying so much and he didnt even do anything ...

His parents think I'm going to de-flower him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Last month, I turned seventeen. My boyfriend of almost seven weeks will turn fourteen in March. Despite the age difference, we have a GREAT relationship. He seems to always know what to say whenever it feels like my world is crashin...

He blew me off hung up on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - help my boyfriend totally blew me off today i called him and he said he had to go and just hung up what do i do he had a friend over but i feel like he hates me but he said he loves me still...

I keep having dreams about my old crush, does this mean something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hey i just want an input on this lately ive been having dreams with my old crush. in my dreams he keeps on coming back into my life.he left my life about a year ago but these dreams are driving me nuts. in one he goes up to me and tells me "we can...

I'm fed up with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - okay well let's just say that i am so fed up. tonight for example my boyfriend of just about 4 months breaks up with me, i'm all sad of course in the mall, and then he asks me back our and i say yes.but he always calls me a hypocrite because i hate ...

He sends such mixed messages do he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - So there's this guy in my class. We'll call him Johnathan I knew him ever since seventh grade. When we first met in seventh grade we hated each other. But as the years went on in tenth grade we became very fond of each other where we were telling ...

Any tips for making sex beautiful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - Ladies please reply. What makes sex enjoyable for you? What about sex is satisfying for you? How do you define good sex and good loving? Ladies, in your opinion what makes sex beautiful? Any tips for making sex beautiful? ...

How can I learn to be more open?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Okay. I'm 15 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for almost three months but I've known him alittle lonqer. We have a qood relationship. We usually have qood talks- about sex or love and other serious thinqs, but we do talk normal about ...

How can I break his porn habit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years are now engaged!!! But I have one question... why does he seem to be so addicted to porn?? All of the pictures on his Sony PSP are mainly porn.Every time he gets to use a computer or when he gets to a WiFi hotspot, he ...

What's going on with his behavior?

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17 December 2008 (F) - ive been seeing a guy for about 2 months now. everything was going well, untill about a week ago really..nothing bad happened..i just didn't see him cause he said he was ill. i went round to see him tonight and things were ok..we were getting on ...

Is it just flirting or something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I'm 19, going to be 20 in two weeks. I go to school 7 hours from here but my family lives here and I come home and work during breaks and such. I work at an insurance company. Basically, we have a lawyer who just turned 37 a few days ago who works ...

What do you do on top?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I know this is going to sound stupid but I have only ever slept with one guy and thats my boyfriend and he was always on top now he's asked me to go on top but I dont know what you do... I know this sounds stupid but could somebody please tell me ...

Do dreams really come true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, Lately mostly every single day I've been having dreams about the one person i truly care about and its always about him and I- Every night I'm just dreaming about him like my dreams never changed just differen't stories- I'm not a true ...

My guy has all these rules for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - i hope somebody can shed light on my situation... I have been seeing a guy 4 8 months, we dont live together, he lives 60 miles away from me, we are in love like truly, but he always tells me how i shouldnt ring him in work and how i should call hi ...

Whats wrong with me? Is it depression?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm new to this site. Basically I'm 17 (nearly 18) and have had a bit of a tough year. To cut a long story short this time last year I got broke up with my boyfriend, found out I was pregnant with his baby and had an abortion in February. My ...