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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Health category)

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I want to know how to gain my jailbird boyfriend's forgiveness!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - I was friends with this guy for the last two years, he helped me out when I was in difficulties and needed emotional support. We were close friends plus I thought he was gorgeous and was very attracted to him. A year ago he was sent to prison for ...

Can thrush delay your period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - can thrush delay your period?? My periods were due 20/21 July and haven't gotten them yet. But I have had a yeast infection???...

My girlfriend is snooping on me via google!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - not sure what to do here, but my gf had found out about an abortion approx 4-5 years ago in a previous relationship she got upset at me because its something important i failed to tell jer, she said she wasnt checking up on me, but googled my n...

Please help me with this crazy relationship..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - So I'm dating a guy and he is so wonderful and sweet and i love him so much! well at least sometimes he is wonderful.. He suffers from ocd, depression and i don't know what else. he also lies about stupid little things for no reason sometimes big ...

I get depressed going out and seeing children that I'll never have so now I don't want to go out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I am late thirties. Whenever I go to a mall or wherever and see couples and families with children out together I get this tight sensation in my chest and I feel rock bottom sad that it didn't happen for me, as I never married or had children. I ...

He's not expressive about his love for me. And I have health issues. How can I encourage him to stop pressuring me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - Hello, I need some advice please... I am a 31 year old woman and I have been with my partner for 2 years. He is 39. The problem I have is that although we live together and get on well most of the time, he only tells me he loves me once in a blue ...

Don't want to cheat. She doesn't want sex and I love her. So how can I get rid of this desire on my part for intimacy and also affection?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

29 July 2012 (M) - o.k. here is the jist of my situation. I will be married for 20 years come next year to the same woman. And I love my wife so much but intimacy has never been the same. now a days, since the kids are older she likes to go out with her girlfriends ...

Does any one have any tips about 'soft, light domination' in the bedroom ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4310 days ago

29 July 2012 (M) - Hi guys, Me and my girlfriend have a good sex life, but we're a relatively newly formed couple, and haven't tried anything extreme yet. I wondered about 'dom/sub' play, 'domination' in the bedroom, and she seemed really into it, I want to...

Is this extra weight normal and will I lose it as I get taller?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I dont know if this is the right place to ask this but I need some help. I'm 14, 5,5/5,6 and 12st. I quite heavy chested like my mum, so I know that's genetic, but slightly overweight. I have a feeling this is something to do with puberty because ...

My ex fiance's sister is sending me cryptic messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I'm a little confused about a certain situation and not sure how I should react. My ex-fiance's sister recently posted personally to me on fb that if I observe something (didn't say what) I will obtain great wisdom and also, that if I pray t...

Is this possible? Could I do it? Want to cut verbally abusive brother out of my life but family frown upon it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - prior to a question id asked the other day http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-brother-is-verbally-abusing-me-and-ive5.html Well i took the great advice , thanks guys for that, decided to cut my brother out of my life. However in doing so, i've h...

Should I pursue an online relationship with him? Not sure what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4310 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - My problem isn't really directed at one person although there is a person at the minute. Sometimes, I want to be in a relationship and I see the benefits, but some times I just like being single and don't have the energy to put effort into it. I'...

My feelings for him are strong. His actions indicate he doesn't care. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I know i need to split up with my boyfriend, he is constantly out with his friends even though he has no job. We have a child together and when he is out im stuck in the house myself with no one to speak to, it has gotten so bad that it has driv...

Why ask? Should I comply? My married lover wants to know about any other women I sleep with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - I have been sleeping with a married woman for over a year now. She has an open marriage (within some limits) and we get along great both inside and outside of bed. She and I were talking and I asked her if she'd be upset if I slept with other...

My wife likes acting flirty sexy with other men. Should we consider the threesome offer my friend has made?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - My wife has a sexy body and a real cute ass , she loves going 2 pubs and clubs with me and sitting fully clothed on other mens laps. She gets really turned on feeling their erection sticking into her private parts and we never make it home afterwar...

Why would my boyfriend behave like this? He was most insistent about wanting sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I really need to know that you think is going through my boyfriends head because this has never happened to me before in any relationship I have been in. I was getting ready to go out with a group of girlfriends one evening. About an hour bef...

Sex only 4 times in 5 years? But no affection? Gives his Aunt more affection. Should I leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - My bf of five years has only had sex with me four times He also only shows affection to his aunt I'm staying with him but his aunt is the one to get the kiss when he comes home Is it normal he does kiss hold or touch me and I sleep in his bed I c...

In my 20s but trying to deal with my infertility issues, leading to depression. What can I do to help me face this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. So, I have fertility problems or I'm likely to have them. I'm in my early 20's. I've been having many issues with my period since late 2010, by then I was going thru a really stressing time. Before this I was more or less regular, I d...

Should a pregnant woman be having a discharge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - Hi every1, pls, is this normal 4 a pregnant woman to b dischargin a whitish fluid in her private part?...

What can I wear to hide my tummy? I'm a little chubby. Rest is presentable.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - Hey everybody! I would like some help. What can i wear on a date that will hide mt tummy the most? I have a flappy tummy. I'm chubby, got a nice ass. I'm about 1.7m tall. thanks. ...

Depression is holding me back in life, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - im 32 year old lesbian and i do get depression which i have been to the doctors and done counselling and will be doing again. i do try and have hobbies i go swimming i like to read and i see friends sometimes and i have even been to see courtcases ...

Is my Gf a compulsive liar? Can I or should I trust her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - Hi everyone. I've been together with a girl for around 2 months now who I met online. A few months before we got together, she told me that she lived in Japan and was studying at a college to draw Japanese comics. She also told me that she grew up ...

Tried for 18 months. Still not pregnant. What else can my husband and I do to make it happen? Please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - hi, we are trying from 1 and half year with my husband, we are trying for pregnant and i want to get pregnant soon, within 1 month.please tell me what else to try?....

Sex is still uncomfortable after a year.

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26 July 2012 (F) - Im 22 and my bf is 20, we had sex for the first time after being together for 6 months, it wasn’t as terrible I thought it was gonna be, I mean it hurt but I didn’t bleed and it wasn’t terrible, the problem was that once he was in, it hurt when he ...

Now I'm in this predicament. But does he still love this other girl? Or is he just a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (21) has told me he has had 3 past girlfriends (N, G, M) and that he's had sex with only 2 of them and he doesnt even remember who he fucked G or M. Those supposedly are the only girls he has had sex with and also the first girl he lost ...

Could this make someone pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

26 July 2012 (M) - My girlfriend touched me and then touched the outside of her underwear lightly. I had noticed some pre-ejaculate earlier that was on my underwear. She noticed that she was a bit 'wet' afterwards from herself. She did not feel any liquid from me. It ...

Now that I'm getting my life back on track, I'm afraid of losing him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - We love each other but are now having problems making it work. I first met my boyfriend in my early teens, i was friends and used to help out his younger sister. We became closer at uni then started a relationship nearly 2 years ago, i had been ...

Should I consider this other man? My husband is not intersted in me. Does this other man only want sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - Hi, iam 25 years old married and have a kid,my husband is not interested in doing any sex with me... Nor will he discuss any matters to me. I saw some SMS in his mobile , which is related to a girl. I think he has another affair, if i ask him, he ...

How do I start to get over this? I am still affected by my parents infidelity and how it made me feel as a child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - My question is regarding cheating parents. A few years ago, my father cheated on my mother. I am considerably younger than my siblings AND when this infidelity occurred, I was placed in the middle of the drama because of my age difference. Althou...

How do you bring up mental illness in a delicate way?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - I always thought something was off with my BF until recently when I found out for sure there's something very off. I found tiny, secret cameras hidden in small holes all over our apartment, my mail was opened by him, and I think he records my ...

How do I make my arms bigger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

26 July 2012 (M) - i need to help that what should i do for getting a big arms ? and i have been gyming for last 3 year but it doesn't work? so can anyone tell me what should i do...

I am upset that I am being criticized for my parenting!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

24 July 2012 (F) - My daughter is about to be a year old next week and does not walk nor try to. She just crawls and she goes to the furniture and stands up on it. She was born 2 months premature and her doctor always said that some things she might do a little bit ...

Why is it because I'm fat I'm all of a sudden not good enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

24 July 2012 (F) - Ok so Im having a little bit of a problem here. Im over-weight, reason is medical but nonetheless I am. I have long red hair, my eyes change between blue, green and grey on a daily basis and Im only 5’1. My boyfriend is 6’1, slim, dark bleh. ...

I noticed a small lump at the entrance to my vagina, and it hurts, I need some advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - I have sex with my boyfriend alot...at the beginning we were averaging around 5 times per day but now 8 months on we're not doing it as much, we have days where we dont do it at all but on average its still atleast twice a day. Well the past ...

Guys, would you be disappointed to know that the girl you're dating had hair loss and wears a wig? Any ladies out there who have gone through this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - This is a question for guys mainly (or for any girls in my situation or who have been in my situation). I have androgenetic alopecia, I'm 23, so I feel I'm too young for this! :( Anyway, for those who don't know, it means I'm losing my hair. ...

Why does sex hurt me so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - I was reading a post about a girl that wants to lose her virginity and she got a few answers saying sex shouldnt hurt. Sex often hurts me, practically every time. Im engaged, have children both vaginal births, and am in my early 20s. I have been ...

She loves me more than I care for her...can this work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - Okay short and simple but really need your views on this. I met this girl and we started dating. Things were going well until she met my sister who did not like her very much and from there it pretty much went downhill. This girl loves me t...

Chief bridesmaid but I feel fat. How do I get over my confidence crisis before the wedding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - I'm having a crisis of confidence at the moment. I'm chief bridesmaid at my sister's wedding in a few months and am so excited about it. I've been dieting really hard and have lost a stone but I still look so fat. The thought of the photos etc is ...

Is my weight the reason I can't get a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - I've convinced myself that my weight is the reason I can't get a boyfriend, I'm 14, 5,5, 12st. Is this normal? I go through stages where I get really tall and skinny, then bulk out again. Is this the reason I cant get a boyfriend?...

My parents did not accept the man I did like. Will I never find the right man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - Hi.i am 29 yrs old female from India.my older sis in 33 yes old she got married when she was 27 to ths guy she liked.mu family loved their family and they r happy together so everything worked out good for her.i started dating a guy 4 yrs back tht ...

Marriage problems. What should or can I do? I feel like starting over. What are some options?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4314 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - I really do not want to share this with friends or family. I have been in a relationship for 15 years and married for 4. I have 3 children, work full time and try my best to manage career, husband, children and home duties... Lately, I feel not...

Does this mean I'm not over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4317 days ago

21 July 2012 (F) - so i was dating this person for over a year and we broke up cuz he constantly cheated on me and lied to me throughout our relationship. so we've been talking cool and a girl pops up starts trying to be cool with me on fb and i look at his page and ...

Depressed g/f lied and told therapist that I abuse her! I can't trust her now at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

20 July 2012 (F) - I have a very complicated issue and need advice and an outsiders point of view. When my gf and I got together (2 years ago) she was open about the fact she was on anti depressants. I was ok with this as it seemed she was dealing with it. A few ...

Is my depression coming back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

20 July 2012 (M) - Dear all, I have finished university been there for 4 years and got a Masters in Engineering with a upper second class. I have a few proper close friends, male and female. I have held the same part-time job for 2 years now which supports my week...

Is it normal to feel hormones so strongly at this age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - Well I'm 21 and lately I've been having some kind of delayed hormone surge and I was wondering if this was normal. I guess the feeling is best described as a strong sense of desire? I never felt like this as a teenager, and I have no experience, s...

Unprotected oral sex risky?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - Divorced, and having casual sex for first time in life, use condoms. Realistically, what are the chances of getting a disease from giving a man unprotected oral sex? Not swallowing. I know that HIV is difficult to pass that way. And the two ...

My complicated love life? Or is it Lust? I need help please to sort this out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - i started talking to this guy from my old school that i have a crush on well used to now, we texted And inboxed each other on facebook. i started saying i had a crush on him he said he did too , then i started sending him naked pics of my self ...

I didn't sign on for benefits but I'm not sure if that's the right thing to do or not!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - I got married in April to the most wonderful man in the world, I was 41 and he was 47. It's both our first marriage and we couldn't be happier. My contract for my job is temporary and I will not until Sept if it will be renewed. Therefore, I...

It's totally out of character for him. So how can I discover what went wrong? Before it was great.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - I was in a long distance relatioship with a guy who was really good to me and my family. He would travel to see me just about every weekend. We were content together, he enjoyed my grandchildren and my adult children got along with him very wel...

Are cold sores herpes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

17 July 2012 (F) - Okay, this may be a bit stupid but please bare with me. I'm 20 years old and I've just found out I have herpes simplex type 1. I haven't been tested, I've been told that cold sores are herpes? I've had cold sores since I was a baby and I didn'...