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My wife likes acting flirty sexy with other men. Should we consider the threesome offer my friend has made?

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Question - (28 July 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, *he j man writes:

My wife has a sexy body and a real cute ass , she loves going 2 pubs and clubs with me and sitting fully clothed on other mens laps.

She gets really turned on feeling their erection sticking into her private parts and we never make it home afterwards without me and her having a quickie first.

She only sits on men she knows and feels safe with and only when i am with her.

My worry is that i am beginning to enjoy it too much.

It's a big turn on knowing the other man is basically getting a dry hump from my wife and now my mate is hinting for us to join him in a threesome and we are tempted so much.

Should we go for it?

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A male reader, The j man  United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2012):

The j man is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks to all who answered you were a great help keep up the good work

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A male reader, Hugh.J United Kingdom +, writes (29 July 2012):

Hugh.J agony auntI've got to agree with "Cerberus" once again - keep it impersonal. All I can add is that you post an ad on a site like "Craigslist", looking for a bloke to oblige......

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2012):

No, threesomes are a different kettle of fish OP.

Look I personally would be horrified by that kind of behaviour but my limits are obviously different.

I've had threesomes and I can tell you for a person like me, territorial and protective they're only possible outside of a relationship.

For someone like you it may actually enhance your sex life and bring you closer but there's always a danger in those moments of it backfiring, that kind of passion in that kind of moment can yield surprizing results. She may well get a taste for other guys in a way she's never had for you.

OP the number one rule for me in threesomes is never a friend, sure she feels okay teasing them and you're okay with that but friends aren't a good idea to introduce to your sex life because things can become blurred, lines are very easily crossed emotionally and things tend to get messy. What happens if a friend suddenly starts sniffing around or taking more of an interest after that kind of taste of what he can have.

Find and vet a stranger for this kind of thing OP, you never have to see that person again, you can tell him stop and kick him out without any bitterness or being talked around etc. It lowers the risk of anything bad happening.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (28 July 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntJust as you can't "un-ring" a bell, you must consider that - if you and she partake of a threesome - this will CHANGE your marriage and relationship FOREVER.....

Many marriages don't endure such a dalliance. You and wifey have to decide if you'll chance it....

Have fun, and good luck....

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