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Archived questions from: 17 November, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

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Family: Help and advice

I need 'alone time'! How do I get this with others around all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

17 November 2009 (?) - I never have time to 'be alone'.... and no I dont mean like sleeping time, like 'me time' to make me happy and explore. My dad or his girlfriend is always here so I can never get done what I am trying to do. How do I get some alone ti...

My mum calls me fat, now I'm feeling depressed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Most days i feel really down and i think i may be depressed, i cry a lot and the smallest things can make me cry. i feel like everyone around me dont love me, i think my family hate me, i think my boyfriend hates me, i think my friends hate me. me ...

How long will my boyfriend stay in jail for assaulting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - am 17 years old and i was dateing this guy who is 19 years old. we currently brok on saturday. because the police arrested him for hitting me on the street i guess people saw him hit me so they called the cops so they arrested him becasue i am a ...

Am I overreacting to my husband's relationship with my daughter-in-law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I am having a problem with my husband and daughter in-law. It seems that they have a seperate relationship that I am not a part of they can talk for hours and hours about things I have nothing to do with my husband says he should have a seperate ...

We are drowning in debt! My husband won't take that into account as we approach the holidays!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Before my husband and I got together, he had a wife who got him into debt. After she walked out on him and his kids, he got a girlfriend who completed the process. The hole that the ex-wife started was dug deeper by the girlfriend. My husband is ...

How can I gently break the news to my mother-in-law that I am pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Ok then. This is the first time i've used this site, so be nice! (And excuse the punctuation, my CTRL button is tempermental today) So I was wondering how to break the news that im pregnant to my mother-in-law. She is a wonderful woman, and has a...

Mum's going bankrupt, I'm the last to know! There's no communication here! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Ok, the short version of the problem i'm having is this: I moved to a new country a year ago, leaving behind my family to marry a guy I love. Everything is great with the marriage but things aren't so great with my family back home! They a...

Feeling used by lazy future brother in law!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey Aunts Heres my problem and hope you can help , Im living with my fiance and his brother , and the problem is the brother , he is 20 and just lays around the house , we all have full time jobs and i do 90% of the cooking and cleaning my fian...

36 years old, happily married, but not sure I want kids....will I regret this later on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Dear All, I am happily married to the love of my life - I am 36 years old and hubby is 37 - we have been married for 1 year, and together for 3 years. Hubby really wants kids, but I am not so sure. I love the idea of having a child around th...

I am depressed, my mom is an alcoholic and I fear losing my b/f!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey there, This is a pretty hard topic to talk about and I dont really know where to stsart, i guess first things first is my mom is an alcholic and i really dont know how to handle it, i turned to smoke, then quit that cuz my bf helped me stop, an...

He seems to feel as though I don't trust him and am being unreasonable. Am I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I've been a single mom for 5 years, after the end of a very abusive relationship. I have 3 kids, 2 teens and an 11 year old. I started dating a guy about 7 months ago and he is awesome! He's met my kids, but we've kept it pretty casual and ...

One thing finally goes right for me, and now my dad is being unreasonable. Please help me understand this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Ok so i need some quick advice. Bad. I've had a rough time with relationships. Out of the 3 ive been in, ive been cheated on 3 times. Ive finally found an amazing girl, we've been talking since this past friday, so not so long. But we both thin...

My girlfriend's threesome is haunting me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend recently let slip that she was involved in a threesome when she was 16. The threesome involved her older sister (age 23) and the sister's boyfriend. Some things can't be unheard or rewound and it is now driving me nuts. The words ...

Where do I go from here? I'm 30, she's 19 and her mum hates me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 30 and I've just started to go out with a lovely 19 year old, we both have spoken for three weeks online and before we met we both had our nerves, we finished off the first night with a kiss and since then our love for each other has ...

Mom wants me to be with another race!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hi aunts, serious problem here... my mom is obsessed with me getting married to someone of a different race of my own, I am african american and she wants me to be with someone caucasian.. She has this thing against african americans because the ...