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writes:Here is my Dilemma.I am in my first year of sixth form at the moment, and we still mix quite a lot with the lower school kids. About a few months ago I started noticing this boy, first i thought ' hmmm hes nice' and now im thinking ' omg hes gorgeous'. One of my problems is that i am very shy, and i dont know how to approach him, i see him all the time and i really wish i could have the courage to go and say hi. My other problem however is that he is one of the lower schools kids. Hes in year 10 and i'm in year 12. Im 17 but 18 in october and he may be as young as 14. I dont know what to do because i think maybe going out with someone younger than me may be wrong. But i also don't know how to approach him if i do decide to go for itHELP !!!
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reader, sxcbabiegal +, writes (11 February 2010):
sxcbabiegal is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for your advice. I finally got the courage to speak to him today. One day before half term, But i knew if i left it any longer i may explode. I'll give you another up-date on how things go.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 February 2010):
 Ask his parents if your dating their son would be with their approval.
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reader, SleeplessLullaby +, writes (3 February 2010):
 I'm fourteen and dating someone older than me. However, boys are thought to be less mature. I don't think it's 'wrong'. It just might not be 'right' for you if you need someone to take you seriously. He'll be great for having a laugh with :) On the other hand, as you're older than him, he'll have a great deal of respect for you and over time this could make him more mature :-) Hope things go okay with you and him!
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reader, WiccanWonder +, writes (3 February 2010):
 Well, I'm dating a boy who is in sixth form, there's nothing wrong with dating someone a bit younger than you, its the fact you like him that counts.
Just swallow your fear and talk to him, just like...join a club he goes to that you'll enjoy too, that way you'll have some common ground?
Its better just to do it than to never know! x
Hope this helps, and i hope things go well for you x
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