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Why do I always seem to fancy older men?

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Question - (10 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *urph79 writes:

Hi,

My current boyfriend is 54 and I am 30. The thing is i have always fancied older men.

I have a stable family life and grew up with both my parents being there, i get on well with my dad.

So i dont understand why i fancy older men? and not men my own age like all my friends?

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A female reader, chick989 United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2010):

i feel the same, i'm 18 and my boyfs 50, it's just one of those things x

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A female reader, Kassi (Nova) Canada +, writes (11 February 2010):

Kassi (Nova) agony auntThere isn't anything wrong with liking older men. I've always been attracted to men older than me. At first I thought I was simply attracted to the taboo of a relationship wherein most people would disagree with the age difference, but I simply discovered that older men were on my level. They're smart, they're done being irresponsible and reckless, and they're starting to feel their biological clock a bit, too. I'm aware that my attraction to older men comes from a need for stability, and equality.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (10 February 2010):

If you like older guys, you like older guys. I like older women and am dating one. There's nothing wrong with it. Have fun.

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A female reader, rgreen120 United Kingdom +, writes (10 February 2010):

rgreen120 agony auntDifferent people are into different things! Some women like younger men and some like older ! Maybe its the expirience you find a turn on? Or the grey hair! You shouldnt feel ashamed of what you like, you should embrace it!

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