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writes:hello dear reader my name is zion. am 27yrs of age.have been with her "lilly" close to 2yrs i love her very much even angels in heaven know i realy do,up till date she never visited me at home for once not even visit to any man's house except in public places (not to loose her virginity until her bednight), nor has she invited me to her house, we only hookup in public place once in a while . have always try not hurt her feelings(sex) but something hapend recently during our usuall outing where she asked me qustions about sex if have had it before(i was truthful yes i ve done it before i said)and she asked what i realy know about sex, after my little knowledge, she open up to me how a brother in the same ministry almost forced her to do it, if wasn't for god intervention the chance her giving up for the guy was very slim.my question is how would i know that she is ready or for her to brought up the topic indirectly is she giving me asignal that she is ready? . i love her i dont want to loose her. advise me
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (5 November 2014):
You will know you are ready for sex with her when... You are ready to marry her, look after all her needs, your kids, and provide a home for your family.
She maybe ready for sex, but are you ready for what happens if she gets pregnant? Sex is not some nice food you eat because your are hungry. You can screw up her life and yours just because you want to be her first.
Make sure you love her and not what she has between her legs.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (5 November 2014):
 I've thought and thought about this question and the ONLY answer I can come up with is, "you'll just know" there is no signal or light bulb to illuminate. It's all about feelings and trust and subtle signals that are not describable. Good Luck
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