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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to satisfy all his needs but not with a threesome!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

13 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i know this is a probably a typical silly question to ask but i want to know your opinions on having a threesome based in a relationship!! Small bit of background Im with my partner just over 6 months now we are both similar people and even though its early days i see... (294 words)

My weight gain has put him off sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

13 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I've been seeing my bf for the last 3.5 years, but our sex life has been non existent for the last 2.5 years. I have had lots of reasons why which I always doubted but because we do love each other and get along so well that I accepted that we have a deep friendship and we ... (344 words)

How much sacrifice is too much sacrifice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

13 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm becoming overwhelmed with pessimism. I'm dating a wonderful man, but I'm starting to think there are just too many obstacles for us to get married. He had a vasectomy years ago, and is willing to get a reversal, he still has his name on a mortgage with his ex wife that... (143 words)

Are they just playing with me, how can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

13 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I need advice. I am gay, and I have a guy friend who I hang out with. I noticed he was gay. He used to look at me in a certain way, and I began to have feelings for him. He sent me flirty sms. I didn't know how to respond. He met another guy. They are now a couple. I became ... (171 words)

I'm not feeling too good after hearing about my girlfriend's sexual fantasies!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

13 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend were talking about sexual desires and she told me she always wanted to make out with a black guy. Which is ok and I understand because I have sometimes fantasies about asian women. But then we talked about it a bit more and she asked all the races that I ... (433 words)

Is this woman just an angry person?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - When she let you down sometimes and has severe mood swings, insults you verbally and acting angry towards you, without a serious reason, what would you do to handle the situation?( my attempt was just ignoring it....) For example: she gets made about something, like ... (271 words)

Stumbled across a message of my fiance questioning whether or not she should marry me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

13 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello agony aunts! I need some help with my fiancé and our upcoming marriage. This morning when I was getting ready or work I noticed her phone light up because she received a message I glanced at it and saw that it was her close friend who had replied back about something my ... (257 words)

Too nice to be attractive for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

13 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was wondering if a guy can be too nice to a woman and this causes her to lose attraction, which was there in the first place. I mean, doing things for her, helping her and showing her your affection, not too soon, can that cause her losing interest? Any ideas?... (60 words)

How do I reconnect with I girl I haven't spoken to in over a year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

13 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, About 4 years ago I started dating this girl and we were in a relationship until this November, when we broke up. We left in good terms and I still talk to her occasionally. At the beginning of our relationship she introduced me to one of her friends, who totally ... (250 words)

I'm married to a nice man but have a crush on my doctor!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3755 days ago

13 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! Gee, this may seem silly but I need help getting over a crush! I am married to a wonderful husband, great kids, career, and I am fit and healthy. When things are going wrong in the office, or my husband and I have a disagreement I can't help but think of my dr. I have ... (93 words)

I feel let down by my friend! Am I out of order?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

13 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, this may be quite a long question so please bare with me. My birthday is coming up, one of my plans for it was to go around town at the weekend of my birthday. Another was a surprise which my mum had planned for me which was a spa day the weekend before however ive only... (492 words)

How do others get over their first love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

13 January 2014 (F) age 41-50 - I was dumped last May. We were together for 3 years. He was my first. First sex, first I love you and first serious relationship. I know this may sound strange, but I started dating when I was 26. Before him, all the guys I met were those who liked me, but I wasn't interested ... (322 words)

Lately I haven't felt connected to anyone or anything

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

13 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 24 year old woman living in my state capital working as an AmeriCorps*VISTA. I have no health insurance, no money, and no close family except an aging set of grandparents who live in my hometown, about an hour away. In October (3 months ago), I moved out of my apartment ... (1228 words)

What happened to my once perfect boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3754 days ago

13 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was 4,5 years in beautiful relationship.It was really strong,we were planning to get married and have kids. It was a distance relationship but we were seeing each other often.I was supposed to move to him,after i graduate from faculty this year...and few month before it was a... (856 words)

Missing condoms have raised my suspicions

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

13 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dating a great man for about one year and he is not ready to commit. He has been divorced for 5 years and is not ready for a serious relationship ( I know I know I'm stupid for staying loyal to him ) He is 34 and I am 31 I went to his house on Saturday and he started making o... (355 words)

I suspect my wife is cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

13 January 2014 (M)

age - I am married for my second time and feel I may have made a major mistake. She is a teacher and on the surface seemed to be the kind of person I was looking for. She was into family as at the time we both had kids about the same age at that time my youngest was. 9 . We dat... (347 words)

My boyfriend announced he wanted a month apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

13 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's the deal.... My boyf and I have been together 4 years, met at college, moved in together straight away, I finished college, he started his own business which he named after my family. We were so in love my family loved him even though him and my mum would have a few... (583 words)

I like this new guy I am talking to but my guy friend might be jealous

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

13 January 2014 (?) age 51-59 - Hello, I have a situation and I need some advice. I have been talking to this guy on and offline. He texts me everyday and we talk on the phone also. He is the nicest guy that I have spoken to in a long time. He does live far away and wants to come and see me. He says he wants ... (438 words)

Rejected Too Many Times

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

13 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Lately it just feels like I'm a reject. Nobody wants me. I'm not too bad looking either. I have light brown/ blonde-ish shoulder length hair and I'm sort of skinny. It feels like I'm just completely undesirable and worthless. Why has every guy that I've crush hard on ... (752 words)

Would you be ok with your girlfriend travelling abroad with friends?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

13 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - my gf and i have been in a ldr for almost two years and we are about to close the distance and move in together this year. first step before proposing ;) we asked different questions to each other to make sure we would exactly what we are getting ourselves into, questions like ... (143 words)

Should I contribute more than my boyfriend's room mate?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

13 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going to move in with my bf in a few months. We decided this long before he started having financial issues (furlough, medical bills, car accident), but now they have surfaced and I don't know what to do. He currently owns his home and rents out a room to a roommate fo... (282 words)