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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I stay here or return to the Dominican Republic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been living by myself for a little while now, and it has been very hard for me. I've always been used to coming home to someone and now that I don't makes me feel depressed. It's like a black cloud that hovers above me. I haven't made friends, bt I do have a bf who is ... (223 words)

What did this comment mean?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

12 January 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so I was talking to this girl for a month (we liked each other) and then she said she just wanted to be friends. One month later she sent me a text saying "hey :)" and I replied "sup" and got off without giving her a chance to reply. (I haven't spoken a word to her since the ... (114 words)

I need to become more assertive without losing my job or alienating people

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to seem like a great big grumble..I suppose it is but any advice would be greatly appreciated. Basically, I'm fed up with everything. I'm fed up with my job. I'm a healthcare worker and deal with different people with different health worries/disabilities every ... (529 words)

My mother and I cannot afford health insurance and we're losing hope

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, this is not a relationship issue but rather an issue within myself. I'm 19, going to school full time and work a part time retail job. I live with just my mom and a few wonderful animals. We are really, really broke to the point where we can't afford much at all. ... (429 words)

What are the subtle signs of a controlling person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - What are some small signs that a person, any person, may be a control freak? Any person, friend, potential date, work colleague, family member, friend of friend, someone you have just met, and/or maybe looking to maybe be friends with. It could be the work colleague you t... (277 words)

S this friendship worth trying to save or is it time to move on because of the control her husband has?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age - I have this very best friend. She use to live 1300 miles away and now we live in the same city. She and her husband work together and are together 24/7, they also live on site where they work and I work there too. Now that she lives in the same city as I do we planned on ... (258 words)

How can I deal with my boyfriends friendship with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - What's the best way to deal with my boyfriend still being friends with his ex? How can I stop worrying and being jealous? My boyfriend of 7 months is still friends with his ex from over a year ago. They talk often on skype and texting, and there was even a time where I sa... (146 words)

His comment about the other girl really has me doubting myself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel this way? I'm I overreacting? So my boyfriend is on holiday and he's staying with his friend and he has a female roomate. We were talking and I asked how the girl is. He said they get on really well. They went shopping together. I asked if she's pretty... (227 words)

Feeling numb and empty after unofficial/no closure breakup...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday I finally cut the string that I'd been dangling from for months now. My boyfriend and I (both early 30s) were together for over 3 years and several months back we hit a rough patch where we'd fight a lot. Due to this he started distancing himself, texts became fewer, ... (667 words)

I want a baby but my boyfriend isn't ready

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I are 25 and have been together for 6 years. We moved in together about 6 months ago. We have a good relationship and have always discussed marriage and kids which we both want. I told my boyfriend a few months ago that I wanted to start trying for a baby in ... (187 words)

I find my boyfriend's dry humping annoying. How do I deal with this without offending him or putting him off?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a really stupid problem, but my boyfriend is always dry humping me... When I'm cooking dinner, when we're in bed, etc. It is kind of annoying, but I worry that I am thwarting his masculine sexual urges or something by telling him to stop and that it will make him stop ... (60 words)

Feeling guilty for not pairing my wedding rings with my fiance's.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm in a long distance relationship for two years and now I'm going to UK for my boyfriend for holiday to spend time with him and meet his family, so he gave a ticket to go there and as a gift for my graduation day, which he promise it before! He's my motivation when it ... (301 words)

Boyfriend is still friends with his ex friend-with-benefits. Am I selfish or obsessive in my response to this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure if I am acting selfish and obsessive or if I'm acting as most girls would in regards to my current relationship. I have been dating my boyfriend since last summer. I had a boyfriend for 2 years before my current boyfriend, and we had broken up a month or so befor... (273 words)

Why does dating him feel so complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know where I stand with a guy I'm seeing, he calls himself my boyfriend but everything that happens just tells me otherwise. We both have just come out of long term relationships about 6 months ago we have worked together for the past 5 months but only really got ... (356 words)

I have a fantasy, but is it too 'out there' to share with her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

12 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a strong desire to cum in my girlfriend's long hair, but I know it will be really messy and difficult to get out. How can I bring this fantasy up to my girlfriend? Do you think she will think I'm weird? If you are a woman would you allow a guy to do this if he asked you? ... (104 words)

Five months later and I still care about my ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me 5 months ago. He said "we are comfortable but it doesnt mean it's gonna go anywhere." He said he has been thinking about it for a few weeks and I was getting obsessed with the relationship. I don't feel sad anymore, though I sometimes ... (583 words)

I get embarressed when he is in the mood and I am not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem and I do feel broken by it. When I have sex with my fiance, I never had an orgasism. I know I can get off by myself, but not with him. To make me feel a little worse, we are done once he gets off. I have faked some just to make him not worry, also because its ... (106 words)

My boyfriend called me a 'beached whale'.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance referred to me as a "beached whale" during sex (in the context of a conversation while not having sex). I'm usually on bottom for a few reasons. He can barely stay hard when I'm on top (not sure why), neither of us can really reach orgasm when I'm on top (doesn't hit ... (145 words)

Could she be jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend always comments on how I'm so confident and always awes at my body. I love her but I think she has huge insecurity issues always talking about girls around us that happen to be beautiful and look good. however she still has a good heart. But I've been dating this guy ... (383 words)

Should I date my ex's brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My dear cupid friends please I need your help now. I met a guy in September and we started dating for almost a month. Our date was perfect and we had a lot of fun but there was things like him smoking that I didn't like so I asked him to stop and he said we are two different ... (366 words)

My boyfriend won't add me as a friend on facebook!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am trying to find advice regarding facebook. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, we live together and I am pregnant. It took him a year to change his relationship status from single to in a relationship, and thats only because I said something. My ... (137 words)

How can you move on from someone you've been with for years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be long so bare with me. Sorry in advance for it being long. After five years of being together my now ex bf broke up with me a week ago. We;ve had our share of problems over the past 5 years but we've managed to over come them. The past few months however been ... (296 words)

He cheated on me and isn't trustworthy! Do I take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently had a breakup after a 1 year long relation .he cheated on me for another girl but now he keeps on sending me texts and calls me and says he wants me back and he's sorry.on one hand i want to go back but on the other hand i feel like he isn't trust worthy .also my ... (127 words)

What exactly are we?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3756 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this guy who I was initially just friends with and at the time I was with someone else who he doesn't particularly like so when he found out we were together he kinda pulled away from me to avoid conflicts between them. After my breakup we started talking again only ... (296 words)

I thought it was a sensual thing to do, but maybe I'm wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

12 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - The other day I was on a date with a friend of mine who I'm kind of seeing casually at the moment. Everything with that is going just fine, but something she said to me really puzzled me. Now I'm not really great at being able to read body language and such so maybe this is a ... (234 words)

He asked me to leave my Bf. But is it love or lust with this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and in recent events he stopped being there for me. Its a long distance relationship so its understandable he gets busy with work but it become all he cares for. Certain things have occurred where i needed him most but he left me on m... (216 words)

Why did this happen? I don't know why. Can you help me understand what went wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3757 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - after two months of dating he told me we have no connection. when we first meet we did hit it off. we would talk on the phone text. text in the morning goomorning baby. we talk about our future. i told him about going into the military and still having our relationship. we ta... (223 words)

I have an aching feeling and sadness after seeing him again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3757 days ago

12 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to know if anybody can make sense of this and why I felt that feeling after over a year of being broken up and having not seen him in that time! I dated this guy over a year ago, we dated for a few months, not long. But he was the first guy I let myself get close... (430 words)