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Am I wrong for wanting to wait around for the right person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 36-40 - I am 24yrs old female and all my friends are getting married, settling down etc. The thing is, it's never really bothered me because I am all about finding the right person. Some of my friends however have recently starting saying that I am too picky, and that I need to g... (172 words

What can I do to finally meet my valentine after eleven years of no dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 51-59 - Dear Cupid ,I really want a valentine I haven"t been in a relationship for 11 years now my kids are grown and my son is about to graduate and is going off to a higher education I can't really get out cause I am a caregiver for my mom who is an amputee .What measures can I take ... (66 words

Is his contact with the girl from the AA meetings violating their open relationship rules?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 36-40 - Ok- I am posting for my best friend because it is an issue she is struggling with and came to me for help/to talk. I'm not sure exactly what to tell her. She is engaged and living with her fiance. They are in an open relationship and have been together about a year and a hal... (387 words

Should I invite my husband's sister to our son's party?

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23 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi, all! I need some advice. Our eldest son is turning 4, and his party is this weekend. My husband doesnt get along with his older sister, at all. Every time they are at an event together, they end up in a terrible argument. I will admit she isnt the easiest person to get ... (290 words

Since I have been talking to a new girl, my ex has been in my thoughts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

23 January 2014 (M age 26-29 - Sorry if this takes to long right so I broke up with my ex now for 9 months she was my first ever girlfriend I lost my v to her ect we was together for 18 months since we broke up all I have been doing is flirting with other girls and meeting them my emotions are all over the ... (216 words

Penises freak me out!

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23 January 2014 (F age 26-29 - Ok I'll cut straight to it; penis' freak me out! My boyfriend and I were doing some..."fun stuff" and I went to give him oral and...well once it was in my mouth I completely freaked out to the point where i cried (not while I was still down there, I'd come back up and had a lil ... (234 words

My husband told me he doesn't find my body attractive! What now?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - *Sorry if it is lengthy** I am in desperate need of advice. To be blunt to start out with, my husband reluctantly told me that he doesn’t find my body to be attractive. I am 24 years old, about to turn 25 next month. My husband is 28 going to be 29 in June. We have ... (602 words

I have a problem dealing with my girlfriend having had a lesbian relationship in the past!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 January 2014 (M age 41-50 - Hello there. I'm 31 years old and I have a girlfriend for almost 2 years now. She's really special and she's the kind of person that I want to spend the rest of my time with. When we were talking about her past (like almost a year ago) she told me that she had a 2 years s... (230 words

My wife of 31 years is no longer interested in sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 January 2014 (M age - I really need to know what to do when my wife of 37 yrs. say she is not interested in sex anymore.I am 57 yrs and she is 51yrs.... (29 words

I'm pregnant and husband is up all night playing games and not letting me get my sleep!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - Dear Aunties/Uncles, I'm hoping you can help me sort through my feelings and figure out what to do, I feel like he can't understand what I'm going through. My husband and I are avid gamers, it's one of the things that brought us together when we were dating. Lately though it... (556 words

She slept with someone else during our break

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - Me (20) and my girlfriend (21) are in a relationship for a year and 4 months. Somewhere along the way we broke up, just to get back together 2 months later. I don't regret taking her back at all. Our relationship is even going better now than it did before. Only recently ... (215 words

Should I tell my guy that I slept with a friend while we were broken up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a messed up situation that I can't see out without losing my boyfriend who I have been with for three years. Basically, last September I had a miscarriage during my 9th week of pregnancy. We had only known for 2 weeks when I lost our baby. My boyfriend didn't react at... (352 words

Is being in love meant to be difficult?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 51-59 - Hi everyone I have had, in the past, many abusive relationships. I have suffered from anxiety and agoraphobia (still suffer but I am very positive and proactive) and I haven't had an easy life but the good thing is that I am strong despite all that's happened, althou... (470 words

What does it mean if a person cancels a date and doesn't reschedule right away?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 41-50 - So, I met a guy online for a date two weekends ago and had an amazing time. The conversation flowed effortlessly, we kissed and had great chemistry, and both of us admitted that were were a little "twitterpated" by the end of the date. He made plans to see me again mid-date (... (510 words

I feel insecure. What does he see in me? I'm so different from his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 41-50 - Been together with my boyfriend for 3 years, I love him to bits but one thing makes me feel insecure and i'm honestly not sure why, was hoping for anyone's thoughts on this. His ex who is mother of his children, so he obviously loved her at some point is horrible, she is very ... (185 words

My boyfriend's strange behavior when we are out in public is starting to bother me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 51-59 - I've been seeing someone that I quite like but his behaviour is also beginning to worry me. This might seem an odd thing to bring up but, whenever we are out and he starts to feel really happy with me, or happy in himself, he becomes kind of 'over-confident' with the people ... (1592 words

How do I leave my violent husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 8 years and we have 4 young children together. My husband has always had a bad temper and drinks excessively, but both have gotten worse over the years. He screams and swears at me at least once a day for something very minimal, like leaving a ... (331 words

Should I jump on my ex about liking his ex's posts? Whats the mature thing to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 36-40 - My child's father and I are working on getting along and being friends and possibly a couple again.. I saw that he has been liking his ex girl friends post a lot.. Should I approach him about it and cut off our plans to work on us or should I keep a mental note keep my mouth ... (84 words

I want him but he is committed to somebody else.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age - I have been in love with this man for 8 years. He has a 9 yr. old son and is committed to the mother They live in the philipines. He visits them every year for 1 month. He is not married to her but says But I have a son. I want him but he won't commit to me. Do I have a ... (78 words

Should I go for a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

23 January 2014 (M age 26-29 - So, Uni drama again. Bloody Uni eh? So someone I met in first year, liked him for ages, tried to get with him for ages, we had a sexual thing but other than that we never really went anywhere, he pretty much friendzoned me soon as he could, then went back to his ex (Who he s... (329 words

He bailed on me.. so what's up with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 41-50 - Okay, my boyfriend, ex I should say, broke it off with me "unofficially" by disappearing 2 weeks ago. He told me he loved me by text, had nothing to offer, blah blah blah and then disappeared. The last thing he ever said to me was "I love you...". It wasn't until yesterday he'd ... (415 words

He's not working but wants me to quit my job??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys! Well i need some advice with this... i have a 6 years relationship with this man and we have a 2 year old baby, i got pregnant while we were in college... he hasn't finished yet but i did, and now i'm working... he's studying and taking care of our daugther while i'm ... (177 words

How can I improve my body language?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 51-59 - Not a r/ship question but hope you all can help. Appreciate it. How to not give off a negative "vibe"? I understand body language, it's so obvious at times, you know.. folding yr arms may mean being closed off, uncrossed arms being more open, smiling too much may be su... (352 words

Fed up of my boyfriend's friend flirting with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

23 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone I have a question. Well, me and my boyfriend have a mutual friend who is a girl. She's known my boyfriend before him and I even got together, and she is more his friend than mine. I don't know her that well, but have talked to her and been around her. I don't... (250 words

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