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I can't get over the breakup and the nasty comments I've heard since.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3710 days ago

30 January 2014 (F age 51-59 - I have seeing this guy for 3.5 years. We met on the job and I thought he was a good man, come to find out that he is insecure, low self esteem and a big flirt. At first he said he was not looking for a serious relationship but over the yrs he fell for me and his actions ... (348 words

How do I get over losing my best friend? He's rejected me and moved on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

30 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - I don’t know how to deal with the rejection of my best friend. He and I were best friends from 13 until 22. I have always been a good friend to him, been there for him, run to him when he has needed me, and even when he has closed the door on me when I have needed him I forgav... (362 words

My boyfriend is circumcised and takes too long to orgasm. Sex hurts me. What can we do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

30 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - 6 months of horrible sex. I am dating a men that is (''cut'') he is the first one I have dated. It is like his penis is desensitise, he thrusts and pounds during sex as if my vagina was made of steel, he takes very long to orgasm and I get sore and it gets painful. I am al... (168 words

How has the new guy I've been dating made me get over my ex so suddenly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

30 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - I have a question that confuses me to the point that I don't know what's going on! Basically, I dated this guy last year and I loved him I've never had that strong feelings for anybody else before, but it ended just before summer and it was an awful break up. He hurt me so much ... (408 words

How young is too young when it comes to settling down and having children?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

30 January 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hello helpers! This is a relatively quick question, but one that i'd love some input for! I'm 18 years old, turning 19 this year. I'd say I was pretty mature for my age (alot of this coming from bad experiences in childhood). I'm currently dating my lovely boyfriend of abo... (248 words

How do I start dating again after being hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

30 January 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I seem to have an issue with letting myself like men. Every time I have ever let myself feel something I end up getting hurt, and its gotten to the point where my defences are so far up that I think I may come across as uncaring or at times, intimidat... (109 words

I suspect my husband of cheating but can't confront him.

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30 January 2014 (F age 41-50 - Hi, where do I start! My husband and I have been married for 15 years and have 3 children. Over the last 3 years I've found several occasions where my husband had been trying to get the attention of other women by both texting and facebook. I'm unaware of any actual cheating ... (123 words

I gave my ex another chance, reunited and I am pregnant - now I find out he cheated and lied. What should I do?

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30 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi To cut a long story short. I've been with my partner for nearly two years. A little less than a year into the relationship my partner treated me real bad. I don't want to go into too much detail but it left me devastated. We was on and off from that point because I didn't k... (237 words

I feel I'll never attract someone of the same religion because of my looks and personality.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

30 January 2014 (F age 26-29 - hi... I am really a lost soul at the moment... I come from a Muslim family. My mom is moderate-liberal Muslim and my dad is relatively conservative. So I've been brought up with conflicting views... Anyways, so I'm at uni and I feel too conservative for non-muslims, but too... (144 words

What does it mean if she's afraid when I tell her that I love her?

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30 January 2014 (M age - I have the misfortune of loving a 55 year old woman who was traumatically, emotionally abused in a 30 year long marriage, until she became so frightened of him she managed to leave and divorce him. She is now divorced for 3 years. She was also emotionally abuse in grade ... (594 words

Specific online help from an expert...does it exist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

30 January 2014 (F age 51-59 - I have noticed that there is a lack of UK online counsellors/psychologists who can help with a specific problem and answer really quickly. Have you found that? There are forums such as this one where someone can answer and be really helpful but getting advice online from an ... (126 words

I can't seem to hit a girl's g spot

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

30 January 2014 (M age 30-35 - i have 6.2 inch penis 4.5 inch straight and and around 2 inch slight down curve.. i had sex with thirteen different girl but i never get any negative comment but i still fell insecure because i think i m not able to satisfy and make girls orgasm in missionary position ,, i ... (132 words

I'm not so interested in sex and I'm afraid my boyfriends desires will lead him to cheat

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

30 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hiya aunts and uncles, my fiancé of 4 months and dating for 3 years has been talking in his sleep and has expressed the same concerns in his waking hours. He is 26 and im 23 on valentines day. well, its like this: he doesn't feel like we are intimate enough and hes worried ... (422 words

Can attraction develop after some distance between 2 people?

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30 January 2014 (F age 26-29 - You tell a guy you've liked him for ages. He's really flattered but admits he doesn't share any deeper feelings. Apparently he's started seeing someone at the moment, you hear from a friend. And 3 months later, they've broken up. Because he's leaving. A year later he's back and ... (171 words

Tired of husbands childish traits. How should I cope?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

30 January 2014 (F age 36-40 - Sometimes I really dislike, maybe to the point of hate, my husband. Most of the time he's a great guy. But he has some childish traits that can go beyond irritating. He likes to push buttons and tease to the point where I get genuinely angry, then gets upset with me for gett... (214 words

Stuck in a bad marriage. What am I going to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

30 January 2014 (F age 36-40 - Hi there guys, I'm a mother of 3 at the age of 27. I'm tired of my husband anymore, it seems that he don't want us, me and my kids.. he always tells me that I'm useless and also he is not a hardworking type of guy..he can't even feed us 3 times a day and I'm sick of this. He ... (127 words

Taken advantage of in business with friend

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30 January 2014 (F age 41-50 - Hi all, I have a problem with a friend that I have known since I was 12 yrs old. Recently she opened a shop and as I have a manufacturing business she asked me if I had any excess stock that she could put in her store on consignment. For those who don't know this simply m... (724 words

10 days and I haven't heard from him. Will I hear from him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

30 January 2014 (F age 26-29 - So I started talking to this guy on an app called Tinder and he was super cute and sweet and we talked for about 2 weeks and were talking about maybe dating and how much we liked each other already without even meeting. And then we went on two dates and they went well. I really ... (397 words

Is she just too independent? She doesn't seem to care about me!

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30 January 2014 (F age 51-59 - Is it Ok to want to be alone all the time? I have a friend (a friendship only) who loves her own company, which us fine, we all do at times.. (she lives alone as do I) but its to the point now where she really geniunely likes being alone, she doesn't hate people s... (663 words

I think my mom is jealous of my girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

30 January 2014 (M age 26-29 - Hi everyone, basically this isn't a big issue, mainly minor but I wanted to ask if anyone had an idea of how to stop it. I've been with my Girlfriend for over a year now and we are both completely in love, since I've been at university, we've just got stronger and mature in our ... (323 words

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