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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel like I'm just a dog following my girlfriend around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys.! Im feeling very lost at the moment and no one to turn to or ask for advice. Anyway I have been dating this girl for about 4 months and everything has been going so good between us from A to Z. its almost like a dream and believe me Im not a daft of dumb guy I can al... (907 words)

Do you think I've been used and he's just playing me along?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So a few weeks ago I met a guy out on a night out, and we hit it off quite well! (he's related to an acquaintance of mine). We kept bumping into eachother on nights out and eventually exchanged numbers. We were on and off texting for a few weeks and he seemed really interested, ... (326 words)

This habit is killing me from the inside!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

20 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - hello .. i am 21 and a virgin... my problem is that though i do gymming and practice yoga at times .. i have a bad habit of masturbating on every alternating days. i don't have any girlfriend . i watch too much of porn and i can't stop myself from watching it. i am like horny ... (95 words)

Does he like me? Should I pursue a friendship or just leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Basically, I met this guy in church along with his sister. He was really friendly, even though I was shy and awkward, and tried to start a conversation. He even introduced one of his friends to me and invited me to the youth church. On the days when I would leave church quite ... (406 words)

Why is he treating her better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex split up last year and stopped talking then I decided to get back in touch with him. WWe were speaking and seein eachother now and again. Nothing had changed it was just like how things used to be when we were a couple. I then kept seeing pictures of him on the ... (195 words)

No birthday gift from him! I'm feeling hurt!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I recently had my birthday and I received nothing from my boyfriend and it really hurt my feelings. A while back he asked me what I wanted for my birthday and I said that I really don't want him to spend his money on me. he said that he would rather spend his money on nob... (418 words)

The 'little black dress' he bought me is too skimpy for my tastes and comfort!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend bought me a "little black dress" for a christmas present. It redefines the word "little". It is a nice gift but it is very skimpy. It has spaghetti straps and is very,very short! He asked me to wear it for a new years party, and to a couple of clubs, and I was ... (112 words)

I don't understand him anymore and I miss our sweet days!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys..... I am really freaking out with the problems in my relationship these days... n I really need some kinds of advice to handle this out. I hope you guys would help. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend since last 4 years. We were friends, or say best of friends ... (578 words)

Is his interest normal and does this make him more likely to cheat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm not sure if this behaivour is normal or not? I am 45 and my partner is 55. we have been together for two and a half years. We are passionately in love but recently cancelled our wedding. The first thing my partner does every morning is download the latest topless mode... (506 words)

Is he interested or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 weeks ago on a Friday night I went out in a nightclub in central London and met a 24 year old banker, who is single and a nice guy. I am 21 years old and go to university about 2 hours away from London. My home is in London (where my parents live), but I live at university. ... (180 words)

Why would a guy ask this question" do you think you are pretty enough for me?"

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would a guy ask this question" do you think you are pretty enough for me?" Please help me understand why the guy I am seeing might ask that? I'm really not sure it came out of no where he texted that to me and I answered as truthfully as I could with how I feel. I'm ... (78 words)

Is it too late for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

20 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Going through the site, I see people talking about sex, relationships like it's some kind of everyday thing. It's pretty difficult not to cry trying to write this out, how is it just happening for everyone else, but for me, I've never dated, had a g/f. But I've tried, I either ... (315 words)

Any tips to look pretty?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - just looking for a bit of advice, I don't wear makeup on a daily basis, i.e just popping the shops ect, I like to give my skin a rest to avoid spots ect. if meeting friends during the day or popping along to the pub I will wear some makeup, a foundation mascara and blush, just ... (283 words)

Epic failure, please help

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 27, still single,never had a g/f, etc... I'm getting fed up lately, every girl I've ever liked is happy with someone else, I feel like I was robbed, feel betrayed, and I'm scared. Plus Dad is just waiting and scheming, slowly has been hinting at the fact "still single by ... (113 words)

My heart is heavy with the thought that the relationship should be ending

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a relationship with a 39 year old man (I am 42). There are a number of things that have not been right since we got together 18 months ago but I am struggling to make a decision as to whether or not to move on as I am not happy. The first issue is he lives over an hour ... (630 words)

I'm afraid my boyfriend with sleep with this woman when he goes to a party!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this girl that my boyfriend has slept with a couple of times. Once when he was with his on again/off again ex - they were off at the time. The second time he was broken up with a different ex (though they did get back together). It was a year later. Anyway, he hasn't ... (158 words)

38weeks pregnant he says hes not in love with me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Im struggling, my heart hurts my head is all over the place. My life has been shattered im 38weeks 4days pregnant with my first child ive gone from being happy nesting for the arrival to scared alone and wondering how im going to cope. He says he loves me as the mother of his ... (74 words)

Hugs, needed? what if a person gets none?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (F) age 41-50 - I have had a life with little affection, ( Not talking sex or romance!!) Have had tiny bit of that yrs ago. Am talking simple human affection, a hug a pat on the shoulder, etc we all need this as humans and while some people arent comfortable with non sexual affection betwee... (300 words)

Would it be unreasonable to say to him that until we start having sex again I won't consider us to be in a romantic relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have not had sex for a while, even though we have had the opportunity. He has not initiated sex for well over six weeks and although I've tried to initiate it myself, it never turns into sex. Sometimes we do literally everything BUT have penetrative sex. ... (211 words)

I expressed my feelings about the relationship and he called me psycho!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

20 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all. I've been in a relationship with a man for the last 7 months. We have had plenty of ups and downs but currently we are in a down trend. I sensed he was pulling away about two weeks ago because he had a lot going on in his life. I offered to give him his space. I ... (873 words)