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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Ex-boyfriend came back into my life, only to disappear again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend recently came back into my life. We were hanging out and talking almost everyday again for about a month. Then suddenly the calls and texts just stopped. I haven't heard form him at all, and I have not called him. I just let it be. We were having fun again, or ... (73 words)

I'd like to learn to not care what people think

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hiii !!! Okay this is my situation right now : I go to an all girls school so I have no idea how to speak or act around boys. I constantly feel as if I'm being observed and whenever I just walk past a guy I get really nervous and my knees go weak. I feel that they are lo... (257 words)

My boyfriend keeps saying he'll propose any day now but never does

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend said he wants to marry me about 3 months ago. I told him I felt the same way. Two months ago he said we should start looking at rings. So we did. We went engagement ring shopping several times, with the understanding that no purchases would be made yet and we would ... (1259 words)

A crush slept with me and used me as a rebound after breaking up with his girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

- So I did a stupid thing the other night and slept with an old co-worker of mine. We stopped working together June 2013 and had talked/hung out very little since then. Well last Sunday night he text me to go out to a bar we use to hang out at. I didn't think anything of it ... (648 words)

My boyfriend's mom wants him all to herself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a 38 year old never married bachelor. His mother is a fairly recent widow (of a year and a half,) and his sister is going through a divorce so she is a very recent single mom. They both seem to expect him to not only fulfill the male role of the househol... (1395 words)

Should I continue seeing this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So I met a guy on this dating site and and we started talking and we exchanged numbers and went on one date- the date actually went great we spend 5 hours talking it felt really comfortable and at first I never took it serious because I thought omg who takes anyone from this ... (473 words)

Little contact from my boyfriend while he's on vacation. Should I be concerned?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a year has been on vacation for a month in another country ( visiting family). I went for ten days but now I've been home for 11 days and he has called me just once. I sent a two messages on FB and he did reply both times but very briefly. Said he "missed me" ... (139 words)

Girlfriend is financially irresponsible

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

21 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf has serious personal finance problems. Even though she makes more than enough to pay her expenses and save, she consistently spends her entire paycheck and sometimes overspends it. She's open to discussion and is often willing to cutback on things we talk about (e.g. di... (172 words)

I caught the man in lies and he finally came clean. No contact for 3 days--should I reach out to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I started talking to this guy, who I met online, 8 months ago. We live two states away from each other and started developing this amazing emotional connection. We did eventually meet and the connection was even stronger. About three months into talking I was struggli... (345 words)

He just can't orgasm through a hand or blow job, why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend takes a very long time (or not at all) to have an orgasm through a hand job or a blow job. It's like he gets so close but just can't seem to tip over the edge. He has guided me, told me what he likes but it is as if he is desensitized and he said his penis can feel ... (173 words)

In a new relationship after a first love, and I'm confused that I don't feel that spark!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

21 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - About 7 months ago I went through terrible breakup with my 'first love/relationship'. About 2 months later I met the girl that is my current girlfriend. We dated for 3 months before making things official (The only thing I regret is having sex with her soo early(like the 3rd ... (393 words)

Are there known relationship phases?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't a problem as such - I'm just wondering about the phases of relationships really. For example, I'm living with my boyfriend of a year and a half. And I've noticed recently - he tells me he loves me twice a day these days whereas beforehand it was maybe every couple of ... (90 words)

I'm confused about this breakup and want to talk to him about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my boyfriend broke up with me as he felt we didn’t click and he said he should be falling for me but he isn’t. He also said he’s not been happy. I am so confused about this break up. Things were great at the beginning of the relationship. We were excited to see e... (528 words)

Why would a guy check out a woman's profile if he wasn't interested in dating her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

21 January 2014 (?) age 51-59 - I wanted to ask why a guy would check out a woman's profile if he wasn't interested in dating her? I went on a date with a guy who was interested in me in the beginning he complimented me constantly and told me how much he liked the way I look, but we never went out again but ... (88 words)

My boyfriend wont let go of my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Please, I need help with this. In the beginning of my relationship I made the treacherous mistake of telling my boyfriend about me giving oral to another guy, as I took it not very seriously and told him lots of details, it really got to him. It's been four months now and h... (287 words)

Should I be friends with this man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

21 January 2014 (?) age 51-59 - My friend and I were talking about a few things recently and we talk about almost everything. I guess he felt comfortable telling me about his past. I talked about my ex-boyfriends and he talked about his ex-girlfriends. He has been telling me how much in love with me he is and ... (343 words)

How can I overcome this resentment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 2 years. My marriage started on a wrong note, because husband treated me awfully; neglecting me, treating me like his slave, demeaning, mental torture,just the treatment that no human being ever deserves. I think he wanted to mark his boundaries and gain ... (160 words)

I hate my life but love my kids!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 41 year old woman married for 22 years now with 2 kids. I have spent 22 years with a man that cannot love,care or give affections. I live a cold and lonely life and spend it fighting with him all the time to acknowledge this. He says he is a good husband and does stuff ... (317 words)

He said, she said, so what should I say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so basically this is what happened my crush called my sister a tramp and he was like I shouldn't be mad but then he went on to say that he don't like people calling him ratchet . I did at some hurtful things to him but he said some rude things as well. I want to talk to him ... (76 words)

Should I continue to reach out to this woman who doesn't appreciate anything I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

21 January 2014 (?) age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I have my own apartment and I am disabled and where I live there are people who are seniors and that are mentally ill. We are aloud to have pets which is nice. But one day I noticed some stray cats outside and I didn't know that they were until another tenant ... (993 words)

My best friend always goes after guys I like!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

21 January 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - My best friend always goes after the guys I like. Knowing this, I try not to tell her who I like. This guy Cruz and I made it obvious that we had a thing. One step from dating. I wasn't sure that I had feelings for him until two weeks ago, during Christmas Break, my friend ... (113 words)