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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

(More questions from January, 2014)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does it turn you on to watch your partner masturbate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

11 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you masturbate in front of your husband? Does it turn him on to watch you play with yourself? Do you like to watch him play with himself?... (30 words)

Why after 1.5 years would my ex care what I am doing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

11 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been split up with me ex for a year and a half without seeing or contacting each other, I have been with my new boyfriend for a year and my ex knows about him. However recently my ex followed me on instagram and added me on snap chat out of the blue. I guess what I want to ... (90 words)

Am I playing with fire being friends with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

11 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex boyfriend recently broke up because we are not compatible. I was pretty mutual but I still have feelings for him. He is not romantic or compassionate enough for me. He found it difficult to support me when my best friend died but he did lovely practical things for ... (132 words)

Big fight with my boyfriend, don't know what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

11 January 2014 (F) age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together about a year and we don't fight often so I'm very sad and confused about this. Yesterday, my friend (who is also my boyfriend's best friend, and he has a crush on me) texted me and said "Your boyfriend is so dumb. He was trying to get me... (366 words)

Found sexual pics of my fiancé and his ex on his computer and not sure what to do or where to go from here....

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

11 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - The other day I was uploading pics on my fiancés laptop and came across a file that had pics of him and his ex having sex and her giving him a blowjob. It was by far the worst thing I ever saw. I am 5 months pregnant too with our first child. There were other pics and videos on ... (291 words)

How to recover from an emotional second date (ending)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

11 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - So I went on two dates with a girl I really like this week. The first went well. The second went well...until the very end. How can I recover (avoid scaring her off)? The Second Date: We went out to see a jazz show at a local bar. The show was great and we had a good time.... (328 words)

She's all I've got, but I need to break up with her anyway

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

11 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I hope any of you can solve my problem. I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. I just wanted to end things with her due to many reasons. But I am just unable to get off my emotional attachment from her.(I am still in a relationship with her). I use to think, s... (253 words)

Self-esteem has gone! Need some help changing myself and regaining it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3756 days ago

11 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I am at my lowest and I need help. I am a 16 year old girl and in about 15 days I will be 17, I have only ever had two serious relationships and the second one was months and months ago. For the last 5 months I haven't even had... (578 words)

I don't know if I was a drunk mistake or a rebound

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

11 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 6 months just broke up with me. I believe he broke up with me for his ex girlfriend, who he had been "on and off" with for 4 years. Although, now she is pregnant with another guy's baby. When we first met he was a bit of an alcoholic. In the time we were... (191 words)

I said goodbye because he's heading into an arranged marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

11 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Just now I deleted and blocked all my bf's account on fb and smart phone IMs. I can't stop crying. We didn't break up officially but we were heading there and this weekend I just let go of the rope where I am clinging on it's end. I have loved him for 4 years and could ... (328 words)

How to protect myself while asserting my rights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

11 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am originally from another country and married my husband at a very young age of 19. I was dependent on him for 8 years and had no skills or job to support myself. After 8 years of marriage I separated and moved back to live with my parents in Pakistan because he moved in ... (344 words)

My B/f has changed so much, I met him now, no way I would go out with him. Is it time to call it a day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

11 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has changed so much since we got together it's like he's a completely different person. We've been together for almost five years and moved in with each other about a year ago. A year into the relationship, he started gaining weight and grew a beard that I don't ... (320 words)

What do you expect from your husband and his side of the family when getting married?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

11 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - This question isn't just directed at women, men feel free to give your thoughts and experiences. What do you expect from your husband and his side of the family when getting married? -- Whilst growing up my parents spoiled me, I would put them in the middle class... (390 words)

I don't know how to handle my boyfriend's abusive behavior anymore!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

11 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid Im with my current bf for almost 4 years, its the longest relationship for both of us. My bf was previously with lots of girls nothing lasted even for 6 months. Coming to my problem, he often becomes abusive, im not even sure whats his trigger. Few days back... (225 words)

He is cheating on me emotionally with his ex what should I do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

11 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am dating a guy from last 7 months. But I have recently discovered he’s been emotionally cheating on me with his ex. He broke up with his ex (as she only dumped her) nearly one year ago. Only after that he started hitting on me but now a days he told me that he was not at all ... (610 words)