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He seemed genuine in his texts but when we met up he only wanted one thing!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

31 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hello, so confused. I've been talking to this guy for about a week, the conversation was going good andhe kept asking if we could meet up normally I dont meet them straight away I l like to talk to them for a couple of weeks first. However he seemed pretty geuine over text and... (239 words

After premature ejaculation with sex workers, I'm worried I wouldn't be able to satisfy a future girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

31 January 2014 (M age 36-40 - I have never been in a romantic relationship with a woman due to the fact that I tend to be painfully she around women in general. I can only attribute this to the fact that I suffer from a learning disability which has greatly impeded my social skills. However, I am not a vi... (159 words

Boyfriend traveling abroad is posting on Facebook but hasn't called me like he promised!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

31 January 2014 (F age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I am writing for help because I have never been so confused in my life. I have been in a relationship with a lovely man for just over a year and we have both said how happy we are together, we get on perfectly, do great things together, share the same interes... (505 words

How do you feel about social media? It seems to cause problems for me.

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31 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - How do you guys feel about social media, especially Facebook? Do you think it's worth it to have one? Has it ever caused any problems for you? I'm asking this because it seems to cause a lot of insecurity within myself and other problems. I am not popular and don't have many ... (273 words

How do I flirt with him?

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31 January 2014 (F age 26-29 - There's a guy I am interested who works at a pizza place I go to now and then that I'm interested in. He is young probably near my age (19). I am quiet and don't usually flirt so I don't know how to put myself out there. How do I go about flirting with him? (Besides be myself ... (60 words

Is the guy I'm dating a sex addict?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

31 January 2014 (F age 36-40 - I am concerned that the guy I met online and I am currently dating is possibly a sex addict! I've ignored some obscenities and red flags but now I am confused!!! I like him very much but I can't help but to be concerned with his preoccupation with sex during the early stages of ... (933 words

Is he really interested or just after a booty call?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

31 January 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hey there, So basically I was at a huge law firm lecture and an ex pupil of my university was there, I've never met him before but he came straight over, introduced himself and started to chat. When we went into the lecture he said to his friend I'm going to sit with (my name... (305 words

Found old love letters in my partner's sex drawer.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

31 January 2014 (F age 36-40 - This morning I discovered old love letters from my partner's ex-girlfriend from over two years ago-- they dated for about 6 months. I don't care about him still having them-- we all keep mementos from the past-- but I discovered them in the "sex drawer" where we keep all the ... (107 words

Can't support my boyfriend through his illness because too many others want to visit him as well!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

31 January 2014 (F age 36-40 - I think more than advice I need to put my thoughts into words. My boyfriend was about to commit suicide three weeks ago. He lives with some friends, and as someone is always in the house his friend was with him, noticed he wasn't doing well, and kept him company. My boyfriend ... (928 words

I want to take some of my family to Disney World, but would rather not invite everyone

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31 January 2014 (? age 30-35 - I'm in the process of planning a trip to Disney World for myself, my husband, and five of my cousin's children. I've budgeted it all out for the 7 of us. The reason I wanted to take this trip is because their father, my cousin, died recently. These children are all half-sib... (265 words

Ashamed I wasted 18 months with someone who puts me down

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

31 January 2014 (F age 41-50 - Yet again my boyfriend of 18 months has ruined another special occasion. Yesterday I left work early and made a real effort to make his birthday special. I bought him lovely gifts, dressed up and booked a table at his favourite restaurant. We were sat in a restaurant and h... (291 words

Am I being paranoid about my boyfriend adding a woman on Facebook?

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31 January 2014 (F age 36-40 - I'm so upset. I noticed that my boyfriend has added a woman on his Facebook page. She lives in another country. There are photos on there of her dressed in revealing clothes. The clothes aren't revealing on all the photos, but she is dressed up on most of them. Underneath one ... (357 words

Was this man just using me?

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31 January 2014 (F age 36-40 - Hi I'd like your opinion. I was going out with my ex from March 2013 to Nov 2013, he called a halt to our relationship after I text him asking what was up and not to shut me out. I was right, there was something up, but he called it all off. In the meantime there were a... (283 words

I'm being judged by my fathers past and his reputation, and men are afraid to approach me. How do I cope with this?

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31 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm not being conceited but I'm only mentioning this so that u get a better idea to what my problem is I'm 24 and I should say I'm just not an average looking girl, I get a lot of compliments from both men and women! I got a lot of offers by modelling agenci... (209 words

My friend has changed. Is he becoming more "manly" through a subconscious need to fit in, or is this the "real him"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

31 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - I'm a little confused and hurt as to why my male friend seems very distant. We have been friends for about 4 years, but became closer after we kept in touch after we finish college. And NO before anyone pipes up I have no feelings for him I have a bf who I've been with just ... (487 words

Having doubts about starting a relationship with this woman. Am I being too sensitive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

31 January 2014 (F age 41-50 - Hello, I have recently met a girl who is very keen on having a relationship with me, it has only been 2 months since we met and I want us to take our time to get to know one another better. She doesn't want to wait and keeps on rushing me. After last night's conversation I a... (175 words

How can I live in a new relationship without being haunted by my past?

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31 January 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hi there :) So, this is the problem: in July my (ex) bf broke up with me, after seven months of relationship. He was my first time, and I really loved him, even though we weren't good with each other. After the break up, I was lonely for a long time, until I met a guy in Dec... (152 words

He is badmouthing me to mutual friends. Should I confront him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

31 January 2014 (F age 41-50 - I had a falling out with a guy friend some months back. I discovered he had feelings for me (I had feelings for him too), things became complicated and our friendship ended on a very sour note. He ended up blocking me on all social networks. I figured that was the end of us ... (244 words

Girlfriend keeps pressuring me to perform oral and I hate it.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

31 January 2014 (M age 26-29 - I don't know how to say all this without coming out like an asshole but please hear me out. My girlfriend keeps pressuring me to go down on her because she goes down on me but I really don't want to. I've tried it before with several girls (including her ONCE) and I've come ... (515 words

Am I overthinking his comment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

31 January 2014 (F age 26-29 - This is the dumbest thing I've ever asked.. But I'm not sure if I should be insulted or think it's sweet... My boyfriend said to me: you may not be perfect but you're perfect for me... I instantly thought "aw how sweet", but should I be insulted or am I over thinking things?... (57 words

Why did he start playing games? How should I respond?

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31 January 2014 (F age 36-40 - I met this guy on tinder and we started talking and hit it off right away... turns out we have tons of mutual friends. He was nothing but reliable and up for texting for hours. I found it nice that he even called me as most guys just text these days. We went on 2 hang out da... (234 words

Should I apologise to the ex for my wrongdoing?

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31 January 2014 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex 7 months ago because we fought too often. We had a brief period of no contact, but eventually he started talking to me again about once a week. We decided to give things another go about 2 weeks ago, but I bought up old issues and we ended up fighting ... (204 words

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