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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi Everyone, I need some advice. Recently, I went to visit my boyfriend at work, and one of this co-workers made it obvious that she likes him. I became frustrated with her giggling and cut my visit short. After I left his job our communication turned to non existent. I asked if he wanted us to breakup, but he said no. However, our communication is still non existence. How do I rekindle the communication between me and my boyfriend?
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (5 August 2014):
As you go through life someone will be interested in your partner from on time or an other. It is up to you on how you handle it.
Just because this co worker is interested in him doesn't mean he is interested in her.
You are the one that made that visit a situation. You are the one that needs to communicate and get things on track.
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reader, PrincessRiches  +, writes (5 August 2014):
 If I were you, I'd visit some more, and see if her behaviour really isn't just a one off. If she's still as obvious around him, and you know its definitely not your imagination, then you need to confront him.
It sounds like this job was the glue holding this relationship together if you'se no longer communicate properly just because you don't work there anymore.
Suggest to him to spend more time together, go on more dates and stuff, and if the communication thing still doesn't improve, it may be time to move on.
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