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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I persist or leave her be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - ThankS for helping me.i have had a crush on a girl in my class and we've been chatting back and forth.she told me the other day that she wouldn't see me anymore since she was dropping the class so I got her number. I texted her and she replied once and I haven't heard back from ... (101 words)

Does sex hurt a lot?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf once told me that girls have a lot of pain while having sex for the first time.is it true? then why is it so? i never had sex. he told that u must be scared of marrying me, and he then told me that it is for just 1st night, other nights will be normal. Please tell me is ... (68 words)

He's ignoring me because he doesn't see any future for our relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello.i m a grl of 18.i met a guy on fb.he is of24.i m an indian nd he is pakistani.we were initially good frnds.we chat daily on fb for hours nd hours.after somedays i came to know dat i love him nd cant live widout him.i was on his addiction.once he himself told me dat he ... (140 words)

Boyfriend said even though marrying and having children with me would muddy his bloodline, he would overlook it!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a 26 year old british asian female, my 31 year old bf is a white american male. We have been together for a few months and recently he expressed a desire to have kids one day in the future. Of course this is great! I would love children with him. however, I also know that... (133 words)

If he's my friend then why does he play these games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a friend that I have known for a long time. We really liked each other when we were younger and then I moved away. Well after a while we started talking again then he stops after a few weeks this has been going on for a afew years. He has said he loved me a few times, he ... (154 words)

I backed off to give us space but he's contacting me again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for 2 months and he can't define the relationship at the moment as he has a lot going on in his life now. In the past week I have been getting a bit clingy and mental. It has been pushing him away. so on wednesday night I decided that we both needed ... (144 words)

Why does it take me a long time to cum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a girl, why does it take me a long time to come? (how long is a long time when talking about cumming?) I have no idea what this is all about because I've only came twice and I never can feel when I do. The only time I actually. Cum is when he's fingering me really fast and ... (128 words)

We haven't had sex in 2 years. My chubby wife says it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (M)

age - Hi, My wife is very overweight and I love her very much. We have not had sex with penetration in almost 2 years. She keeps telling me to be patient but I don't know how much longer I can take it. She says it hurts her as she puts it when I'm bouncing all over her stomach.... (71 words)

I'm gay and I want a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - im openly gay how do i find a girlfriend? i live in lincionshire in england so im finding it really hard to find a gf i really miss having someone to talk to and listen to someones problems. it would really help me to find a girlfriend soon!... (48 words)

It took a lot for us to get together, and now her feelings for me seem to have faded away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

6 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I'm so sorry for making this a long read but I must tell someone. When I was 15 I met a girl on an online game. I had a crush on her but she lived too far away. She on me as well but thought I wouldn't like her like that. Several years later I went to hi... (1541 words)

He says we're broken up but hasn't made any moves

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. We live together and both have children of our own in the relationship. The last month has been rough with a lot of stress and we've talked about it and agreed to make it better. I got upset a few days ago and tried ... (329 words)

A nice girl wants to date me but she doesn't know that I"m gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Theirs this girl at school that really likes me and she is a awesome person. She likes me a whole lot and wants to date me so bad but there's a problem. I'm gay and I'm not interested and I'm DL gay so that's why girls like me because I'm not a obvious gay guy. I haven't told ... (228 words)

My husband is a rug and allows his son and ex to walk all over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age - I have been with my husband for 8 yrs When we first moved in together his son (who is 27yrs old) would treat me very badly, he was very abusive towards me and always used the excuse "Its because of the way last step mother treated me" I have bent over backwards to try and ... (215 words)

Do beautiful women sometimes go out with unattractive guys just because they like the attention?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

6 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I have a cousin who for a few months hooked up with this gorgeous chick. She was a 26 year old model, and he was a 40 year old government worker. He was head over heels for her, and spent money on her, took her places, etc. We in the fam couldn't figure it out. What the... (316 words)

Ex won't let go, won't move out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age - I have wrote on here about advice concerning my ex well now I still need advice he pushed me last weekend and now knows I am in the process of hoping meeting someone else got mad now he has a few things here still and I told him he could have the television in the living ... (464 words)

Am I jealous because my fiance talks about sex, his exs and things he could have done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4326 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my fiance is 22. He went to uni for 3 months before I meet him and has had many sexual partners and situations, whereas I have had 2 sexual partners including him. He has also had many girlfriends whereas I have had 4 boyfriends, only 2 of which were serious, ... (132 words)

My boyfriend got me nothing for Valentine's or Easter. This isn't ok, is it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for two months, so this valentines day was our first one. He got me nothing, all my friends were asking what I got as he should have put in an effort being the first one I felt so stupid telling them he got me nothing. Nows hes gotten me nothing ... (63 words)

My husband sends my daughter to bed so that we can go around the house naked. Is this fair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 31 year old woman and newlywed with a 10 year old daughter from a previous relationship. My new husband insists that a night, my daughter go to her room so we can have private time and likes me to go nude around the house, even if we are just watching a movie. ... (70 words)

Why does my family have a problem with me dating a family friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello this is going to be quote long so bare with me, my uncle grew up with his vest friend from being a todler they are still bestfriends now. So obviously my mum knows him and his mum and dad and visa versa. At my uncles wedding his best friend who he had grown up with was ... (542 words)

Did he find me attractive? Or was he just flirty and friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I went to the theatre to see a show a few nights ago, and i met one of the actors after the show in the bar area in the theatre. He gave me his autograph, and he bought me a drink. I couldn't believe it when he bought me the drink!. I would have bought him one as well, but he ... (311 words)

Do other couples not sleep in the same bed so they can sleep better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I are happy together. We are each other's best friends, we share the same interests and spend the majority of our spare time doing fun things together. We spend more time together than the average couple, definitely. But we've recently d... (361 words)

He's 29 and has NEVER had a girlfriend.. Red Flag??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really unsure about this guy i'm dating. We've been talking for 1 month, only met once (he isn't local to me) but he seems good for me - personality wise and there's an attraction there. The attraction isn't fireworks in my tummy attraction (which I have had with previous ... (218 words)

What can I do about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - not so much of a relationship question, but I get pain 1-2 days after I have sex with my bf. It's hard work because it means I am often bent over double crying and my bf feels awful. It happens quite often and I have had a normal smear test result. :( ... (52 words)

A More Complex Forbidden Love....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I will try to keep this as short as possible... I am a gay female, and I currently work with a girl who is a few years younger than me and has been in a relationship with a male for just over a year (apparently she has broken up with him once before). It was such a strange t... (629 words)

I haven't done this before, what is it you do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. Quick question, please do not judge me. A week ago I hooked up with a guy at a party.I am currently single and going through a dry phase so it was really cool. He also said afterwards he wants to go for drinks with me some time. Now I know the deal and I am not ... (111 words)

Student/Teacher Relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not really sure what I am trying to achieve here, but I am in an emotional bind and have no idea where to turn to let my feelings out. So here goes and I hope a few sympathetic ears are out there to listen to my issues and maybe be able to provide some perspective. I gu... (1230 words)

I'm not nervous about not fitting

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! I've just started a new relationship with a guy, and we've been together about 2 months. However, I've been friends with him for over 2 years, and we've liked each other before about a year ago but it never worked out. I've known his friends for a while, but not clo... (171 words)

Sex is still painful

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity three years ago to my ex boyfriend, since then I have only slept with him and my current boyfriend. The first few times I had sex it was painful but I thought that was because I was new to it and that it would get better. But even now, every time we ha... (254 words)

Why the abrupt change in feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, so i have been seeing a guy for 2 months, everything had been going great! Last week we went out for dinner and he says out the blue " my head is all over the place, let me go to holland and have a long hard think, and when I return i'll see where im at" (eek!!) . He is a ... (163 words)

Staying safe in a taxi?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm not sure if this question should be asked on this site, but I thought I'd try anyway. I am looking for tips/advice as to how to stay safe when travelling in a taxi. I am a 25 year old female and I use taxis a lot, as I have a physical disability which causes mob... (226 words)

My Aunty pays enough, they shouldn't demand more of her, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Should my aunt have to pay any money to her fella? Ok would just like some opinions on this please. My aunt was living with her ex for 8 years. When they split up her ex kept on the rent of the house and they had taken a loan out which was in my aunty’s name so my aunt is... (527 words)

Neighbor wants more than I am willing to give

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey agony aunts! I met this guy a month and a half ago, he lives in my apartment complex. I thought he was very good looking and at first he seemed like a good guy. The first time he started talking to me outside we talked for 2 or 3 hours in the hallway. Than I went into... (749 words)

Should I keep trying to interest this girl? She seems to have been through a lot recently.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

6 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm a 1st year law student and there's this 3rd year student i really like quite a bit. she's graduating in about 2 weeks, but she got a job in this city, so she'll be sticking around. now, she's a pretty strange case: an introvert and i cannot read her. i have sent her a b... (344 words)

In a long term marriage or relationship? Then could you please define love for me? Thanks.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I Don't know if you would define this question as important but it keeps pulling at my mind. I looked up how do you define "LOVE" and most articles I read said things such as "Every time you see that person you get butterflies or goosebumps". But Does all that Last forever,... (108 words)

Are near death experiences real? My friend says she had one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend had a near death experience ,resulting after a car accident. She says ,it changed her life for ever ,and now she knows, there is more to life,and that she saw herself from outside and so on.And I have hard time to believe all this,and it makes me a bad friend. Fi... (94 words)

I'm scared of him now. How do I handle the issues of concern that I have about this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - How happy I was to think that I had finally found love at the age of 40! I have Multiple Sclerosis and he said it didn't matter; I repeatedly tried to push him away but he kept coming back. He is a retired policeman who has PTSD and BiPolar and takes absolutely no meds. He is a... (709 words)

I still love my ex but I'm married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been divorced from my ex for about 9yrs now. We still talk on a regular basis. He now has 2 kids but indicated to me that he would never marry again unless it was me. I recently re-married almost a year ago. I love my husband, but I just realized that I am not in love ... (190 words)

17 years old (almost 18 now) and never been approached by a guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I know that 17 is perhaps a bit too young to be worrying about relationships and men (and I usually don't), but it's come to my attention that not a single guy has ever approached me, at least with any romantic intentions. I'm in my second year of college (yes, college), I have ... (221 words)

Friends with benefits, what do you think?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and a friend of mine have been speaking for a little while and we got onto the question of how fun it would be to have a friends with benefits and before we knew it we were discussing actually going through with it, but i have never done something as spontaneous as this and ... (88 words)

Should I lose my virginity this way?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

6 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I went out with this guy 3 years ago, the relationship ended pretty badly, but we perservered and stayed friends over the years, despite him going out with my best friend and the rest of my friends pretty much hating him. I'm don't have any real feelings for him any more but... (90 words)