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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm 19 and my fiance is 22. He went to uni for 3 months before I meet him and has had many sexual partners and situations, whereas I have had 2 sexual partners including him. He has also had many girlfriends whereas I have had 4 boyfriends, only 2 of which were serious, including him. He often talks about sexual situations he had been in or could have been in. he often talks about his ex girlfriends and what he has done with them. I never talk about exs or sexual partners or situations that haven't involved him. Am I just being jealous and stupid because it upsets me, or is it because I resent the fact he has done so much and I haven't. Is it normal that he does this?
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reader, sammi star +, writes (21 June 2012):
 Everyone has a past and it's not something we can help. What he can help is banging on about it all the time! Tell him how you feel. Explain that you'd rather concentrate on what the two of you have now rather than hearing about the other girls he's been with. You're not being stupid or jealous, he should have a bit more respect without you having to ask!
Failing that, give him a taste of his own medicine and I'm sure he'll soon get the hint!
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