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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do you think, is the answer in this situation?

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1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months before I met my boyfriend, I met this guy at a local gig and we hit it off instantly. He was a really nice guy and he walked me home that night, though nothing happened as he had a girlfriend. We've been friends ever since that night and I've been with my boyfriend ... (284 words)

He tells me he loves me, then he doesn't talk to me, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have known this guy for 10 years we hit off right away. He has trust issues his ex wife cheated on him. I met his family last week he told me he loved me.He stopped talking to me. I am so confused he told my sister he is messed in the head and that I am sweet he does not want ... (88 words)

I have a feeling, not based on anything, that my bf is going to break up with me, what is wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 7months now and I love him to bits and we get on really well, however.. I'm sensing lately that he may brake up with me! I don't know how I'm feeling like this as nothing has happened to suggest he's going to. I feel like I'm going crazy, its all ... (69 words)

Is this an orgasm? If so, how can I get my boyfriend to make me have one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, What I'm going to ask is a little personal. But I'm wondering what really is an orgasim and if I've experienced one? Ive tried to research first to see if I have but I can never find what I've experienced When I'm rubbing my clit, after a while I will get this re... (186 words)

Girl is coming between my male friend and me...and I'm not sure what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I think I've been in love with my best friend for a while and we tried a relationship a few years ago for a couple of weeks but it didn't work. I discussed it with him the other day and he said that I was like his sister, he could tell me everything and he didn't want to ... (266 words)

I'm miserable in my marriage but too exhausted to leave

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1 April 2012 (F)

age - Im so miserable in my marriage, but I feel I have no energy to leave. We both went through together lots of challenges also a recent tragedy. We loved each other, but our life had many unbelievable challenges, and now we both feel burned out. He is a workaholic, not interested ... (221 words)

Why does my boyfriend nag at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to think that it was the woman who always nagged at the man, my mom used to be that way so I promised myself I wouldn't be. I think I'm pretty laid-back and understanding for a girl, but my live-in boyfriend of three years will nag at me for not doing certain chores. ... (304 words)

B/f got angry at me because a guy at the club was touching me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ok need some advise please ppl i went out clubbing the other night with my bf we had not spoke most of the night tbh we were out with friends he was with the boys an i was with the girls me and 1 of the girls went out for a fag and some bloke started chatting me up an feeling ... (167 words)

How can I desensitize myself and not take things so hard?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I need to ask u guys this question as i really need an advice on how to stop reacting or i d say overreacting when things like this happen to me. I know it may sound silly to you, but these things upset me to the point that i become depressed so deeply, understanding in a same ... (912 words)

How can I be pain and flashback free after being abused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 23 years old and Been with my boyfreind for 11 months we first start getting sexual with each other three months in to the relationship which it took a lot off trust and understanding on my bf part because I was sexually abuse when I was younger ( aged 18 to 22) I suffer ... (141 words)

The moment I go to put on a condom, I fall flat. Why?

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1 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a wonderful girlfriend, and I am ready to be intimate with her, but I am having some difficulty. I have no problem getting an erection when we are close, but when I am want to get with her, the moment I go to take it out/put on a condom, it falls flat. I am a virgin, ... (176 words)

Seeing married man on the fly, does he have feelings for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have really good friend who is married , he's been with this girl 10 years , they split up befour annd we were secretly seeing each other for a few weeks . Over the past few weeks we have been kissing at the weekends when we have a drink in us but now we have met up in the ... (87 words)

I told him I was having a bad day and he didn't seem to care.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I have liked this guy for awhile now. I thought he liked me. He texted me out of the blue last night and said something lame to me. So I thought maybe it was his way of trying to start a conversation and contact me. Good signs or so I thought. So I texted back an... (182 words)

He won't commit but is hurt seeing a photo of me with another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i am currently seeing this guy and i like him alot... We have been seeing each other for 3 months, both come out of a long relationship. At the beginning he was great, he couldn't do enough for me... he was great with my two children from my previous relation... (135 words)

Do users eventually get used, or do they just continue to use?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

1 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - okay I was used. Bad. Was a while ago but it still is not a healed wound. I don't think about it because it aggravates me too much. But I was used. Taken advantage of by a woman who pretended to be my friend and then pulled away when I stopped giving her things. Eventually she ... (129 words)

Should I become a bad girl to get his attention?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi i am 16 years old and have never had a boyfriend. I really like this guy but I know he doesn't like me in return and even if he does I don't have the confidence to ask him out. The thing is I am just too nice: i have good manners, i am polite and to be honest don't think I ... (111 words)

After 5 years together my boyfriend suddenly says he doesn't like my body anymore

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago my long term boyfriend told me he didn't like my body anymore. We got together at 16 and are now 21. Of course, when we met my body was still developing, and it's silly to think it wouldn't change over time. I'm still the same clothing size (uk 8/10), but admit... (188 words)

Why does my ex look away from me like she's in emotional pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

1 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I will make it as short as possible. I am baffled as to why my ex (Who is the dumper) constantly looks away in emotional pain. (I rejected her offer of remaining friends, as I just didn't want to feel depressed/suicidal anymore.). Anyways, so, how come she just ... (199 words)

How many times should a couple talk per day?

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1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok weird question ,,, how many times should a couple talk per day ,,, if they've been dating for like 6 years ?,,,, the reason i'm asking is because i don't see my boyfriend quite often because of the different scheduale and we talk like once daily and this conversation goes ... (92 words)

I am not sure if I’m being paranoid or if she is starting to dislike me for some reason.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently at university, next year I am living with a girl lets call her Katie. Well me and Katie used to get on really well and would hang out together most of the time we even went to dance class together. However recently she has been giving me these really lame excuses ... (302 words)

The relationship with my boss has grown strained. Why?

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1 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married and have been working with my married male boss (who is the same age as me) for a few months now. We seem to get along well and he often confides in me about other colleagues, buys me little work-related trinkets and I've even had a "hug". At work I've been ... (259 words)

Do you think it's possible that he is totally over his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - a guy im seeing broke up with his girlfriend of 3 years last christmas, so its only been 3 months but we're getting pretty serious. i broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years last august and im totally over it now, but do you think it is possible for him to be over her and ready ... (115 words)

Rather than growing as a person, I seem to have shrunk! How do I go back to being gregarious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am not sure if any of u can help me with this, but I have seemed to have lost the ability to make close friends. This was not always the case. When I was you get and more carefree i made friends easily. Then I embarked on a serious career where I always felt the need to be ... (337 words)

Has he moved on and is he a womanizer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Mod note: This is two questions put into one. Hi every one. I would be happy if you would answer my question. I'v been in a relationship with a guy. We were both happy. He always tells me how he loves me when we are chatting(sms) but the thing is, my friend got us apart. B... (125 words)

Could his steroid use affect his fertility?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with my partner for 3 years. We have been trying for a baby for over 1 year without succsess, my partner has had a semen test and it has come back that he has high vicosity and low fluid concentration and they have asked for another sample. Has anyone any ... (162 words)

Never been in a relationship, would like to let him know I'm interested

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hi I'm 17 years old. I've never been in a relationship cause i usually freak out when asked on a date. I honestly don't know whats wrong with me.there are quite a number of guys that asked me out but i rejected them. Recently my friend told me this guy from school likes me. I ... (221 words)

Time spent on the computer is interfering with my schooling

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1 April 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 17 years old,, n I am grade 11 student. I want to be Computer Engineer.., I usually spent my time on computer.., incase of this I am not doing good at my education.. n my dad is sad of me.. n wants me to concentrate only on my education.., What do u advice m... (66 words)

Guys: opinions on nose piercings?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What do guys think of girls who have nose piercings? Ones that are small, like the nose rings that are really subtle? Are they a turn off, or do you not mind them?... (33 words)

I'm 36 years old but still not sure whether I am interested in men or women

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1 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I'm already 36 yo but still not sure whether I should commit with a man or woman. When I was a teenager, I had a strong feeling toward girls. However I was also interested in guys. Time went by, my interest in guys has increased while my interest in girls has decrea... (383 words)

Is it weird to be single at my age?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 and have been single now for almost 6 years. I still live at home with my parents and have just a handful of friends. I was recently seeing a guy but that has fizzled out. I worry so much what other people think....is it weird to be single at my age? I feel my life is ... (174 words)

I'm tired of being alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so alone, i sit and watch all my friends be with their partners and i long to be close with someone. I've been single for a couple of years now and i'm tired of being alone. Guess i just need some encouraging words as i'm not sure how to deal with this :(... (58 words)

How do I deal with what happened while we were broken up? I want to move on but am obsessed with thoughts of her with other guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

1 April 2012 (M) age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i had been together for two years, mainly long distance. In the end it got so hard and there was no hope of being able to live in the same city anytime soon so i broke up with her. She was shattered, truly heartbroken. For a few weeks she begged me to... (332 words)

How do I deal with my childish, immature husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I need some advise on how to cope and deal with my childish husband. Ill try keep it brief and give a few examples, Over the past few days we have had to make 2 journeys, 1 on Friday should of took 40 mins but ended up being an hour and half and yesterday the same thing. T... (473 words)

Love him, but can't acccept his lifestyle choices.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello.. Thank you for taking the time to help me. I love a man I have been with for 2 yrs. We have an amazing time together. But.... I cant agree to his choices of illegal activity and trying to make it by selling drugs?... (46 words)

We got into my argument over my husband's drinking and he hit me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I got into am arguement over him drinking and coming home smelling like alcohol, so the other night he informed me that he was drinking a beer while driving home, that did not sit well with me, all I ask os that he not come home smelling like beer, if you want to ... (206 words)

My ex asked me to cheat on my boyfriend with him, I refused and told my boyfriend what my ex had said, and now he thinks I've already cheated on him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together two months. Everything was going great until my ex got incontact through email and was asking me to cheat on my bf with him. i of course said no and told my bf everything that was said thinking i was being honest. He then started actin we... (178 words)

How do I move on from my affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married 25 yrs. I had a 10 yr affair with a married co-worker. I no longer work for the company. He ended it very abruptly about 6 months ago. I did not think I invested so much in the friendship. It has been very difficult to just move on. How do I just let ... (88 words)

I'm flying to meet my LDR fiance in three days and he has said he doesn't love me anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 years old and I've been in a LDR with my german fiance (who's one month older than me) for 1 year and 5 months. We met for 3 times and spent one full week+2 weekends together in total. We were both virgins when we met but that changed. So...in 3 days I'm flying to ... (349 words)

I need help fixing our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in so much pain, my boyfriend and I spent an entire week together, I was on vacation and chose to spend it with him just to see how we would do under that same roof. Anyways we had a great time on Monday and Tuesday night after he got home from work, then Wednesday comes ... (659 words)

I need help to get past a bad sexual experience

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. When I was 15 I had my first experience with sex. It was with a guy that was a few years older than me and took advantage of me. I didn't want what was happening to happen but I couldn't say no because I was scared. When he asked if I was ok when he was done I said ... (148 words)

I am addicted to the bad girls..dark, gorgeous, scandalous, crazy, deceptive, addicted, dirty sex..!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - i am in law school and recovering from a bad relationship with a bad girl. there is a pattern with me and bad girls: they are always dark, gorgeous, scandalous, crazy, deceptive, addicted, dirty sex, you name it. i cannot help it. i have tried to date nice girls, but they just ... (173 words)

I have a crush on this guy but I'm fat! How can I gain more confidence about myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 y/o fat girl and i have a crush, he's really good to me...im really confident when I'm with guys...but they just see me as their friend...and I'm afraid he'd see me like that...i really want him to get more interested in me!...but not much as a friend..i want him to ... (120 words)

Could anyone help me with ideas as to what I can do to show my appreciation for my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i really want to do something nice for my boyfriend. He is wonderful and i appreciate him so i really want to show it by doing something more special than just making him a nice dinner and baking him treats. He does alot for our family and is sole provider now so that i ... (200 words)

Am I crazy or does it sound like he likes me?

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1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy...(I know, girls always start out the question this way), I'm 18 and he's 26. I've known him for a couple of years and just recently thought he might have a thing for me. When I first met him, he was swearing left and right and a friend of mine said she's ... (205 words)

I'm feeling mad right now! My best friend asked me if she could date my ex and I said yes and now they're together. How could she do this to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy (who was sort of a close friend), and I lost my virginity to him in October. Long story short, after it happened I had to go through a lot of stuff and had troubles in my life. And now this guy likes one of my best friends. She asked me if I was okay with it ... (196 words)

Is it normal to worry that your partner will find someone else?

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1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal to always worry that your significant other will find someone else?... (14 words)

I am not sure what I should do!

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1 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined into one: I am currently in a relationship. I have been hurt alot in the past and I don't want to get hurt again. I have told my boyfriend this and he assures me that he will not hurt me. How do I tell him that I don't want to ... (234 words)

I am confused and hurt!

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1 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm so confused and after tonight very agitated! I had a co-worker and what appeared to be a good friend for 3 years. We worked together alot of hours and up until the time that she quit, she would tell me she missed me if she didn't see me for even as little as a week or so. 3 ... (341 words)

After six weeks I asked him the status of our relationship and he backed off!

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1 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I asked this guy the status of our relationship- we've been seeing each other for 6 weeks. He gave me an honest answer that he has too much work atm resulting in lack of free time, his ex is still at the back of his mind and he has family issues so he isnt ready to discuss it ... (105 words)

I'm in love with a guy who's half my age

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I'm a 54 yr old woman, who honestly looks about 35. I'm very blessed. I work out, and have always taken good care of myself. I place a personal ad, and hesistantly, responded to a 27 yr old. He and I have lots in common. We are both college educated in similar fields. And , ... (95 words)

Am I wrong for wanting to work my way up from the friend zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a question that my guy friends have been giving me alot of crap about and I just want to make sure I am doing this right There is the boy that I like He is Vietnamese and very very quiet He doesn't talk or respond to anyone he doesn't know well unless it's the teacher ... (432 words)

Was it wrong that I had sex with my best friend's son? His dad and I are not in a serious relationship and never have been

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex with my best friend's son. His son is near my age and though we have had a past including being intimate, part of me doesn't see it's that wrong but the other part does. His son pursued me for a while, flirted, we went out together to clubs and one night we both ... (147 words)

A different perspective is needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

1 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I wrote in for advice on two seperate issues, when really it should have been one entire story/question. I'm in a committed relationship but I've fallen for a guy I work with and barely know. My relationship is a funtioning mess. I don't love my boyfriend like I ought to which... (387 words)

Was she asking me out? Did I miss my chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

1 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I like this girl. But I don't think she likes me. I am good friends with her so I don't wanna get rejected cuz life in college is gonna be weird because we study the same thing and we are just in first year. When we chat on fb or on texts. She always ends with chat ya later or ... (230 words)

Was she always that person and I just didn't see it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

1 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Last night me and the boys were out and we saw a girl who looked familiar to someone we went to school with. Well, it was confirmed when she smiled and said hi to us. She looked a lot different to how I remember her! I don't want to sound rude but she looked attractive. Don'... (279 words)