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writes:I'm a girl, why does it take me a long time to come? (how long is a long time when talking about cumming?) I have no idea what this is all about because I've only came twice and I never can feel when I do. The only time I actually. Cum is when he's fingering me really fast and then it happens but I just feel a rush the whole time but I dont know when it happens! Is that normal? And at first I thought I peed or something because there was so much of it! Can I have as much info as possible? Because I don't get why I don't cum when we are having sex. It only happens when the movement is fast. I'm lost!
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reader, In.love.with.him +, writes (6 April 2012):
 That's squirting I remember the first time I did it I thought I peed on my boyfriends finger and face now I do it all the time. Try fast sex bounce really fast at the same time he is. Or play with your clit while haveing sex or ask your boyfriend to play with it for you.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 April 2012):
 The average is somewhere between 20-30 minutes of ACTIVE stimulation, breaks in that will make it take longer.
From your description that you need to pee, it sounds like fingering means fingers inside the vagina. That needing to pee sensation is him hitting your g-spot (I'm unclear if you mean you feel like you need to pee or if fluid came out). If you like it, by all means have him keep doing it. It can be a very different and sometimes more intense sensation, and if fluid comes out you've ejaculated and it is not urine.
If you are not orgasming from the needing to pee sensation, g-spot stimulation is not enough for the vast majority of women. Almost all women need external clitoral stimulation to orgasm, not just vaginal stimulation (though it can be a nice addition).
Few women can orgasm from intercourse, around 25% can. So that's why that's not working.
I recommend you masturbate to find out how to have orgasms on your own, then teach your boyfriend how to touch you. It will be impossible for him to know what you like if even you don't know what you like! You should start out by rubbing your clitoris though, rather than going right for penetration. Women's pleasure does not come from vaginal stimulation, the clitoris is the pleasure button.
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