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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I may have unwittingly led her on. How do I let her down gently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

18 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - this is a bit long so pleas bear with me and sorry in advans about my spelling. well im a member of a site for people with diffrent kinds of medcon/lurning diffacultys/disablitys and ressonlty a fellow meber got in touch and we have been chating she has mild artium an a few ot... (183 words)

How can I convince her she misunderstood me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

18 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was talking to a girl I like online (we have been talking for about a week) and she asked me that if she was there would she be a girl I sleep with. I replied with this exact line: "no way you would not be" (notice the lack of comma, it is a double negative) meaning I ... (166 words)

Am I too short?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am only 163cm tall girl but my boy friend is 181cm tall.This is the only reason he always makes fun of me! Please tell me honestly if I am too short to be mocked! I really need to know am i too short? ... (46 words)

My boyfriend is almost too perfect, why the nagging gut feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is perfect. Almost too perfect. He is concerned for me, wants to do things for me, wants to buy things for me. He gives so much of himself to me, in every way. He seems to be everything I've ever wanted. I have many personal issues (psych, family, and a pr... (356 words)

I hate food it makes me sick!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunt and uncles this isn't a relationship question but I really feel so alone and haven't found anyone to help me with this. I hate food it makes me feel sick and I always feel disgusted after I have eaten. I feel so down and repulsed. The feeling of food in my stomach ... (273 words)

Excessive drinking is affecting my boyfriend's sexual performance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have posted several questions about love, sex and relationship on this website and have always received good advice. I have been with my boyfriend for roughly 2 years and everything has been great. There are a few things that I quite dislike, although I agreed that we a... (429 words)

My parents want me to be married at age 18. How can I if I'm a lesbian?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i live with my family and i m only 16,my parents want me to get married wen i will be 18 but i do not want to get married! i have no choice,no where to go! if i leave the house i will have no hope to lead my life but if i get married to a boy i can not help but spoil my life ... (88 words)

Should I give up and try to move as well? or do I wait

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex and i have been broke up for a month and 2 days after being together 17 months. we do have a 9 month old daughter. if you read my last post it talks about everything. but ill try and make this short as possible. i stopped texting him completely then he started texting ... (691 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to love me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and i are together 3 years he is 44 and i am 42. Basically he became good friends with a woman for about a 2 years ago. he helped her settle into our country they were friends and now he is telling me he is in love with her and he cannot deny his feelings for her.... (482 words)

He got another girl pregnant when he and I first started seeing each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically its a long story but I met this guy about 6 months ago now and at first i didnt think anything would happen. But as time passed I gradually fell for him. You could say we've got a "thing" going on. I probably like him much more than he likes me, if he even likes me ... (299 words)

When is it appropriate to kiss a guy I fancy?

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18 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My story is very simple, I was in a relationship with my best friend for 2 years, ended it cuz i couldn't get physical with him...! I always thought of him as my beastie only not bf... Anyway, I am in love with this another guy, totally mad for him... We are not going out, jus... (152 words)

We had a big argument - some perspective is needed

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are having a dispute. It seems to have come down to who is "wrong" and who is "right." Here goes... I asked him if he wanted to spend time together last Sunday. I asked him about a week in advance. He agreed. A few days later he remembered he told his... (530 words)

How do I rekindle a lonely relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I love this guy we've been together for 5 years with 2 babies,the problem is that we don't spend time together and have less talk. i sometimes feel lonely. he have 2 sis and 1 bro to him they are always perfect,i'm always the last person he think of. coming 2 sex i'm afraid... (86 words)

Am I missing obvious signs that she's losing interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

18 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, here goes... I've known my girlfriend since we were kids. She's divorced and has a 5 year old daughter from her previous marriage. Her ex-husband left her when her daughter was just 2 months old, and started seeing another girl. This obviously had a massive effect on her ... (1109 words)

Is it alright for a married person to look up ex-boyfriend or girlfriends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

18 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it OK for a married person to lookup ex boyfriends or ex girlfriends? Our friend has been divorced for about 2 years now, and we're still friends with her since she was our friend before she married the POS loser. Anyway, she has been searching and finding old boyfriends o... (321 words)

Worried that a future partner won't be as financially stable as my ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All. Okay me and my long distant boyfriend of 9 months have just recently split up. The relationship was like a rollercoaster from day one, he would ignore me for days, accuse me of being with other people, act secretive i.e his phone, we split up several times etc. ... (295 words)

This four year relationship has worn me down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with this guy for about four years, we have had our ups and downs. He has always been extremely controlling and I have changed into this person I'm not sure is me. I used to be outgoing, fun, successful, and felt like I had things going for me. Now I just feel dull, ... (268 words)

Why does my mother's voice irritate me so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I love my mother. She's a wonderful person, and I'm glad she's around me, but only when she isn't talking. I hate my mother's voice, every time she opens her mouth and I hear her speak, I get this almost uncontrollable urge to hurt her. I've tried to explain it to her but she ... (393 words)

After years of little contact my father is giving gifts. I'm unsure how to react/feel about this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My father and i havent spoken properly for years we occasionally pase in the street if he is in the area and say hello and only keep in touch by letter. This is because he was an alcoholic and was physically abusive towards me and my mum throughout my childhood. So i dont feel ... (140 words)

Is it fair that my family smoke around me when I'm pregnant?!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid aunts im 22. and pregnant. And have moved back.in with my parents because the babys dad left and as i was living.with him in a rented house i now cant afford the rent on a single wage. I love my parents and am grateful for all.they havedone for me but im really ... (161 words)

Is he with someone else or just busy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - He only reaches out to me when I contact him first and sometimes does not even reply to me. We have been had sex a few times each time he cuddles me ask me about things but then disappears. He canceled last night @ the last min and now I am thinking he is with someone else. ... (83 words)

Do I believe what this married man is telling me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i met this married man at a night club 3 weeks ago he called me first thing the next morning and has texd and phoned every day until last week when we met up ,i texd him yesterday and asked him if we re finished he said no im just busy at work ,?? never texd me again since, he ... (91 words)

If I get married and stay in my boyfriend's country will I always feel lonely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in desperate need for advise! I have been in a relationship for about 4 years with my boyfriend. We have had some major ups and downs but always seem to come back together. The major issue with our relationship is we are from differant countries. I have given up so ... (283 words)

How do I cope with cheating ex seeing our son and him bringing the woman he cheated on me with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: Poster wants advice from women in the UK Just after some advice off women in the uk please. I am in court has my ex wants access to our little boy. I have never denied him access and I have always tried to get him to see our son but he has always been full of excuses ... (418 words)

I'm 23 weeks pregnant and he keeps leaving and coming back. why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 1/2 years we have a son and a daughter on the way. Everything started out good we never fought. Things were said later on and I found things and started getting to where I was afraid to trust him I know that's not good. I do trust him now ... (182 words)

Is my boyfriend watching "normal" porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a year watches porn. I have often asked what king of porn he likes. I found out on his computer last night that he has been watching porn that involves young supposed high school girls with their teacher? I am so confused is this normal it does not seem like ... (61 words)

My wife says that I need to chose either her or my family!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 6 years. She has 3 children from a previous marriage. I love them dearly. My wife thinks that my family hasnt shown them love. I will say my mom has told the kids that she would do things with them and it has never happened for various ... (166 words)

How do I liven things up between us? Despite him rejecting my advances regularly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years. We were always very passionate and affectionate. A couple months ago, he began to act less and less, however. I realize that this can happen as a relationship progresses, but physical affection and sexual desire are impo... (285 words)

Did he over-react? Was he trying to guilt-trip me? He's 28

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this fella January this year, we went on a few dates, got "officially" together mid February time. Now, at times, he would become irritated if I would spend time with my brother and friends rather than with him, despite the fact that I saw him almost every day. As time... (422 words)

I want to let him know I'm interested. But not scare him off. Any tips please on how to do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been out of the dating game for a while, but I may be willing to re-enter it. I'm getting really confused by the signals a guy I'm kind of interested in is sending, though. On the positive side, he just ended up buying a webcam purely on a "dare" from me (I was messing ... (261 words)

How do I dispell the untrue rumours that I was unfaithful? Should I go to the prom anyway?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What can I do? My BF and I have been together 2 and 1/2 years. We are now seniors in high school. Our relationship has been very good but had decided to go our separate ways once we went away to college because we both know we need to meet other people and grow as individu... (303 words)

Is there a place in her heart for me? I love her but I think she wants to go back to her abusive guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i'm bisexual people. Yesterday i realized that i was in love with her, after she found out that her boyfriend had been cheating on her. Now i've met her online, but i feel a connection like no other when i talk to her. I was scared for her, because of what her bf did. ... (95 words)

Should we swing with our friends?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

18 April 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - A few months ago I asked for advice about me and my wife having a 3some with my best friend.The opinion was that it was a no no,so me and my wife shelved it and decided that if we do try it we will book a hotel and a pro male escort to 'test the water'. We are going away for... (383 words)

Should I give my B/f a chance and help improve himself or leave him as a 'lost cause'? Is bullying during his childhood a reason or excuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am at my wits end with my boyfriend at the moment. We have been together for just over a year and we get on well. We have met each other's family but he has problems with my side. He didn't greet my Mum when he came round until I told him to do so. I felt disrespected and... (274 words)

Can you love someone but miss someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Just like some thoughts on this,can a person be in love someone, yet be missing someone else?I find it hard to believe that you can but?????... (27 words)

Is it wrong to want to have safe-sex with as many beautiful people as possible?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

18 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to want to have safe-sex with as many beautiful people as possible? Some background info before the women on here start calling me a 'player' etc.... I'm 23 years old and was a virgin up until last year. For most of my life, women never went for me - and if... (581 words)

Should I be worried by the texts I have read? What should I say to him? Is he scared of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I've been with my boyfriend for about 9 months now. At the beginning he was a bit of a commitment-phobe but after a few months he said that he wanted to commit to me. Everything has been going well, he's mentioned our future together (moving in etc) and I can honest... (298 words)

Why is my partner keeping all his friends at arms length from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just wanted some thoughts on how you would feel if you were in my shoes. My partner acts quite strange, we seem happy and he tells me he loves me all the time. So, I was away for a while and when I got back I was busy with work. I told my partner I was going to pop in o... (203 words)

Why can't she believe me? I'm faithful. How do I win her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has some big issues trusting me. Every time she is not in town and we can't meet we always fight about how i do something bad. Last time she left for 3 days. Now we are broken up because of this 3 days. I was out with 2 of my best friends (one male,one female) ... (267 words)

I am having a really hard time adjustting to Americans.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

18 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so I know this is going to upset a few people and I am sorry but I really need some advice. So 4 months ago I was transferred from my office in Melbourne Australia to New York. I didn't really have a choice my work moved my role here so if I didnt take it I would have los... (218 words)

Am I too hard on my Bf? I don't think he cares enough. And I'm critical, but he is not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in my current relationship for a year next month. My boyfriend goes to a place(two hours away). And there are times when we only see each other 3 times a month. For one he doesn't exactly have any money at the moment and at times I don't feel like he cares. I h... (433 words)

Three Months and this crush is the hardest game I've ever played. Why does he ignore me so often?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been carrying on a from what seems on the outside a professional relationship with a man I know from college (not a Professor, in another capacity). Yet, I know deep inside it is more than that. The long gazes he gives me that are too intense that I need to turn awa... (845 words)

Do impersonal sex and lack of intimacy cause depression?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So about 2 years ago i became the roommate of a now 29 year old woman who is beautiful by all accounts. Men are constantly flocking to her. She is charming too, very magnetic personality. Except she has never had a real boyfriend. Why? She prefers casual relationships and sugar ... (256 words)

Is it a good sign that he smiled at me at school? or is it more like her overheard my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, guys. I have a question So I like this dude and the other day I think he heard my friend and I talking about him (Well not about him but the conversation referred to him) We were in the computer lab and we all sat in the same row and he wasn't that far away. We spe... (207 words)

How is it possible to find out the cause of my husband's impotence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age - How is it possible to find out the cause, of my husband's impotence? He is unable to maintain an erection, and he says due to this he lost his sexual desire. So now, he has erectile dysfunction, and total loss of sexual desire at the last few years. He had extensive medical ... (196 words)

Could this relationship be real-and if it is, could it be possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay here's the deal. I am fairly openly bi, have only specifically told about 5 people but in general I don't care what people say and think about me and I think most people have guessed because of various reasons--mainly, my inability to keep my mouth shut about gay righ... (1228 words)

Guys what do you do to try show her you like her ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4391 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What are the signs a boy likes you? Guys what do you do to try show her you like her ?... (21 words)

Is there anything I can do to improve things? My friends think I'm funny. My Bf doesn't seem impressed the same way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, this is just a quick question. my boyfriend doesn't find anything i say funny, and its starting to annyoy me. my friends all find me really funny, they say it is one of my best qualities but my bf can't see it. is there anything that i can do about it? is there a reas... (67 words)

How do I develop a list of the good and bad things about my friend without alienating my friend, and not a soppy list either?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to write a list of good and bad things about my best friend. We're both 18 and I want to show them the good points, but there are a couple of things that need to be improved and I don't want them to feel under attack because they tend to get defensive for no reason, but ... (112 words)