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writes:ThankS for helping me.i have had a crush on a girl in my class and we've been chatting back and forth.she told me the other day that she wouldn't see me anymore since she was dropping the class so I got her number. I texted her and she replied once and I haven't heard back from her since.i know alot of guys overestimate a girls interest in him (lol) but I really thought she liked me. Anyway, I planned on calling her and asking her on a date directly to skip the texting. Should I persist or leave her be? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk i will do. Thank u for ur help. Im going to call her Thursday. Five. Stars for ur help
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reader, answerfromtheheart +, writes (7 April 2012):
 Absolutely persist. She may be an old fashioned girl who is waiting for you to pursue her. Skip the texting, call her and invite her out. Do it in advance, because if you call her on friday for a Saturday night date, don't expect her to accept. Girls have plans, so if you want to see her make sure you do it earlier in the week. It's just a polite thing to do.
If however after 3 times of inviting her she refuses with some excuse or another, let it go. You gave it a chance, she missed out, so go to the next.
The fact that she told you that she wouldn't be seeing you is a very strong hint already that she is interested in you. It's like "please take my number" without actually asking you to take it. It's a great sign. So don't stress it. Definitely go for it.
You are young, but you have to remember to never be afraid of being turned down, Don't let a worry of a hurt ego ruin your chances of finding a girl who will equally like you back. If she turns you down just remember that she is not for you and thank her for not wasting your time and money.
Good luck.
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