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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do men get in relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question for men. Why do you get in relationships? I'm not just talking about the companionship aspect. A lot of women seem to ask questions about porn and or strip clubs and their boyfriends/husbands using or going to them. Some women, the ones that I know anyway, ... (149 words)

My best friend's boyfriend is being ambiguous with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know what is happening with my friend's boyfriend, two years ago there was a snow storm and he happened to be stranded in my city, although he lives and works in another one, so I had to put him up for the night. It was weird because he kissed me good night in a strange ... (291 words)

Is he politely saying no to my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear lovely aunts. I am sooo in love with a guy I have known as a class-mate/friend for 4years. Recently, I realise we are flirting a lot more..I guess because I am kinda hitting on him. By nature he is a lot more flirtatious.Now this is the issue:Last night I dreamt of him; we ... (336 words)

I'm stressing out from taking care of my family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, i have to look after my mum because she's got a lung disease and my sister because she has cerebal palsy and at the minute its all getting too much for me and i feel like i cant do it anymore. Everything my mum asks me to do i snap at and it stresses her out which ... (99 words)

Girfriend has not orgasmed, am I doing something wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

22 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have had sex with my gf three times and fingered her millions of times but not once has she orgasim ,should i do it longer ? My gf said her playing with my penis turns her on, is this a good thing ?... (45 words)

I think he's a cross-dresser, I'm okay with that but how do I discuss it with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My Boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 yrs now . I discovered about 1 yr ago that he is a crossdresser , I'm almost sure he knows that I know and I think he is feeling guilty about this , I'm ok with him doing this and want him to be comfortable about expermenting , ... (105 words)

Do you think he can guess from what I told him that the boy I like is him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and this boy have been close for nearly two years the other day e told me he like two girls and he named them but over te two years ive known him I think I have fallen for him! So when he told me he like these two girls he asked who I like so I left him with I can't say ... (111 words)

I feel like I lost a friend for the wrong reason! Is it my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello guys I hope you all are doing well As for me I could be doing better I had just official lost a friend today In my eyes, it was for no good reason So my question is Did I handle this situation the right way. I felt I could have handled it a little better but im not... (466 words)

What ways can a girl lie about her virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

22 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello to all, I'm new member in this site and i think it's very helpful and useful. I got a question, in which ways can a girl lie to her bf for her virginity.( i'm male, just asking 'cuz i'm curious)Thank you.... (42 words)

What is your opinion on a 25 year age gap ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it too much ? Because for the past 2 years i have been really attracted to someone who is 25 years older . I am not looking for 'the father figure' or he isn't looking for 'sex' . But would it be stupid for us to try and date? Is the gap just too big in this case ?... (60 words)

I feel jealous that my partner pays so much attention to our attractive friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very embarrassed to ask for advice over this, because I hate to admit to being jealous. This is about my boyfriend of 4 and a half years and my friend. I think he has actual feelings for her. Me and my boyfriend moved to a new area 3 years ago and met a fab couple. ... (643 words)

I think he needs to accept that he did something while drunk, how do I discuss it with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I kinda had a small bump with my boyfriend. We did not see each other this weekend which is fine I made this choice, but I called him last night to talk to him for a bit before I went to bed and he was drunk. He was playing a world wide online video game and told me that he was ... (482 words)

I found out my wife had an affair. 20 years of my marriage have been a lie

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

22 April 2012 (M)

age - Hi I need help I have been married 33 years and have just found out that the last 20 years have been a lie. 20 years ago she entered an affair whilst I was serving in the Army we had been married 11 years and have two children. I went to war and have just recently been told ... (373 words)

We live together and b/f is making out a schedule of what times to spend together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 10 months now and i just dont feel happy around him. he has been acting totally different but i dont know if its just a phase or if its permanent. he does so many things that makes it seem that he just doesnt care. like ive... (437 words)

What are the confidentiality rules in U.K. schools?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've just found out I'm pregnant! I'm 16 and I'm really happy because I was trying for a baby. My form tutor at school has somehow figured it out and keeps asking if I'm pregnant. I'm reluctant to tell her because I dont want the information getting around just yet as I'm only ... (339 words)

Why did my fiance's cousin act so disrespectful in front of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (M)

age - Yesterday me and my fiance went to a gathering with her family members. While there I was introduced to one of her cousins who looked at my fiance like he had not seen her in a while. He shook my hand and looked back at her and asked me if I minded him grabbing her butt. I of ... (171 words)

Does it sound as if my ex-boyfriend could be the motive behind this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been almost a year since the break-up between my ex and I, and we haven't spoken to each other since. Well, when I decided to check my Facebook page I noticed that I had a new friend request. So I simply clicked to find out who it was, and it happened to be my ex's 13 year ... (281 words)

Can I get past someone's looks and fall for them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - after a not so great relationship for four years i am now dating. i have met nice man but in truth he does nothin for me! he is very.sweet kind etc and i no he feels a great deal for me. i no i sound shallow but im wonderng can u get past someon e's looks? can u fall for the ... (99 words)

Why is my husband being so secretive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together for 15 years. We have had our share of issues, as any other relationship, but nothing so serious we would consider separating. Recently, due to his work he had to move to another city while I stayed and continued my job in our original... (248 words)

I know my man is going to meet this woman tomorrow. I am going to confront them

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age - The man I have loved for the past 10 years is once again cheating on me. I confronted him and his lover last year , funny enough about the same time of year. Since he has promised not to see her or meet her. Last weekend I picked up his answerphone messages. It wa... (451 words)

Why is this lesbian flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - im a lesbian in a relation ship of 5 yrs,and im flirting with another lesbian in a 11yr relation ship she doesnt love her partner and says she wont leave her they dont have sex anymore so why is she flirting with me? ... (43 words)

What is the right thing to do? I need help with my feelings for this man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm going crazy here please help I'm 38 I have 3 children and have met a really lovely man who I've been talking to for months he is a security guard at a club I go to and we talk quite a bit. He has full custody of his two children but also has a girlfriend he has been with ... (1114 words)

I don't feel confident! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Yesterday me and what I may now term my 'girlfriend' had our really first intimate encounter. We've kissed three times prior to yesterday, each encounter being more intense than the last. We chatted a week ago that maybe our kissing was too heavy, then we ended up in the ... (304 words)

My wife doesn't enjoy sex, and I feel myself wanting other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello there, I have a big problem. I have been married for almost 5 years already and I find myself so nice to my wife. I work far away from my family im a sailor and I only get to see my family 2 to 3 months and of course once I am home I want to be sweet to my wife. The ... (151 words)

I want my boyfriend to finger me without me having to ask!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just wondering how to get my boyfriend to finger me before sex without me flat out saying it, like any sexy ways. Thanks!... (24 words)

Partner says our relationship is too perfect so he'll start arguments with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there me and my partner don't always argue but when we do its not really a necessary argument..like we will be taking one moment then he will just start arguing about the most stupidest stuff ever and it sucks and then he doesn't talk to me for like a few days..I don't know ... (164 words)

I want to meet older women

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

22 April 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Im not quite sure how to structure this but here goes. I have an attraction to older women sort of 27 to 35 kind of age. And i want to explore this but im not quite sure how or even if it is a good idea. Where can i go too meet older women? Am i wrong for wanting to d... (99 words)

What do I do? He tells me he only loves me 50% ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hy people my boyfriend told me one thing i never expected to hear from him we've been together for about 1 and a half year,he told me that he luves me only 50% and other percentages he have to give them to his family because im not special.I love him so much and he really hurt ... (80 words)

If he's not interested then why did he text me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So im an 18year old, and haven't been in any relationships. Not a single bf, not cause im not a attractive, but im waiting for that challenging guy that blows off my mind. Two weeks a go 3 weeks ago i went to this library with my friend and saw this cute guy, i went up to him ... (590 words)

My husband loves teen porn

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been married to my husband for 4 years. His a really good guy but looks at porn every day. The main issue is that it's teen porn. The girls in these sites look too young. In worried that it's a problem, especially since its everyday and always teens. He types in ... (100 words)

What if I love her as more than best friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15, a lesbian, and one of my best friends in this entire world just turned 19, and is also a lesbian. We are very, very great friends, and are pretty affectionate with one another, as in we cuddle on the couch, kiss each other on the cheek, etc., but it doesn't go beyond ... (359 words)

My boyfriend cheated with over 26 women, how do I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I need advice on how to stop thinking about my horrible ex boyfriend and moving on with my life. I cant sleep I can barely eat I'm so hurt but anyway here's the story. We were together for three years, high school sweethearts and very close friends also.I never been ... (410 words)

What does "you looked fine" tonight mean when a guy says it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What does a guy mean when he says "you were looking quite fine to me last night" ? Like where does it rate know the scale it of cute and pretty and all that. ? and why would a guy say that rather then just say cute or pretty or hot whatever. So guys what is the meaning behind ... (65 words)

I am getting mixed signals from someone I'm interested in.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - It is a person I used to work with. We got along fine at work, we would chat comfortably amongst each other. I asked her out a few times, I tried to be really casual about it. The first time I asked, we talked about what we were going to do on Friday, I said that I was going... (388 words)

I want a baby even though I'm in no position to have one!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya! I am mum to a gorgeous little girl, who is due to turn 5 on Tuesday. The problem is, ever since she was two, I have been broody. And it has been getting worse and worse, to the point where it actually hurts sometimes. I am not in the right position to have another b... (91 words)

I don't want to spend every moment telling b/f that I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started seeing this guy I met on the internet a few weeks ago. He is 20 and I am 21. I have always dated guys who are older than me because I have always just been attracted to someone who is more mature. But I decided to give this a try because I started thinking maybe ... (416 words)

He distant, is our relationship ending?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I'm losing my boyfriend :( We've been together 2 years, and I'm going away for college in 2 months, so we'll be in an LDR. He's been distant the past week, (even forgetting our 2 year anniversary) and I just get this vibe that it's a start to us possibly not maki... (107 words)

I think I'm in love with his brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex broke up about 6 months ago when we were in a relationship he had cheated on me 3 times maybe more! We was living together so when it ended I moved out I had no where to go so I stayed at his mothers for a bit,I was happy their until I realised I had feelings for ... (202 words)

Is it ethical to cut down contact from my mom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it ethical to cut down contact from my mom? I know that sounds like such a harsh question and probably think I'm a horrible daughter, but I can't take the stress from her!!! Whenever I see her number on called id my heart drops in my chest, and I do answer because its my m... (577 words)

I feel lost...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 8 years has just broke up with me, its really hard because he still calls me asking for money and wants to sleep with me, he said we can still be with each other but not be in a relationship. I don't know what to do, as he was my only friend, I feel lost. ... (58 words)

I'm female and keep having desires for women! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I am 27 years old and have always had boyfriends. However, over the years I have been very curious about what it would be like to sleep with a woman. I dismissed it for a long time as literally just curiosity, however lately I find myself fantasizing about touching and making ... (268 words)

Am I being overly sensitive because he wants to go to a strip club with his friends?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years, i'm 48 he's 50.... we have a good relationship now, but it's been up and down over the years. I work hard staying in shape, looking good and pleasing him sexually. The other night he brought up that he might want to go with the other ... (137 words)

I'm afraid my b/f is trying to remain attractive to other girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Sorry this is long- but I really want to give you a clear picture of teh situation so you can help me! My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 8 months now and I have fallen in love with him. He tells me he loves me too and I feel like he means it! When w... (699 words)

Why is my man always staring at this woman?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

22 April 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - the story is i am with a man LDR but soon will be moving in with him, been with him nearly 3 years and we are loyal and honest and keep in touch and see each other the best we can, cause its getting too much for us thats why we have decided to move intogether which i cant wait ... (747 words)