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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I wrong to think if a relationship has never made you happy your wasting your time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F)

- i think that id rather end up happy on my own with great friends and a full life then become so obsessed with marriage and finding Mr Right il end up with some 1 i dont really love just 4 the sake of it. im more than open to a relationship but with the right guy i want to be... (150 words)

It is like we are brother and sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - Why can't I get sexually excited about the girl I fancy so much? I'm crazy about this girl I have known for years. I can't describe the attraction that I have/ we have. It's like we are brother and sister or something. I think about her all the team and idolise her. She feel... (149 words)

Is there a way that I can say it is a no go with him, and still work with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I am working a really neat volunteer job which involves politics which I am interested in. I am working closely with a married man who is extremely attractive to me but I have nipped it in the bud He has a wife and I care about her feelings and I know that I would be sloppy ... (180 words)

My boyfriend is overly jealous

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Hi every1. I'm really upset. My boyfriend is the only one for me yet he thinks I'm going to cheat. He says when lads talk to me I flirt back and act like I'm with them but this isn't the case! I'm just being polite! An example: A couple of weeks ago I was talking to a male ... (326 words)

Why does he keep blowing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. He's very much in love with me and I am with him. The problem is he is always making plans with me then "forgeting about them," or never calls me to let me know he's going out with his friends instead. They are never real ... (91 words)

does this mean he fancies me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - hi, i fancy this boy at my scout club thingy ~(its a club for girls and boys). he is new and doesnt really know anyone, at the club we play games like badminton and we have to pick a partner. i have never talked to him before but want to soon! there is only me and one other gi... (102 words)

I feel like he's just bored with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Is he just too afraid to break up with me? I have been with my man for 4 years we have two kids togather and one from a previous relationship of mine. I feel really neglected and have spoken to him about this on numerous occasions over the past two years.He keeps telling me ... (185 words)

What should i do if i see a cute guy and I dont know what to say

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Hi im 15 years old and i never had boyfriend in all the those years of living. i dont know what to do but i need help!!! its sad that i never had someone to care for besides my family. but on the other hand i want to have is somebody i can tell all my secrets beside a friend ... (161 words)

Would a secret wedding be a bad idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My bf and I don't get on very well with our families, or eachothers' families. We want to get married but we don't want all the hassle as we know that inviting them will cause tension. Would a secret wedding be a bad idea?... (44 words)

I hate college and want to go back to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I've started college after a 2 month relationship with my bf through the holidays, and things are really difficult. I hate college so much that I would walk right out of that door if i didn't know that I wouldn't be able to get a job without these qualifications. But it's so ... (132 words)

He says he loves me but he's flirting with other girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My bf is really confusing. One minute he's sending me e-mails telling my that he's so incredibly lonely when I'm not there with him, and not being able to see/hear/touch/kiss me drives him nuts, and the next he's flirting with other girls right infront of me, and blowing me off ... (66 words)

How can I help my bf deal with his problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My bf believes in keeping his problems to himself, but I know he's really unhappy because he keeps drinking and smoking more heavily and he's acting different. How can I help him? He has no job and he's annoyed because I've started college so our relationship is having to ... (108 words)

I have some long term relationship questions ...opinions and thoughts wanted!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I just have a few long-term relationship questions that I can't ask anyone I know because they don't seem to know themselves. Answers from happily married women would be most useful. When you start a relationship with the person you're going to marrry do you know it will be ... (137 words)

I want to find out if my bf wants to marry without having him think I'm forcing him to! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend was divorced before I met him. He was very young at that time and got married after his little girl was born. He's a very responsible guy now and before, but only a little on the conservative side. His wife left him because she soon found out the fun of partying ... (331 words)

He means the world to me but I miss the single life! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My relationship with my guy is really wonderful, he makes me so happy. However, i have a lot of issues and i'm not sure how to deal with them and whether it's fair on him to be in a relationship with me while i'm like this. I'm a really neurotic insecure person. This post will ... (394 words)

Fallen for one of my best friends! I 'm afraid to ask her out as it may hurt our friendship. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - hi im a 13 yr old male and i've fallen in love with one of my best frends that i,ve known for 2 years and im afraid that if i ask her out and she sais no that it will harm our relationship and of our frends... (47 words)

Her mindgames are so bad, I stopped calling her! Do I leave it as is or do I call her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - ladies please help me i was with my girlfriend for about a year then she broke up with me after about 2 months of no talking she called me one morning and we went out 4 drinks slept together. We were together every night 4 about a week doing gf and bf things but that all stoped ... (249 words)

He's helped me with the baby...now he wants to move and live his life! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Hello all, i really need some advice, my other half and i have been together for 2 years i was 2 months pregnant when we met and he took both me and the baby on, we had loads of problems with him accepting the baby but now they are 2 peas in a pod, we moved away from our home ... (154 words)

There is no spark anymore! Should I stay with this guy...or just leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - what should i do? i have bin with my boyfreind for 4 and a half years and we have always done the same thing and its got to the stage i dont know if i wnat to be with him we dont go out or do things together i love him but im not in love with him well i dont think i am as th... (103 words)

My parents treated me badly as a kid and now my husband is doing the same! What is it about me that makes this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - i am tired of listening the preach from my parents, they did this since i am 8 years old.all king of bad words i heard from them like i am a mother fucker, i am useless that they are just waisting their time and money feeding me, all of this word make a chalenge on me when i ... (274 words)

He hid his drinking from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - When my bf and I started dating we were both active in the mormon church. One of the things they believe in is not drinking. I found out months into dating that he drank alot in high school and after hs. Then served a mission for 2 years, and when he came back got back into ... (264 words)

8 yr relationship, a kid, and now he is drinking doing drugs and not coming home

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for around 8 years and have a 6 year old daughter together, and we live together. The problem is, that this man often goes off on drinking binges and ends up sleeping at other people's houses. He smokes cannabis and disappears for hours on ... (174 words)

I called the wedding off, should I wait to find out if he will still marry me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - MY CLOCK IS TICKING.... Ok, I am almost 30 and my bf is only 25. We have been dating for almost 2.5 years. We did have a date to get married a year and a half into dating but we went about it all wrong. We started planning the day and telling our families BEFORE he even pro... (162 words)

I'm just missing him so so much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend has gone away with work He will be gone for a month. I text him everyday and sometimes talk to him on the phone but im so over emotional. I feel so sad and upset. I just want to cry. I know he is coming back and I shouldnt be so silly but im just missing him so s... (111 words)

This condition pushes me to masturbate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - Hello, I am 26 years old and single and because of my job sometimes I dont have a girlfriend so this condition pushes me to masturbate 4 or 5 times aweek ...what Can I do ? because i dont like to do it too much ! and I think it is time for me to find my partner.... (58 words)

What makes someone withhold their number and then hang up on you!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I’ve broken up with my boyfriend of a few months and I’m sure that he is the person whose been blocking his phone number and when I pick up the phone the person doesn’t say anything. I know he’s harmless but what makes a person do such a thing? He’s harmless and not a stalker ... (87 words)

I have cheated before, we are engaged together 3 years, but think im falling for someone at work!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I have been going out with my current boyfriend for nearly three years and we are now engaged, I am only 18 and I have cheated before but totally regretted it. I have been working in my current job for just over and now I think I am starting to fall for someone I work with, he ... (97 words)

I found out she had group sex with men and women, not worried she will cheat, just finding hard to deal with it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - I have recently begun going out with a girl whom I have known as a friend of friends for about five years. After we have been seeing each other about a month we got talking about our relationship histories and she told me that, in addition to her having a history of drugs and ... (308 words)

Met this great guy and things great when im with him, but I still think about the ex and how I wanted it to be! How can I move on and stop hurting ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Hello all,I'm a 24 years old female and I've posted before.My situation is that a few months ago my boyfriend who's 17 years older than I am broke up with me because he thinks that the age difference would be a problem.I loved him with all of my heart but I was given advice ... (659 words)

Was his reply just a fobb off, or is he genuinely interested ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I met a really great guy at a wedding. We had a great time all evening, talking, dancing and flirting and ended up sharing a bed. In the morning there was no akwardness, he kissed me pretty intensely before I went back to my room to get changed after we woke up. It was all ... (181 words)

The 3 rules for liars... Anyone remember the original post ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F)

- Hi I read on this site a while ago about the '3 rules for liars'. It was something like lying once could be a mistake, lying twice ........, lying 3 times means a problem. I cant remember it and it seemed like a really good maxim to remember. I now find myself wanting t... (89 words)

My ex wants to see me as a friend, but he wont accept we are over, is it possible to be friends in this case ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

20 September 2006 (F)

- I ended a relationship with my lover because i felt it wasn't going anywhere and i told him that.We couldn't agree to compromise so i walked away.Trouble is my ex will not accept this and says he misses me alot.He wants us to remain friends and just see each once a week for a ... (102 words)

I have a lover at Uni, another at work, and one from the net, I like them all but one has asked me to marry him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Hello, I am a confused girl about men. I cant decide who to stay with. my problem is I like men, and I like more than one. I loved one before for nearly 5 years. never cheated on him, he then left me to marry someone else. after him, I met nearly 3 men, one from university,... (209 words)

My paronia is totally ruining my relationship Please please help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - my paranoia over my fiance's ex wife and lover is ruining the best relationship ive ever had. He works in a hospital with 600 nurses which i couldnt give a damn about but my paranoia about his exes has reached boiling point. I constantly check his phone for calls or msgs and go ... (141 words)

Its all about her and what she wants, but I cant end it or I will look silly to others!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - I am trapped in the marriage that I never ever thought will turn out to be like this (just married 6 months). Basically the core of the problem are many, among them is that she is so obsessive about money, she sees everything as money, lives and work for money, here you ... (534 words)

Is it normal not to say I love you to someone you lose your virginity to ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Well my mate lost her virginity before me, but she wasnt in a long relationship like me and my bf. She used to always make me feel stupid, and give me the impression that i would lose my bf if i didnt have sex with him. She lost her virginity to someone who she wasnt even going ... (128 words)

Hes a really great guy, and we hit off, but I dont get butterflies about seeing him, or get excited when meeting up, is it because im not over my ex ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Ok, my problem may seem silly, but was hoping for some advice..I met this guy online last week (he lives in my town) and we hit it off so well that we decided to go on a date, it went well, and so far we've seen each other 2 more nights this week already. The thing is that he ... (215 words)

Is my new guy just being overly jealous that I want to meet up with my ex ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I met a really nice guy a few months ago, and although it has had it's ups and downs, we get on well. My ex got back in contact about some furniture he had left around mine and wants to come and pick it up. He also has a front door key that he hasn't returned yet. He is comin... (396 words)

Is it normal for him to be jealous of other guys even though we are just friends with benefits ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - is it normal for a guy in a "friends-with-benefits" situation to be jealous of another guy you might see? i recently told him about guy 2, who all i have done with is make out, and he was saying stuff like "well you can go have sex with..whats his name again?" when i had just ... (159 words)

Is she completely nuts ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - She dumped me because allthough she feels very nice with me she cannot continue to have sexual relationship because I am married but on the other cannot see me only as a friend anymore because we had sex and she never really loved me anyway.We have met a couple of times since ... (173 words)

He says he doesn't want an open relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - i am not sure weather i think this way or anyone in my situation would think the same. we have been dating for the past 1 and half years and we love each other. our relationship started with online dating(we used to live very far) and it led to love. so i got a job and moved to ... (212 words)

He treats me like his property

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I dont feel that am satisfied with my relationship. My boy friend treats me like his property while with other girls he is so nice. I dont know wat to say or do with him?... (35 words)

He's in college and he wants to meet me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - hey guys help me out here, i met this guy on myspace and he wants to meet me,heres the catch...hes in college and im in high school.i dont know what to do!!!... (32 words)

How do I tell him how I feel without coming off looking needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - from mens point of views please!!! i have posted before and i would like some more opinions and advice please from men, as men know how a man thinks. i have been dating a man for a few months now, we live quite far apart but try to meet up a couple of times a week. he cal... (157 words)

Was this mysterious romantic card sent to me by my ex's sister..a woman I have feelings for? Do I ask her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6429 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - Yesterday I received a birthday card from someone called "you-know-who". The hand writing looked rather similar to that of my ex-wifes' sister. Two years ago I mentioned to her that I had feelings for her, but nothing came of it. I have not mentioned it since. I have got a card ... (115 words)

Did I misread the signals? Was he really interested? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

20 September 2006 (F)

- I have liked a guy I work with for a while. But I also liked his friend and they both knew this (but they did not know I liked the first guy too!). Anyway, after a couple weeks, I decided that the second guy was not right for me. But I still liked the first guy. Before the ... (291 words)