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writes: Hello all, i really need some advice, my other half and i have been together for 2 years i was 2 months pregnant when we met and he took both me and the baby on, we had loads of problems with him accepting the baby but now they are 2 peas in a pod, we moved away from our home town and made a life together but now he tells me after 2 years of living together and being a family that he wants to move out, he still want us to be in a relationship but not living together, he wants to move in with his friends, i believe he just wants the best of both worlds but am i being 2 hard on him we are only very young and i don't want to deprive him of his youth but i want our family to remain together, please help thanks Leah Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (21 September 2006):
 I don't see how he can't retain his youth and be living with you, I think from this he has spent the last couple of years being the family man and worried about what he has been missing out on, maybe you should talk to him tell him there is no reason why he can't see his mates and still live with you and the child, but really maybe you should let him move out and see what comes of it, the grass always seems greener on the other side so he will either realise what he is missing out on with the family life with you therefore he may appreciate you more or he may realise that he really doesn't want that family life anymore which if that is the case isn't it better to find out now before you spend a few more years with him, it's always going to be tough because he isn't your babies father therefore you can't hold him to any father responsibilties which is unfair on the baby but don't sit back and let him get the best of both worlds as thats then unfair on you.
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