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writes: hey guys help me out here, i met this guy on myspace and he wants to meet me,heres the catch...hes in college and im in high school.i dont know what to do!!!
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 I would meet him although I wouldn't meet him alone, not only because he is older but also because you met him online you just got to be so careful now and until you feel safe and feel you know abit about him you should continue to meet him in groups and in public.
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reader, kat14  +, writes (21 September 2006):
 I went out with a guy from college when I was only in high school. Its fine if you meet him the first few times with a mate in a busy area just in case. Im sure he's a lovely guy but you gotta be careful.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (20 September 2006):
 Meeting anyone from online is risky, and an age and life situation difference makes you an easy target. You didn't state your age but if you are old enough to actually consider dating this guy be very careful.
If you are serious about meeting this guy then it should be in a very public place with multiple friends around you. Do not go off alone with him for weeks after the first meeting, keep up the group dating (making sure you have at least 1 or 2 friends with you) so you can know his real intentions. Take your time, and get to know him with the safety of your group around you.
If he is only interested in you being an easy target he will lose patience and try to push you into being alone with him, then he will dump you to find someone easier.
If he is really interested in you, he will more then willingly go along with group dating until you feel completely comfortable with him, no matter how long it takes.
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