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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have a memory of something I did as a child..and I need help in dealing with it. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - Firt of all, i love all of your guys advice but PLEASE do not tell me to get help. All i need to know is something. I don't want professional help. I know how i feel and i know with just talking about it online or in person to someone helps. When i was a kid. I know under 10, ... (313 words)

Is it okay to flirt behind my boyfriends back ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - almost everywhere i go i see cute guys.like at the mall and stuff.they began to flirt.i have a boyfriend already.should i keep it on the down low and flirt with other guys behind my boyfriends back?or ignore the flirting by other guys at the mall and other places?... (48 words)

Im spending the whole day with her and Id like some ideas of how to make her feel special and show her what she means to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - Okay so me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 and a half months and every minute i spend with her is fantastic but we met outside of school and having both recently started the academic year in different schools in the year she is starting her courses and i am taking my ... (382 words)

Got low and drunk and emailed a myspace girl a complement... Then my girl found out

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - i was in a relationship with a great girl, we were taking things slow, then she went away with work, when she returned home she anounced that she didn't think it would work out, and as she would be away at various times of the year and she had missed me so much she said she ... (208 words)

If we are to be together, again, I want a committment..not a casual friendship! What do you think he'll do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I was in a relationship for four years, absolutely adored the guy until I found he cheated on me and threw him out. When we were together everything seemed perfect as I am a very caring individual. Well six months later he's contacted me saying he wants to see me again. The ... (162 words)

I like her-she has a bf but I want to win her over...need some tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - Theres a girl i like, she knows i do but shes not looking for a boifriend at the min, trying to reassure her im different, wat can i do to win her over, help please ?... (36 words)

We're both shy co-workers how do we move beyond email?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I really fancy someone at work and we get along well the trouble is we never get the chance to talk to each other without everyone else hearing and we end up emailing each other reguarly. I know he feels the same way about me as I do with him but I dont know how to progress ... (68 words)

Worried if I ask him out..I'll make a fool of myself. Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - Hey, I have recently finished in a long term relationship and so am a little rusty on the whole dating business again, some pointers would be useful. I have started college and there is this guy I like, hes started eating his lunch with me and my mates and when he is talk... (267 words)

My bf left saying I complain too much! Is he really finished with me or doe he just need space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - My ex boyfriend just left me saying he dosent want a relationship if it is that hard. he has lived with me for 2 yrs, and we dated 2yrs before that. He also works with me, so its hard to see him and know hes not comming home. he says i complain too much about him going out, yet ... (153 words)

My and my guy have just had our first major argument. I apologised and he says its fine, but I feel like I have let him down. How can I get him to forgive me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about a month now, and we've just had our first major argument. When we met we clicked instantly and have spent every possible chance together. He's the only person who I feel truly understands me. I've been hurt by guys in the past and am worried ... (161 words)

I want to meet a girl! Tell me what to do...please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - i am 19 old and need a girl but don't know how 2 meet one. pls send me a dating lyrics 2 know what 2 do.... (26 words)

I am falling for my online guy, but dont want to rush things. Advice please!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F)

- Theres this guy i have been talking to for abit on the internet he lives in the next estate but we've never met. I think im starting to fall for him. He is abit older and very good looking so i dunno if i even have a chance. I would like some tips and do's and donts to try and ... (128 words)

What do men really think of women that are good in bed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

25 September 2006 (F)

- What do men really think of women that are good in bed? Recently, I heard that a couple of my ex-boyfriends had told people that Im good in bed and while my friends say I should be flattered I actually feel quite embarressed. Does it not make a woman look dirty and slag... (64 words)

My bf is upset that I need some time to concentrate on my studies. What can i say to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F)

- Hey guys.. well, im dating this guy called pete..and i spoke to him recently about how i cant concentrate on my studies because im spending too much time with him. Petes already left college but im in 6th form/college and im doing my A levels this year, last year i got ok... (248 words)

How can I respond to a letter from a girl? I don't want to bore her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - A girl has wrote a letter for me. It was really long and enjoyed reading it... the thing is i have to write back now and i have never writen a letter before - and i don't want to write anything that she will find boring! i like this girl and i think she might like me a bit but ... (130 words)

Should I be jealous if my girlfriend massages another man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - Should I be jealous if my girlfriend massages another man? My girlfriend has just started a massage course. This might at first seem like a dream come true. In the course they practice on each other. Most of the students are girls which is just great. It's like a fantasy c... (209 words)

What do people do straight after sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - What do people usually do after sex? Do they both go clean themselve before cuddling up, or do they go straight to cuddle?... (23 words)

Is it normal to feel uncomfortable with the idea of my bf's semen to be inside me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - Is it normal to feel uncomfortable with the idea of my bf's simen to be inside me? Because I'm on the pill now, my bf and I started to have sex without a condom on. I'm not concern about my bf having STD. However, I'll be honest and admit I'm not ready to get pregnant (still w... (140 words)

I don't think I am in love with my fiance anymore. I feel like I am staying with him for the sake of our daughter. What should I do? Any advice welcome.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we got engaged a year ago. He has a 6 year old daughter from a previous relationship who does not see her mother and who I consider to be my child. We have had our ups and downs, but for the most part we get along, we spend time ... (208 words)

I really like this boy, but fear of being hurt is stopping me from asking him out. What should I do? Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

25 September 2006 (F)

- hiya. well i just wondering ive kinda fallin in love with this lad hes 14 im 13 by the way and ive liked him 4 over a year. I've never felf anything like this and ive had loads of crushes in the past but i no this isnt that. i love him so much i think about him 24/7 and i no he ... (169 words)

My bf has just lost interest in sex since I moved in with him. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

25 September 2006 (M)

- After moving in with my bf he hasn't been very interested in sex - which wasn't the case beforehand. I posted a question here previously about this and got some good advice. Since then I have realised that my bf doesn't seem to value sex as a good use of his time. Everytime ... (424 words)

I like this boy a lot. He is 17 and I told him I was 15. I feel bad for lying as I am only 14. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - i Like this boy ALOT but hes 17.. and i only just turned 14 but the thing is i told him i turned 15, but i only said that becuz i thought he would stop chatin to Me because im too young.. But hes really sweet and i feel really bad that im liein to him.. what should i do..... (60 words)

Married for 30 years, I find out he has had an affair with a girl 20 years younger.. And everyone knows!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - My husband of 30 years has just had an affair! He moved out 6 months ago, saying the relationship was not working, and then I found out he was seeing a woman 20 years younger, is living with her, and has been on holiday with her. Everyone we know knows about the affair. I... (105 words)

My bf told me he slept in the same bed with 2 female mates, he does not understand why I am annoyed. Please tell me I have a right to be pi***d off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - recently me and my boyfriend were having a discussion about a friend of mine who slept in the bed with one of her best guy mates ( nothing happened) she has a boyfriend and i told my boyfriend that id disagree with that even tho they are close friends, its still not on for ... (200 words)

Why is my boyfriend dragging his feet over my pressing engagement?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i have beeen dating 22 months. i am ready for an engagement but he is dragging his feet. he tells me that when i get over two of the problems that he has with me...then he will move forward. the two problems that he has with me are: he says that i always want ... (255 words)

I am 17 and falling for my dads girlfriends brother, what should we do? We can't just turn our feelings off.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

25 September 2006 (?) - i am a 17 year old girl and recently went on holiday to spain with my dad his girlfrien and all her family. thing is me and her brother got really close just like talking and enjoying eachothers company. now we are back in england and we've swapped numbers, texted each other ... (125 words)

We are stuck in different stages of a realationship and I feel bestrayed and let down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - O.k., I know there are stages in a relationship, but I am stuck in one and cant seem to move on. I still am in the beginning stages and he seems to have gone into the familiarity stage. You know, where there is less love speeches and gestures. I am insecure about how he ... (73 words)

I am on the pill and on my period, but could I still be pregnant? The signs are there.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - i was wonderin what the chances are of being on the contraceptive pill and still having a period but being pregnant? i av been on the pill for 8 months but i am getting symptoms of pregnancy, weight gain mainly on my stomach, sickness, being tired all the time, back pain,... (79 words)

My bf is a non EU resident. His visa has expired. Is getting married a good idea, as I don't want to lose him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - i dnt no if this ques is suitable for this site so bare with me! i av bin with my current bf 4 9 months and we realy love each other however he is a non EU resident who has been living in the england for around 4/5 yrs his visa has run out and he is havin problems getin a... (151 words)

How do I tell my man that I want to be with him? I am scared of pushing him away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - i am currently involved with a man who has been separated from his wife for close to three years (living in two different countries now)i really like this guy and would really like to be in a permanent relationship with him, just how do i go about letting him know that i want ... (104 words)

My boyfriend is obessed with "big-tit-porn"... And I'm a size B

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - My boy friend and I are both 21 years old, and we have been together for 3 years. He has a major obsession with huge breasted womem, (while I am just a B-cup). All of the porno he watches contains girls that I could never compare to, and I have a big problem with that. He threw ... (109 words)

I cannot get my ex out of my head. It's even harder now because he has a new girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - im not sure but i think im falling 4 this guy, ive known him 4 2 years and we used to talk and we liked each other but i ended up falling in love with his work colleague. We then broke up (me and the colleague) and then i found out he had got himself a girlfriend and i got ... (112 words)

Why has my fiancee stopped giving me any affection? She is always pushing me away.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - hello i am a 21 year old male my fiance is 19 and i have a few simple questions that i have been racking my brain trying to figure out i have about drove myself to the point of crazy !!!! anyways me and my fiance have been togather for 5 years we have a 8 month old boy and well ... (257 words)

My boyfriend is away for a month. How do I cope without seeing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F)

- i am missin my bf so much He is away for just over a month and I kinda feel like my life has stopped I feel like i have tried everything hypnosis taking classes going out with friends the works but i still feel low and emotional People around me are loosing paitence with me... (124 words)

I am 16 and have a boyfriend, but I am in love with a 19 year old guy. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I really badley need help ive loved a 19 year old since january im only 16 the problem is ive just got this new bf who is sooooo amazing and i love him. i thought the 19 year old didnt like me as more than a mate but i got a text message off him 2 days ago saying he liked me ... (124 words)

Is it possible to change somebody's drinkink habits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - How much drink is acceptable in a week. My boyfriend loves beer - he used to drink about 5 or 6 cans in the evening but was able to hold it really well. A few nights he went out clubbing and got very drunk and he cheated on me. We broke up but a year later he is begging ... (200 words)

Can you be best friends with the person you have just broken up with?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - How can you be best friends straight after a break up which your g/f made? i don't want to feel bad by not being her friend, but it seems hard to see her as a friend..especially saying best friends staright after a break up, i don't get it... (48 words)

I'm so confused, one min he is saying he loves me, the next hes telling me about all the chicks he has seen lately. whats going on????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

25 September 2006 (F)

- I am a 17 year old girl. I have really deep feelings for my best friend who I have been friends with for about 6 months now. When I first met him, I thought I had feelings for him more then a friend but decided to just wait, get to know him, and develop a friendship first. We ... (478 words)

Does anyone else here find long distance relationships really hard and depressing??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - Does anyone else here find long distance relationships really hard?? And depressing?? I usually see my boyfriend once a fortnight, but he couldnt make it this weekend for what I thought was a pretty stupid, unimpressive reason. We were going to go away the weekend after bu... (175 words)

I have been cheated on in every relationship. I am now with a new guy, how can I make sure I don't get hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - Im 25 and every relationship i have had my partner has cheated on me. I was with someone for 4 years after 2 we got engaged , then something in my stomach kept niggling saying sumthing between us wasnt right. I am ashamed of what i did but i had to for my own sanity - i found ... (383 words)

My husband spends less and less time at home with me and my son. How can I get our life back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I am married for last 9 years and has a kid(aged 8). I am a busy executive(works close to 12 hrs @ times) and heads home staright after work.For past 1 month, I am seeing my hubby spending very less time at home, with me and my son. He loves to either go out with his frei... (89 words)

My friend knows I am in love with him, he gives me mixed signals but just does not seem to care. I really don't know what to do anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - Hi, Im in a proper mess, im desperatly in love with my friend and he knows this, and I dont expect him to be in love with me back. It just no matter how much I tell him (in a text) he never comments, never runs a mile and well its destroying me now. Im so down and fed up ... (202 words)

Are we in a rut... Or more than a rut?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I am going out with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years we are now deciding to buy a house together. He got very drunk one night and ask me if I thought we "Light one anothers fire" I didnt answer and ask him if I light his fire and he said sometimes. He also told me that he loved ... (134 words)

Torn between two brothers!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - dear agony aunt, I'm 15 years old and i have a problem that has been dragging on for months. There is this guy, he likes me very much, and i like him, but i'm not aloud to date until i am 16. He happily agreed to wait until i was 16 to date me, and has waited for about 7 mont... (163 words)

We broke up, now he's depressed and I feel guilty!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F)

- I finished with my lover because our relationship wasn't going anywhere. I was with him 2 years but i wanted more then what he could give me. Now he keeps txting me saying he cant sleep and that he is suffering from depression,i feel guilty and i dont know what to do? I told h... (77 words)

Why do I keep getting pregnant to men I don't really love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I am 23 years old and have a 4 year old child. At the age of 17 I had an abortion and it was a really harrowing experience as I didn't tell anyone. Then earlier this year, I had another, but this time felt able to tell family and friends, although it still was incredibly ... (159 words)

Boyfriend of 1 month tells me he still lives with his ex. He says this is purely for financial reasons. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend, of one month, came up at the weekend, and he told me that he still has to live with his ex, he said it is over, but she stills wants to be with him. he says they sleep in separate beds, and he is only still they because he cant afford to move out. What do i do, ... (65 words)

How do I shut off my feelings???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I am in a university position in the housing department. I advise the resident advisors (house moms, if you will) and i have fallen for one of our residents. He has also reciprocated feelings for me, and knows im not supposed to date him as per ethical standards of the ... (115 words)

Does he care about an US or is he just curious??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - My ex of 6 years and I have been done for 4 months. He has a new gf, of 3 months. He told me that he was tired of me complaining about bills, work and my debt. We lived together for two years. We didnt have sex for a year or so. I thought that we had a huge problem. I thought ... (426 words)

Is my husband depressed? And what can I do to help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I am beginning to wonder whether my hubby is depressed and need to know what I can do to help. Its almost like he has become stuck in a rut doing a job an hour away from where we live and it is not stimulating him. He makes excuse after excuse about not finding a new on... (461 words)

My girlfriend has a male friend. I have no problem with this, but he keeps stepping on my toes.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend has a guy friend, I have no problem with this. But this guy is stepping on my toes. Always buying things for her, writing poems, etc. It feels like he's moving in on my territory. I try not to feel pressured. I don't want to be possessive. I feel like I constantly ... (134 words)

Shou;d her and I start a relationship, again? My friends, family say NO..what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I started dating in HighSchool and dated for 4 years. She broke up with me because she needed "independence" but yet started dating another guy a couple months later. I hated her for several months and even forgot her and then we started talking. After a ... (201 words)

We are friends from work and he hugs me, he tickles me. He has a gf with 2 kids! Is this guy gay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - I have a friend, we met at work, after a while we got close, he would hold my hand, tickle me because he liked how i laughed, hug me from behind, he would pull me onto his lap, embrace me, even once i felt him hard behind me. he's got a girlfriend with two kids, he once told ... (79 words)

I feel like she has me hanging around until she meets someone else? Am I wasting my time, here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - in the begining of july i got back with my x girlfriend after being broke up for almost a year and a half (i broke up with her and couple months later i noticed i loved her too much and regreted it and contacted her and she was with someone else, and i always regreted it) ... (566 words)

Why do I keep on running for Zack?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I enjoy running a lot, no matter how slow I am, I just love the feeling of finishing marathons that I work really hard on. Lately, when I run and, near the finish line..I tend to think about my ex and say to myself, "I'm doing this for 'Zack'!" (I'm 16 years old) Although... (158 words)

I led a very promiscuous past, now I do not enjoy sex with men I love. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - when i was in my early teens i slept with lots of guys.i think i did this because i wanted to feel loved by a man and my father wasnt around. i think now that iv gotten over that point in my life it is affecting my relationships. i dont enjoy sex and i cant be happy with men ... (81 words)

I constantly look down on myself. Could it be because I think my father hates me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - help! i think my father hates me. my father wasnt around my whole life so when i was about thirteen i decided to meet him. over the next few years iv seen him maybe 3 times. he dosnt call on my birthday christmas or ever. he loves his other children and sees and talks to them. ... (151 words)

Should i be concerned that he can blow hot and cold with affection so frequently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months, this is my first relationship (i am 25), i am totally inexperienced whereas he has been in six relationships, two of them for two years. I don't know if i am being pathetic or selfish, but a lot of things have been upsetting me and ... (762 words)

Ladies...what's the best thing to use for maximum protection and comfort, when menstruating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - hi, im 16 and im goin to a theme park thats a good 5 hours away, w/ my bf and some of his family. The problem is i think im gonna be on my period and that would suck so bad, i would feel so weird like asking to stop and stuff and needing to go to the bathroom a lot if im heavy. ... (117 words)