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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My boyfriend has been using my computer to look at porn. I confronted him and made things worse, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year and a half. im 18 and he is 21. for a while we seemed to be drifting apart, but lately its been normal. Yeasterday i found out that he has been looking at porn sites on my computer that i use for school. He knows that this ... (73 words)

How many times have you fallen in love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - A question to everyone... How many times have you fallen in love? I mean completely fallen in love - physically, emotionally, and mentally...? My reasons for asking: I have experienced this twice in my lifetime. The first time wasn't until the age of 27, and the second ti... (230 words)

My boyfriend is leaving the country for 6 months and it is making me depressed, plus I am taking my anger out on my friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F)

- I don't know what's wrong with me lately. My bf's planning to leave the country for 6 months. I wasn't happy at first that he's leaving. Then I changed my mind and think it's a good idea for him to have this experience to grow as a person. It's about a month away now, and I'm ... (260 words)

Their tickling really gets me down, how do I get them to stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - My sister started dating in march and im really on edge about the way they behave when im alone with them,i live at her place at the moment.he was very touchy feely from the beginning,when she popped out anywhere hed use any excuse to tickle my sides or feet.at first it was ... (183 words)

I went through my boyfriends phone and found texts from another girl. What do I say to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - hi there! i dont know what to do!! i went into my bf's phone and read his texts which i know i shouldnt have done but his phone has been going off at all times of the day and night and i was interested to know who had been txting him all the time. i read a text from a number he ... (232 words)

How can I tell if my co-worker wants me to initiate sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - how can i tell if my co-worker wants me to make a move for us to have sex? we both seen pictures of each other naked and a video of me naked. her pictures had use of sex toys. she has a boyfreind and i am married. but we both are starting to e-mail each other whe... (76 words)

My boyfriend wants to date others to see if I am what he really wants. How am I supposed to react to that?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I am in a realationship with someone that i love with all my heart. He loves me but wants to date others to make sure I am truely what he wants. How do I react to that? any suggestions?... (39 words)

Is she playing games with me, am I being paranoid or am I just ignoring the fact that she doesn't like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - I met agirl a while ago while working on a farm in another country. She's just turned 17 and I'm turning 22. I fell madly in love with her straight away and I felt she liked me back, before I spoke to her I'd catch her looking at me or giggling at my jokes. With any other girl ... (238 words)

Why are my cliquey workmates treating me so badly? I am so puzzled!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I got a job 2 years ago but seems like only a couple of months. The previous post holder seems to have left under a cloud and her name is never mentioned except she had a big row with one of the two bosses. I asked one of the bosses, the one she had the row with, why he didn't ... (476 words)

I cant get over my boyfriends old habit of downloading porn, even though he no longer does it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. when we first got together he used to download porn off the internet. it didnt really worry at first but after a few weeks it really started to bother me. i told him how i felt about it and he promised me he wouldnt do it again and ... (116 words)

I love my hardworking guy but how do I get my rich parents to accept him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - my problem is strange.a guy loves me madly and he's ready to do anything to be with me.he is middle class but very hardworking and had worked too hard till now to make a good career but couldnt succeed till today.i know that no one will work for a girl like he does.he has ... (217 words)

Sex with the ex feels so good, even though I am cheating on my boyfriend. Please help me understand it's not right.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Please give me some advise! I am currently involved with this guy we been together for couple of years,but we recently been arguing alot and for little things.I feel that he may be cheating on me. About a month ago was speaking of this with my EX-Husband whom I have stayed ... (117 words)

I like this guy (my brother's boss) who is much older. Does age matter and should I have my brother hint to this fellow, I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hello Before I start I want to say a few things to get the picture strat.I have a son thats 8 1/2, he is the greatest! and my life!I 25 very soon to be 26 I not a playboy center fold but i did win Miss Bass lake swimsuit 2003. OK I'm falling for the owner of the company m... (240 words)

I have a boyfriend, but now I am back in contact with my ex husband of 6 years. What can I do? I dont want to hurt anybody.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - i have recently gotten a divorce from a man who i have been with for 6 years. i love him with all my heart and still love him. his work became more important than me and his parents out ranked me. after 2 years of marriage i left. i couldnt come 3rd anymore. now i am dating ... (220 words)

Why is my only friend acting in this way? I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F)

- well, i have been best pals with someome for a long time, but recently she has changed. I phoned her the other day and asked if she was coming out and she said that she had homework and didnt want to and that she was already planning on asking someone else to go out (a guy),... (242 words)

I have fallen in love for the first time, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - im in love with a girl for the first time, what should i do?... (14 words)

I am a girl who prefers to hang with guys, why can't girls understand that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I am someone who likes to hang around with guys, and I hate it when certain girls and women try to talk and hang out with me. (In fact, there are very few that I like, or can tolerate, because I know too many who are mean to me for no good reason, and make me feel miserable!) I ... (93 words)

How do you know if someone is using you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

22 September 2006 (M)

- How do you know if someone is using you?... (9 words)

How can a loser ever win the heart of a stunner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (M)

- Hi I've just started my 2nd year at uni and there's a girl, where one of my friends lives near, who also goes to the same uni as me and similar student bars. I'm not joking she is utterly beautiful, stunning hot etc. and my friends says she is smart and friendly. There's just ... (87 words)

I have strong feelings for my friend, I am now single and she is on a break. Should I make a move and would this be what she wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - i need help! i live with my best friend, who has been in a relationship since we met. and i've been in a relationship since we met, as well. but we had an instant attraction to each other the first time we spoke that couldn't be denied. we both knew it. but since we were ... (334 words)

My friends tell me I am sexy and have something they don't, so why can't I find someone who really loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 598 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - i think im not that look ugly at all, friends tell me im sexy, talented, nice to go with, understanding, loving all this sweet line that i thought might be true.some of my friends get jealous because i have already 2 kids not living with me at the moment because i am working ... (265 words)

I cheated on my husband of 14 years with his best friend. He stayed with me but now I have met someone else. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I have a a problem and don't know what to do about it I have been married for 14 years and have children, I fell in love with my husband's heart he is so giving and wanted to take care of me I was not physically attracted to him physically, but he has just always given me ... (401 words)

Old college friend has made me realise my true feelings for my boyfriend. Should I leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I am currently in a relationship where I have been living with my boyfriend. We have been together over a year now I am starting to think we are not working. we are very different. I have also recently been reunited with an old college friend who is looking good, and is t... (91 words)

The boy I fancy fancies my friend. Can I make him love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I met a boy and i fancy him he touches me but he said he fancys my friend what hould i do to make him love me?... (27 words)

Whilst on holiday, I met a wonderful guy, then had to come back home to my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hiya, Im 19 and I've been in a realtionship now for over 3 years with a guy. He is nice but he has strayed before in the past so im finding it difficult to trust him. He tries to make decisions for me. He does try to control me. I know that he loves me ammensly and he ... (323 words)

Anyone any ideas how I can solve these sexual problems ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - Hi I have abit of a tight foreskin and the tip of my penis is very sensitive. How can i stop it from being tooo sensitive, when my boyfriend is kissing down there it makes me feel uncomfortable and i start to lose my erection. Any ideas what i can do? also, when having sex i fi... (86 words)

Kind of feeling that I want to end the relationship, but I do love her and cant see life without her, but she does act selfish.. What can I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - Me and my fiancee have been together for 13 months now,we are both in our early 30's,when we met we fell in love very quickly.We are supposed to be moving in together at the end of this year.We are also best friends and have a solid relationship, but lately I feel things have ... (333 words)

I used to get on with his family, but now they never invite me over, I feel I have been rejected!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very close. I used to get on with his family, but now they no longer invite me around. I was even excluded from his birthday celebration, even though the year before they had invited me. I have confronted him about it, told him how upset I am about it, b... (159 words)

Chatted for 4 years online, never met, I really care for her, not sure how she feels, what should I do!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 580 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - Hi, For almost 4 years now I have known a girl solely online and I have never met her in my life. I have had small phone conversations but nothing more. I talk to her everyday using an instant messaging client online. I live in Australia, she lives in New Zealand. Rece... (169 words)

Married 15 years, he's cheated twice, decided to make a go of it, but whats to stop him doing it again!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hi I've been married for 15 yrs and husband cheated twice. Once 10yrs ago and now again we've now decided to try and make a go of it.But I feel betrayed and not sure if I still what to stick around I feel I cannot trust him its like I see him as a total diffrent person. You ... (131 words)

Cant understand why I suddenly feel like cheating when not with my girl ???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now, we are happy together and things have been going very well. She says she is inlove with me and I feel that I am inlove with her. But there is one major problem that I just cant figure out! I am happy and I really want to stay ... (153 words)

How can I make my boyfriend aware that I need to feel more secure when we are apart without sounding demanding!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - How do I talk to my boyfriend about how i need to feel more secure and wanted in the relationship? That i need more than a couple of texts a week to feel like he actually wants me. When he was pursuing me he was contacting me daily and calling and doing sweet things, an... (259 words)

Is this normal ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Me and my bf had sex without a condom, whilst i was on my period (time of the month), i was wondering, if this is ok, it was the first time we did this, we have been together a year... im worried now.. is this normal??????... (46 words)

Im 7 months pregnant, at first he was supporting me, now he blames me and I dont know what to do!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - hi i am nearly 7 months pregnant i am 22 and my boyfriend is 33 he has 2 kids by a previous partner and this is my first i was told at 16 that i would unlikely concieve naturally but i did and i am now excited my problem is that at first my boyfriend told me he didnt want ... (383 words)

My friends girlfriend has fell for somebody else, now she plans on marrying her lover. How can I break this news to my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - Hi.. I have a frend who was goin around wth a gal for more than 2 yrs now. Virtually they wer engaged n both parties agrred to their relationship. But that gal realised dat she was not serious wth him. And she fell for a frend of his so called lover. Now both that girl and... (96 words)

I confessed my undying love for my friend, but he is totally unresponsive. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hi, recently I confessed my undying love to my best male friend, he is such a lovely guy it was bound to happen at some time. My problem is my friend is being unresponsive with regards to how I feel about him and I dont know what to do anymore. He stated when we first met he ... (206 words)

My ex-boyfriend is having sex with my mom. How do I get closure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - My ex-boyfriend is having sex with my mom.I am having a hard time dealing with this since I have to see them both. I don't want him back, but I don't want my mom to have him either.I am jealous that mom is in a relationship. Recently, I've begun trying to tempt him into having ... (73 words)

I was with a guy 12 years younger, but we broke up because we wanted to grow seperately. Is there still a chance for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - Hi, I broke up a month ago with a guy 12 years younger. I was his first long term relationship. It lasted a year and nine months. He left me suddenly. I'm 37 he's 25 but we look the same age. We still love each other like crazy, we're each other's best friend and keep in cont... (147 words)

We broke up because he had feelings for another girl, now he wants to resume contact, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I need help i was with a guy for two great years. we ended up breaking up cause he started having feelings for another gir and i guess he stoped loving me.I wanted to keep in touch but he did not semm to. But now he want he calls me but only cause he still want to keep in touch ... (82 words)

Is it possible to be in love with your boyfriend and like someone else?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 492 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3years but i like someone else that i have known for 6months. is it possible to be in love with your boyfriend and like someone else? ... (40 words)

I had sex with my best friends boyfriend while she was asleep in the same bed. She seemed ok with it at first, now we hardly talk.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - i got really close to one of my co-workers and were like best friends and i considered her almost like a sister i never had. we go out with our other co-workers and my best friends boyfriend. so one night we got really drunk at the club and i ended up sleeping over my best ... (403 words)

I'm 17 he's 40+ with 2 kids and a wife, is it wrong to have feelings for him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - im 17 he's 40+. he's perfect man, kind,gental,loveing,cuddly,makes you feel wanted.he is a very hands on person which is great and he made a move on me(a very effectionate kiss on the lips). i didn't mind and i realy enjoyed it. but he slightly tied up with 2 kids and a wife. i ... (72 words)

I play games on a website, but my family don't like it. Should I stop playing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Im Playing on this website.they start to say bad words.my famliy watch's me play the game on the coumpter and walk past me and look.if they saw them say a bad word.ill be in big trouble.should i still play it.or stop playing it so i dont get in trouble?... (50 words)

I feel like my best friend will neglect me when her old best friend comes back on the scene.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Well i have a bestfriend.she had a best best bestfriend before me.her friend moved away.if her friend came back she might stop being my friend and start being her old bestfriend.they might be friends and ill be left out.im worried should i just let it go and stop being ... (79 words)

Is it normal that my period is late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - is it normal that my period is late...its been 34 days since my last one. i am just looking for some reassurance that this is normal seeing as how i am typically regular and usually have a 27-29 day cycle. so i realize that i am not that far off right now, but i just moved up ... (145 words)

How do I know if this boy likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - me and this boy are in a diffrent class.but we are in the same grade.i like him but i dont know if he likes me what should i do?i really want to go out with him.... (36 words)

I have met this incredible guy, he is amazing. Problem is.....he is 7 years older.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 597 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hi guys! Got a bit of a problem here. I'm seventeen, and I've fallen for my 24 year old friend. Wait, don't panic. We've been good friends for quite a while and I'm pretty sure the feeling is mutual. He's..just incredible. An amazing friend that I'm so lucky to have met. M... (292 words)

I have feelings for a friend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - have this lady that i am friend with in school, but i am starting to have feeling for her but were both busy so i wanted to know how end the frinedship in a positive.... (35 words)

Boyfriend threw me out because he wanted space, his tenant takes advantage yet is still living there. Why does my boyfriend treat me like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I lived with my boyfriend, he threw me out because he wanted space, wanted to do his own thing and I did his head in apparently. It was a very hard time for me. We got back together again and though he can be loving, he can also say hurtful things, be quite obnoxious on occas... (120 words)

Why is it so hard to ask a friend on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - Hi all. Been a regular and even given a few advice of my own. I am at the moment unhappy and tired of being alone. I am in my mid 20's and never really had a long term relationship. Longest been 1 month. I have never had a one night stand and never done anything I ... (264 words)

Hes a true sweetheart and I really want to help him, but hes so distant, should I just be patient ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Question: He started being distant, I love him and don't know what to do! I was dating a guy for 4 months. Everything was perfect in the beginning, but I moved about 2 months into it. I'm only an hr away so we still managed to see each other even though he doesn't have a c... (665 words)