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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Never been kissed....what do i do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (M) - hi, My problem is im 15 and have never properly kissed a girl. I reaaly want to but i just cant find the courage to do it incase im rubbish or whatever.. What do i do?... (37 words)

Can tickling cause long-term damage??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 months has a huge fetish for tickling feet,i indulge him, but lately hes been doing it for longer and longer and im worried about the effect it has afterwards. Recently ive needed to pee frequently for a few hours afterwards and also i get cramps in my stomach ... (81 words)

How do I ask this boy out??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - I'm in secondary school and there's this boy i really like, he's in my tutor group but i dont now if i should ask him out. What i should say if i ask him out??... (35 words)

My dad has just adjusted to my older bf...but now im pregant!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 603 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - I recently wrote in about me and my 27 year old boyfriend. My dad is just coming around to the fact but now im pregnant. What should i do? Please help, any advice welcome. ... (34 words)

Is he telling the truth??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 610 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - Why would a guy i like, that my best friend dated, say that he had sex with her but didn't cum? What should i do because my best friend only told me that she gave him a blow job so... i dont know if he is telling the truth... (50 words)

Dating my best friends ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - So i really like this guy. But my best friend dated him like for a year. We have talked on the phone for a while last night and i dont know if i should tell my friend if we talk. When they broke up she told me i could date him if i wanted to but was she telling the truth. I ... (79 words)

How to get over my ex even though I dumped him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 610 days ago

9 September 2006 (F)

- I finished with my lover about a month ago because things weren't working out and i was feeling frustrated.I deleted his txts and didn't answer his phone calls.Anyway,i thought i was over him until i saw him the other day in town,i was in my car so he didn't see me.The problem ... (101 words)

School reunion is causing me stress

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 606 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - About 4 months ago an old friend got a hold of me through one of those reunion websites and we talked or texted each other every day. Then we had our class reunion and we spent evedryday that I was back home together. He is a great guy and I truley have always loved him even ... (250 words)

I want men, I want women...oh so confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - For the past couple of years or so, I've felt sexually attracted to women. Initially, and still, it is usually to women that I feel are "better" than me in some way (prettier, better hair, better clothing, better personality, etc.) It's now gotten to the point where I feel ... (427 words)

Boarding school romance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (M) - Can anyone give me pointers for a young relationship, i am in a boarding school, which means i see the girl alot of the time, should i be taking things fast or slow, and should i be making the first moves. ... (41 words)

I have lost interest in her because of her breasts!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

9 September 2006 (M) - My gf and i have been in a relationship for over 3 months. I am begining to loose interest in her becasue she has very small breasts. This sounds really immature but I can't help but feel it. I really like her and she has the best personality and is quite pretty but my mates ... (66 words)

I am lost over this guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - I have been seeing and sleeping with a guy that I went to college with and recently met up with after a few years. We hit it off right away and have had so much fun together the last 3 months. He told me a thousand times that he was single. I happened upon something that ... (145 words)

What to send my crush!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 610 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - I'm really good friends with/kind of have a crush on a guy who currently lives overseas. For my birthday he sent me a great surprise package with a present inside. So, I planned on sending him a package for Christmas. But the other day I was out shopping and saw the fun... (107 words)

Depressed about life and my marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - I dont know if this is a questoin or just realy a vent. But Ive been battling with sever depression over the past 5 years it seems, Since I had a misscaraige of twins, I wound up getting a part of my inners torn out from it to. After I had my second child a few years after ... (286 words)

Oral sex tips for teens!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - heya, i'm a teenager and was wondering what you would say the usual age for giving oral sex was? i feel ready and have been with my steady boyfriend for 4 months and been close friends for a year before that, i really love and trust him. we hav'nt had sex yet but have played ... (80 words)

I am just worried!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 610 days ago

9 September 2006 (F)

- I know my boyfriend loves me as he tells me all the time and shows me in so many ways. I love him very much also. But i constantly worry over silly little things, thinking that he is going to go off me and something is going to go wrong etc. I have been hurt badly in the past... (92 words)

Bleeding after sex and worried

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - I lost my virginity a while ago, and my fiancee and have had sex numerous times, but last night I bled a little after sex. What does this mean?... (30 words)

How do I get him to notice me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 610 days ago

9 September 2006 (F)

- hey, im fifteen and there's this guy at school who's in the year below me, and he's my mate's mate. I met him at my friend's birthday in March and we didn't exchange names with each other(even though i found out what his name is), but we seemed to click because we were all ... (121 words)

I went away and my boyfriend has gotten my mate pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 610 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - hi, ive just been on holiday for 2 months to celebrate my mom and dads engagment party. when i came back i found out my best friend was pregnant with my boyfriends baby. they said sorry and my boyfriend said he still loves me and keeps sending me roses and messages but i s... (62 words)

We are going in different directions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 610 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - please help me, i dont know what to do now. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we have been freat, we never fall out or anything until recently.. we have just started further education and there are loads of people we know from past years. He had said to ... (171 words)

He calls me fat and tells me I'm immature! Not sure where I stand with him, anymore. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 610 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - Well I have been with my boyfriend for just over 7 months now, and i really love him. but recently we have been arguing really badly over stupid things, he hates one of my friends and he says nasty things when i have been with her, we have spoken about this and he says its ... (170 words)

My bf is visiting from abroad and has only called me twice. Am I not reading some bad signs here or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend lives abroad and came home to visit recently.in the two weeks he's been here i've seen him only twice and i always call him and he doesn't return my calls.I'm begining to feel like I'm stalking him. Am i not reading the signs?.what should i do?... (48 words)

I can't tell him I like him because I don't know how he feels. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - well i went on holiday and met this boy there called ????? and we were really close mates and then we went to alton towers with the group from the holiday and on the coack back he told me he really liked me and then he left 3 days b4 the holiday finished coz he was being sick ... (108 words)

Does he like me or is he just being friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F)

- i dont know what to do i dont know how to tell if this guy likes me. when we are on our way to college he will ask me what i have lesson wise and when i open my folder he will lean across my shoulder to look at it. he waves at me from across the room and always says hi ... (109 words)

After 9 months, she e-mails me but I responded in anger. I am still hurting..what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (M) - well i'm a 30 yr old fireman who recently ended a long, loving relationship..she was younger than i (23) , but we were engaged and had bought a house..i found some pictures of her with another man and i initially broke it off..after a few weeks i decided it was too important ... (307 words)

My bf maturbates over the entertainer Jake Shears! He denies being gay so what's wrong with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - Hi there... I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 22. Recently he's become obsessed with Jake Shears from the Scissor Sisters, spending time on the Internet masturbating over photographs of him. He denies ever being gay when I asked him, and said he fancies the guy - a contradictor... (98 words)

I'm 14..how do I get a date with my 13 year old neighbor?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - I fancy my neighbour who is 13 and i am 14. the majority of the time he acts like he fancies me. i want to go out with him but im not sure how he truely feels about me. please help me get a date with my neighbour... (48 words)

Why does wife's sexual past still bother me after 10 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 610 days ago

9 September 2006 (M) - Why does wife's sexual past still bother me after 10 years?... (11 words)

My bf had an affair with a co-worker and I am in so much pain. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 608 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for 5 years and I found out 6 months ago that he was having an affair with a married, older co-worker in his new job. I found out by accident, and it had gone on for a month at this point. He told me he was having problems and was confused ... (290 words)

How can I help my depressed Mom and make her happier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - Please help me. I am 16, I have always known that my mum had a hard childhood and i knew that through her life at times she has been depressed. She was a single mum looking after me but now she is married, and today my step dad told me that she is still very much depressed and ... (136 words)

17 and fancy a married man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - I'm 17 and have liked a particular guy for 3 years. The problem is he is married, is 39 and now has a baby. His wife works away and I'm often round there and am tempted to make a move. I think he likes me -he shows me loads of respect is quite flirty. I can't stop thinking ... (87 words)

My gf of 5 years admitted that she slept with her female friend and now is doubting her sexuality! Please help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (M) - I am 41 and my girlfriend is 30. My girlfriend has admitted to me that she slept with another woman (her close friend) I have been in a good strong relationship with her for 5 years and everything was fantastic. At first I thought she just wanted to tick a box as she has always ... (298 words)

Yasmin pill advice, should I carry on with the next pack straight away and what happens if I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - Hey, just a quick one.. I am on the pill currenly and have been on the pill (Yasmin) for like 6 months. I have a concern though. I've got 3 more pills before i have to take my 7 days "break". However, i am planning to skip my period this month. If i immediately cont... (81 words)

My 16 year old sister is dating a 45 year old and says shes wants to marry him!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 602 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - I'm 21 and my sister is 16 years old. Recently I found out that she's been dating a 45-year-old man, which I feel uneasy about. She says there's nothing sexual going on, and that he's not been pressuring her for sex etc., and they've been dating for 2 weeks now. She also... (122 words)

Should I stay with the guy who loves me but has no drive, or try out the new guy ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - Dear All, I've written a couple of times already about this problem, but it's just got worse - please help!! I have a boyfried who loves me very much - we have been dating for 2 months, but he loved me for 3 years beforehand. In the past, he was quite obsessive about me,... (775 words)

Should I stay or should I go!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

9 September 2006 (F)

- Should i stay or should i go? My husband of 7 years told me six weeks ago that he was unhappy in our marriage. As with all couples we had a few problems but we had been talking about starting for a family soon. turns out he isnt sure if he wants a family and said he does... (166 words)

I want things to be like when we first met!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - ok my boyfriend and hace been off and on for 4 months now and lke i get the feeling hes bored with me and i jst want him to like me, the way he did when first met how can i do this?... (47 words)

My affair guy has announced he is marrying his girlfriend!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - I am married woman having an affair for the last year with a wonderful man. We are both besotted with each other. He has had a stormy distance relationship for the last 5 years and his girlfriend has been putting a lot of presure on him to get married. They recently went on ... (165 words)

I have a sexual problem that my doctor says doesnt exist please.. Please help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

9 September 2006 (M) - I have a sexual problem and my doctor wouldn't help me. I almost feel like I'm imagining this as my doctor wouldn't help me and he basically said it was in my head. It's so personal that it's difficult to explain or see anyone about it. one of my testicles basically doesn't ... (259 words)

Is it wrong to use this guy to make babies? Trapping him as a father?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 607 days ago

9 September 2006 (F)

- I am a confident, intelligent, and independent 21 year old woman. I work full time, i am also a part-time university student (finishing my degree in 6 months). I own my own car and have recently moved out of my parents house and have had no trouble creating a lovely home for... (254 words)

It seemed like fate brought us together, but now though was I only a summer affair ? Confused dont know what to do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - ok this is going to be long but ill try to make it short. I know this guy lil over two years and i think I’m in love with him. when I first met him it was when I was junior in high school and he was senior. Soon after I met him strange things started to happen ..Like we started ... (622 words)

Am I supposed to do anything different with a non circumcised guy ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - Hello. I'm an American woman, so I'm used to guys being circumcised. However, recently began a relationship with a British guy (living over here now) and I've come to find that the norm in the UK (and most countries apparently) is not to be circumcised. This isn't a pr... (95 words)

Im only nineteen and think I could be holding my older guy back? what do you think ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - Hello, I'm the sister of someone on here and this site looked nice so I thought I'd try it out! I've just got a question, mainly for men I suppose. I'm currently dating a guy who is eight years older than I. We were friends for years, the relationship is fantastic, could... (271 words)

I go down on her so why won't she reciprocate?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (M) - Ok me and this girl have been dating a couple months now. At first she said she didn't like getting oral sex. But one night while making out she said I could. Since then she has wanted me to do it almost everytime before we have sex. I have dated quite a few girls and have ... (126 words)

How could I have acted differently ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - I am 16 years old. My problem is this: when I was in my last year of primary school I fell in love with a boy called Skye. He often tried to talk to me and people told me that he fancied me. However when it came to high school I got sent to the local comprehensive and he got ... (129 words)

After a week my period came back, is this normal ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 611 days ago

9 September 2006 (F) - i think i'm might be worrying about nothing but i normally have a regular period cycle each month! i finished my last period a week ,but now a week later it has started again! was just wandering if any1 else has experienced this!... (45 words)